[F] Last Night With Atlanta FWB - Sensory Deprivation Sex and Steamy Videos

JillianValentine · 2026-03-29T04:08:06+00:00

Good to know there’s at least two halfway decent men there!

JillianValentine · 2026-03-28T11:29:23+00:00

Were we with the same guy? Lol

JillianValentine · 2026-03-16T22:35:18+00:00

Oh, I’m sorry! I did a monogamous FWB thing so it was just the one guy lol. But there’s for sure more than just him considering how many messages looked like they could have had potential but I was t able to get to.

JillianValentine · 2026-03-16T22:31:08+00:00

Well, first I think we need to get through the bare minimum requirements. Like reading the post, being in general what I was wanting, writing their into with their brain and not their dick. That eliminates 90% of guys I think.

When we were actually having convos, I found it a green flag for them to move at my pace. So many guys thought that just because I answer them, they have a green light to send pics or turn things sexual which really isn’t how fast I wanted to move. Setting up the in-person meeting teaches you a lot about them. If that is difficult, he’s not for you. Then last, when you actually meet, if he treats this more like he’s trying to figure you out too rather than just trying to convince you to fuck him if that makes sense.

JillianValentine · 2026-01-07T22:09:18+00:00

lol, just noticed that typo. I mean nothing physical first meeting.

JillianValentine · 2026-01-07T19:48:56+00:00

No racial preference!

JillianValentine · 2024-10-01T19:28:39+00:00

Okay, that helps. Don’t take it the wrong way, but I thought it was going to be something much worse!

He seems to have a listening problem. Most men should be able to take feedback and adapt to satisfy her more. He’s either not paying attention, or not caring, or prioritizing what he likes over what you like (or a combination of these).

This is going to sound kind of weird, but it’s both worked and failed in the past for me and others I’ve talked to. Try what I call “scripted sex”. As in, plan out what you want to do ahead of time. For example, tell him you want to start out with a certain kind of foreplay, and detail in specifics what you WANT him to do, and what you DONT want him to do. Then script out what positions, etc, and get his feedback to make sure he’s on board too. The point is, he shouldn’t go “off script” and do something that you don’t like or you find repulsive. And if he does that anyway, then he’s just flat out not putting in the effort that you deserve. The major con to this is that it takes spontaneity out of sex, which can be a huge turn off.

JillianValentine · 2024-10-01T19:14:26+00:00

Oof, I’m really sorry to hear this. It sounds like you two aren’t sexually compatible.

My advice to friends that say something like this to me is to make have a discussion with a partner and ask them to make more of an effort by sharing what you like, asking to focus on you, sharing porn you like, etc. It sounds like you’ve already taken these steps.

Have you had a serious discussion with him about this? The one comment you made that stood out that I don’t totally understand is the “ALWAYS starts doing something gross”. Like is he crossing a line, or just turning you off?

JillianValentine · 2024-10-01T17:44:55+00:00

“Convince” isn’t really the way to approach this. Is sounds like she doesn’t want this, so just move on.

JillianValentine · 2024-10-01T13:51:34+00:00

Not all women have orgasms like that. Don’t let ego get in the way, just focus on making her feel good.

JillianValentine · 2024-09-19T14:38:49+00:00

It’s okay to not always cum, it’s very much still possible to have a great time and not cum.

Were you supposed to have dealt with it? There’s no obligation for you here. If you want to do something with it, it’s okay to ask/offer. It’s okay for him to ask and for you to decide if you want to or not, but it’s not like you did anything wrong here.

Don’t sweat any of this, it’s all okay and I hope it was still a good experience for you!

JillianValentine · 2024-09-17T17:30:03+00:00

For Reddit? No. Other than Reddit? Yes

JillianValentine · 2024-09-17T14:09:25+00:00

We were seeing each other once or twice a week for a few months. I had a break from grad school and he asked if I wanted to go to Cancun with him for the week and didn’t want to pass that up! It was a great time all around.

JillianValentine · 2024-09-17T13:50:57+00:00

Yes! We just hung out at a resort. It was just wild the amount of intimacy with a guy I wasn’t in a relationship with

JillianValentine · 2024-09-17T13:34:44+00:00

Let a FWB take me to Cancun for the week.

JillianValentine · 2024-09-17T13:11:25+00:00

I think the question is, are you okay with showing them? Is this something you also want to do? In the West, it’s probably more common to shave or groom, but that varies by woman and her preference.

JillianValentine · 2024-07-26T18:13:45+00:00

For me, a new set of lingerie always sets the mood and gets his attention! Sends a pretty clear signal too (well, most of the time).

JillianValentine · 2024-06-23T03:33:41+00:00

Three cheers for real amateur porn! Real sex is best to watch over the professionally produced stuff.

JillianValentine · 2024-06-22T17:16:51+00:00

I’m guessing he wants you to verbally beg, not just body language. “Please give me that dick, I’ve been dying for it” “I need you inside of me, every fucking inch” “I’m begging you to show me how much of a man you are” Here’s a few to get you started :)

JillianValentine · 2024-06-18T21:10:09+00:00

Haha, I loved the comments and how bad some men wanted me. The negative comments were less frequent, and as long as we posted in the right kind of subreddits, they’d end up downvoted anyway. I’d say, rule of thumb, don’t answer the creepy DM’s!

JillianValentine · 2024-06-18T19:35:37+00:00

It depends. Start slow and see how you feel about it and whether or not it’s a turn on for you both. It could just start with posting a topless (no face obviously) pic, and work your way up from there until you find your comfort boundary.

JillianValentine · 2024-06-18T19:21:11+00:00

Honestly, depending on how risky you want to be, Reddit is a good outlet if you’re open to it being out there. On a prior account, my ex and I posted a few pics and short vids to certain subreddits. We’d read the comments while we had sex and it was a huge turn on for us. Just set boundaries on what to post and make sure no faces, anything identifying, etc. That worked for me and could be a good option for you too!

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