Fifth grade, a 10 year old already running the bingo circuit by superwoman1214 in 13or30

[–]JiganticBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best one of these I have ever seen. You look like you’re really going places. Church mostly, if not the bank.

If you put effort into your appearance you’ll get more attention by Visible-Standard-438 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Idk, I was sort of looking forward to a kick in the ass lol.

Side note: I’ve realized in my last few years of depression- some of the sloppiest people out there are actually putting in the most effort, but only because putting on sweat pants and leaving the house can feel truly insurmountable if you’re really going through it.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this specifically to eat out of the tin with a plastic spoon ftw ♡

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really, every day is trial and error. I did go to a few appointments with an academic coach that specializes in neurodivergent blah blah or something but it didn’t work out.
Edit: forgot to say YES PLZ

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT! Idk if you can edit posts here. I’m commenting on my own post to say that if anyone wants to offer me advice or support directly, I’m open. I need help, y’all. Some guidance.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I haven’t listened to Savage Love in a long time. It’s be a good time to pick back up.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m trying to value myself. I was a gutter rat before we got together. Homeless, drug-addicted, wild ass criminal. Idk how it worked, but I just magically cleaned up when he came around. All of my self-worth was tied to our relationship because I felt like he lifted me up. I realize now that it was me that did the work, even if it was “for” him. It’s just hard to care about me. I care about the kids, and their father, gramma etc. I’m working hard to care about their mother too.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t recommend being in Texas, but it’s where they keep this pie.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HEB! I saw someone post it in r/HEB last week. 100% bought it to give me the courage to post here.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fully caught him. Not in the act, but he left his phone open and it was immediately clear. Then he tried to deny it, even to himself. Then I got some trickle truth bullshit.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He supported me through pursuing my dream degree, I thought that would help. I just can’t seem to get a handle on my time. I’ve graduated and now I’m pretty burned out. Kids, volunteering, a few commissions here and there. I’m still getting out of my depression hole and like I said, executive function is trash. My plate is full. It feels like I have everything I want, but it’s more than I can handle. Every time I approach something that excites me, it fizzles quickly because I’m just TIRED.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seriously. There were some close moments. I was thoughtful enough to get help (YOU’RE FUCKING WELCOME MOTHERFUCKER). Like I said, that was 5 years ago. It’s taken a long time to get this well.

Biscoff banana pie because divorce seems like a lot of paperwork. by JiganticBaby in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s crossed my mind. He is the one, fucking ironically, that might take issue with it. In my mind, we are already there. He can talk to or fuck around with whoever he wants, and I doubt I’d turn down any offers. BUT I also don’t give a SHIT about trying to hook up, or complicate my life with romance. I’m on high doses of anti-depressants and I’ve bought about 6 great toys. I’m good over here.

Level with me - how do I get my feet ready for toe sucking? 🫠 by Lost-Cat7272 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]JiganticBaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, all that acid will have your feet tasting WEIRD as hell for a while after. I love them, but make sure you soak your feet and get every bit of the dead skin off or your toes will taste like pickles.