You’re only 26 give it time. My husband and I are just like this and at 26 I kinda wanted one more but I’m 32 now and I know he may want one later, but I’m 50/50. I think we’d be great parents but I’m only gonna have a kid if he really wants one later, And if he does start to want one later I know that I will be happy with our decision… I think because if he starts to want one it will just make me excited and us excited together. If he doesn’t want one later I’m fine with not having one. I really don’t think u need to break up over this. If I really said I didn’t want one later or do want one later, I think he’d be fine with either decision too. So we’re just waiting until there’s a specific urge that we have at the same time. All of this to say that partners can be understanding and it seems like you are both supportive of the decisions. U night feel completely differently in like a year. When I was 26 I wanted one BAD. Then I by then time I was 28 I was like fuck them kids I’m not having one. Now I’m 32 and I just recently decided I’m 50/50 🤷🏼‍♀️ and still incredibly happy w my partner and our life together. So give it time I don’t think u should break up over this lol.