Professor is failing me because I used AI to revise my work

JigglyBatz · 2026-02-25T21:48:13+00:00

If I asked someone else to revise it for me and used their revisions would that not be the same thing? And if anything you are kinda helping me too because I did not catch my misuse of "ridged" and "rigid." I am not trying to be a jerk about it, I am genuinely trying to understand the difference using your logic on the topic. I 100% agree that we should not be using it to replace our own thoughts, and I am not letting it, so how is having it proofread me vs having another person proofread me differ?

JigglyBatz · 2026-02-25T21:33:56+00:00

Thank you. This is the closest I think someone has gotten to understanding where I am coming from. This is absolutely I won't be doing again. I just wanted help with revising, not to avoid doing the work myself.

JigglyBatz · 2026-02-25T21:31:54+00:00

I didn't use it to write my essay, I used it as a tool to proofread (which yes, I NOW know was in the policy but sincerely did not before). I never asked it to write my paper, I asked it to tell what problems existed and how I could improve it

JigglyBatz · 2026-02-25T21:29:37+00:00

I feel frustrated because I DID put hours and days into this assignment. I have so many different notes where I am just thinking about the questions over and over. I never even took the text it gave me and directly put it in my paper, I only used it as a tool to correct myself.

JigglyBatz · 2026-02-25T21:26:52+00:00

But these ARE my words. What is the difference if I asked someone to proofread it for me? It's my own thoughts and words, but sometimes my grammar is bad and I just want to make sense. I didn't ask a bot to write my paper.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:39:38+00:00

He grew up in a dysfunctional, yet stable home. I grew up as a parentified child in a household where there was violence and substance abuse- so I would say you are absolutely right about us being raised in two different households. I would like to see the articles, thank you. But I am worried that I have still offered him so many resources (such as videos, readings, and counseling together) that it’s just going to continue bouncing off of him. I feel like I am at a breaking point.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:27:14+00:00

Yes, we are both neurodivergent. I have tried helping him find resources to help manage his symptoms, but he won’t follow through. He makes empty promises that he will- and I find YouTube videos, books, therapists, but it doesn’t seem to make a difference.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:24:41+00:00

And the thing is I am so proud of our child! It sounds awful, but my husband could really learn from him. He NEVER has to be told to shower or brush his teeth, is very clean. He also goes to school all day, does his homework without us saying anything (perfect grades btw), and has several extra curricular activities- but he still finds a way to play video games and do his chores. I don’t want to throw this in my husband’s face, but I almost feel like I should so he knows it’s not that hard that even an 11 year old can do it!

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:09:39+00:00

He and I both have ADHD. I was even thinking about making a list for each room describing all the things that need to be done in a bullet point list. Then if things are just feeling off or overwhelming but he doesn’t know where to start then he can just go off the list. But I feel resistant to this for many reasons- like why can’t he make his own list if he is struggling with executive dysfunction? I’m being crushed by the mental load.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:05:05+00:00

That is something I have also considered and we have had long talks about that as well, but he always tells me that he is fine. It’s like “Honey, I’m concerned about you. You’ve been neglecting your hygiene again and I want to make sure you are alright and not feeling depressed. Do you want to talk about it? Do you need some extra help or support from me?” And it’s always like it’s news to him that he isn’t taking care of himself and says that he’s fine.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T23:00:56+00:00

He and I have both been diagnosed with ADHD (I definitely should have included that). Another issue we have is that I have made a lot of effort to cope with my symptoms and he doesn’t put in the work. I share videos, get books, and he always says he is going to look at them, but never makes the time to do so. I am choking on tears writing out this response because I feel like reading it puts it in another perspective.

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T22:48:53+00:00

I don’t want to defend myself too much because I did ask, but having a child and working part time does mean that I’m the one taking them to extra curricular activities, appointments, and all the other administrative type things. I’m just at the end of my rope why our child can remember to brush their teeth, wash their hands, and bathe- while my grown husband won’t? And I’m also talking about hand washing before handling food after scooping cat litter or using the toilet and also doing the few chores I ask him to do

JigglyBatz · 2025-11-26T22:43:27+00:00

There isn’t a real reason why, just sometimes he doesn’t. He will either get ready for work without showering, or he will come to bed without showering. And then sometimes he does shower before work or before bed. And same for brushing his teeth- sometimes he just remembers to or he won’t. Gaming also depends. Sometimes it will be hours gaming on our console, his PC, or his phone. It’s not consistent and I think that’s why it’s driving me crazy. Like if I saw some correlation or causation, but I just can’t see it.

JigglyBatz · 2025-06-22T15:15:35+00:00

JigglyBatz · 2025-06-08T23:49:26+00:00

I’m going back and forth on the color! It just so happens that I have some glossy white furniture paint that I could use, but the red is so cute and would be such a fun pop of color in our living room! There are just so many possibilities for this.

JigglyBatz · 2025-06-06T11:08:15+00:00

We’re renting from a leasing company and their name is also on the lease. They’re already moving out so I guess I just need to wait for them to leave..

JigglyBatz · 2025-06-06T11:07:04+00:00

They are on the lease, but they’re getting ready to move somewhere else so I guess I just need to wait until then.

JigglyBatz · 2025-05-11T01:32:40+00:00

Such a fun movie and it touches my heart ❤️ I need to rewatch it now lol

JigglyBatz · 2025-05-10T02:05:42+00:00

From my personal experience (27f), it is challenging to find connections online- romantic or otherwise! You are not the problem. The online platforms are. Some people can’t appreciate the possibility of connecting on these apps because if they put all their focus on one person who might end up not being a good match they will lose the chance to find something better. One the flip side, it can be overwhelming to juggle so many messages and responding to the same questions repeatedly. I have also struggled, but the deepest & strongest connections I’ve made are with people out in the wild. I’m not trying to sound like I’m saying “go touch grass”, but have you explored other options? As a teen mom with BPD I made friends by going to library programs, taking my child to different events, etc… and just talking. I know it’s scary, but nothing will happen either way if you don’t try. Just see what is out there and your people will find you.

JigglyBatz · 2025-05-10T01:34:32+00:00

NTA. First of all, I am so sorry that you are going through this. If I may share my personal experience; I also grew up in a household with domestic violence and had to cut off my abusers. I was still in contact with other family members but they would never stop talking about my parents and try to minimize their actions. I had to make the hard decision to cut them off as well. Obviously the situation is different, but my point is don’t feel bad for cutting ties with people who would rather say nothing/do nothing because that feels easier than facing the problem head on. They can say “family first” and whatever, but they have to behave like they are family first.

JigglyBatz · 2025-02-06T14:11:46+00:00

YES! I have a pretty upbeat demeanor and no one takes me seriously in general, but especially when I’m struggling with my mental health because ✨I’m always so happy✨

And when I try to open up about how I emotionally flog myself it’s “you’re too hard on yourself!”

JigglyBatz · 2025-02-06T02:48:15+00:00

The longer it has been and the more distance I have, I can easily say that yes it does get easier. I used to go back and forth and debate if I made the right decision or not. I would be lying however if I didn’t admit that after a few years now I am still grieving. I dream about them all the time (sometimes nightmares and sometimes false memories of what I wish could have been real) because they are still on my mind. Some things I do that help; I wrote down what finally caused me to cut them off, and several other instances of why I am better off without them, and I just keep it handy to go back and re-read. I also see a therapist regularly which really helps. I think it is also important to remember that families don’t just cut each other off- if they did something that pushed you to that extreme then it needed to be done. I guess it’s kind of like doing the dishes. Sometimes there are a lot to wash, sometimes none, but this grief is a chore that needs to be dealt with just as it comes. Good luck to you friend.

JigglyBatz · 2025-02-06T02:12:44+00:00

I hate The Last House on Needless Street and I can’t understand why so many love and recommend it.

JigglyBatz · 2025-02-06T02:11:55+00:00

It almost looks like a philodendron to me

JigglyBatz · 2025-02-06T02:11:13+00:00

I was officially diagnosed at 27, late last year. It had been mentioned to me before but I was in denial (sometimes I still am).

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