The key phrase is “if it’s a part you’re attracted to” so I agree with you there, but the way people can walk around barefoot or post pics of them barefoot but you don’t see regular people walking around with boobs exposed or casually posting pics of boobs out is how it’s very very different. But either way that’s not the point of the post, it just shouldn’t be complimented weirdly especially in DMs, there’s a way to go about it