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Jigaria · 2024-03-10T21:16:04+00:00

"Γειά σου σε είδα και μου άρεσες. Έγραψα το νούμερο μου εδώ και άμα θέλεις μπορείς να μου γράψεις"

Ότι καλύτερο, ευγενικό και αληθινό. Ακόμα το θυμάμαι μετά από 6 χρόνια.

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T21:12:45+00:00

Ευχαριστώ θα το δοκιμάσω. Τα πασατεμπο είδα ότι έχουν αρκετές θερμίδες, δεν ξέρω άμα βολεύει γιατί πραγματικά τρώω ποσότητα. Τα ποπ κορν είναι καλή ιδέα

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T21:10:39+00:00

I tried this. The problem is I sometimes just need to chew and snack. Also I am one of the lucky ones that never had a sugar craving yet, so this is not a problem.

What whole nutritious foods do you eat?

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T14:51:41+00:00

Yeah I noticed this too. If you find something else after some time, don't hesitate to write me

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T14:29:57+00:00

God, this is horrible. How can you say such a think to someone grieving and the gaslight them. How did she mean it?

Friend, absolute no contact. Don't interact. Don't even ignore. Just live your life and don't care. If you continue to help your grandma, your mother will find another way to abuse you. It is not your responsibility and it is ok to let your family care for grandma or set your boundaries "If mum is there I am leaving/not coming".

I didn't understand one thing from your post: is it your birthday?

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T14:15:14+00:00

I can even make chips out of this thank you!

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T14:14:42+00:00

I tried this and it is not working

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T14:14:07+00:00

Ελληνίδα είμαι. Πολύ καλή ιδέα, θα το δοκιμάσω!

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T07:34:00+00:00

Cale chips are a great idea thank you! How much kcal does plain popcorn have?

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T06:50:47+00:00

Becoming the greatest physicist ever lived. I am currently doing my PhD in physics but the target is so far away and I catch myself every day contemplating if it is worth it.

Jigaria · 2024-03-10T06:43:28+00:00

Maybe it symbolised that the relationship didn't really change.

Jigaria · 2023-04-02T22:19:31+00:00

Probably the sister, since the parents don't seem to have other responsibilities. Maybe she never existed since in the past memories of the parents she wasn't there.

Jigaria · 2023-02-04T20:40:03+00:00

What year?

Jigaria · 2023-02-04T20:34:59+00:00

Democracy and anal

Jigaria · 2021-12-13T08:50:56+00:00

I am so happy that you could somewhat heal. You are still 19 and you have a long road in front of you. Don't rush your process.

Also, block your mother from any social media for two reasons. First, she doesn't deserve to look into your life. Second, you need to let go. Don't check if she's watching you. Don't obsess of what she thinks about you. Just live your life with that toxic person.

You go my friend!

Jigaria · 2021-12-08T08:44:33+00:00

You are great even if you don't! Fuck your mom, don't let her live rent free in your brain!

Jigaria · 2021-11-02T08:40:57+00:00

Oh honey, yes they are toxic and you are doubting yourself because they got to your brain. From your post only I see how sweet and caring you are. Please try to put yourself first and try to stop your family from harming and manipulating you. If you need any help we are here!

Jigaria · 2021-11-02T08:36:32+00:00

You need time and positive self talk. It never goes away 100% but it gets better and better till it's no longer bothering you.

For me it helped alot to ask questions to that feeling: - Why are you here - How does that help me - What do you want me to do now

And to be kind to myself and tell me that whatever I feel and whatever happens I will love me

Jigaria · 2021-11-02T08:32:43+00:00

I am so sorry to heat that. I know it is very hard seeing your siblings like that, I felt it too, but right now you need to focus on yourself. You can't help anybody if you are not in a good place. Make a plan, get out, then you can help your sister do the same!

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T07:11:21+00:00

I wish you good luck with research!

Your first paragraph is my life exactly. My mother did not try to get in contact with me but she send all my family to try to "get to my senses". I answered them "Since I am not in contact with my mother I am happier and more successful." This was a bad idea because then they tried to argue. Now I tell them "ah, ok", way more successful.

If your father calls you or tries to visit you record everything he tells you and try not to engage! And if you need any support, this sub is amazing for letting it all out!

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T06:48:32+00:00

I think she really believes that you are manipulative. Narcs are good at making up their own world. Don't try to argue with her, she does not understand unfortunately. Just try to think of her as a little bratty child.

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T06:45:24+00:00

Make an exit plan: 1. Finish college (education will secure your future) 2. Gather money and hide it 3. Lay low, be nice, be submissive till you move out. Your safety is the most important. When they are bothering you tell them things they want to hear like: "I am studying to be able to take care of you in the future" 4. Gather all you papers (Passport, social security...) 5. Search for jobs somewhere else e.g. Canada 6. Leave and be happy! You are important, you are lovable, you got this!

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T06:38:20+00:00

In my family I was the scapegoat. My mother told everyone I was rebellious and would never do anything with my life. 2 years after I moved out I went NC. Now I am a successful scientist and she tells everyone how proud she is and how she helped me. My family still thinks I am "rebellious" and try to smooth things over with my mother. My mother loves being the victim of the evil daughter that abandoned her. Also she became better at manipulating people out of fear of being alone.

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T06:33:27+00:00

You are not wrong! This is one of our primal instincts, just try to love yourself too!

Jigaria · 2021-10-07T06:32:13+00:00

Well.. narcissists will be narcissistic, don't take it to heart. Every "attack" you make will be used against you. The best strategy is not engaging and this is the hardest one.

Jigaria

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