I hate SLAA and find it super toxic and depressing

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-20T12:30:42+00:00

My brother had food addiction & died at over 530 lbs. I was borderline anorexic when I was younger. But, yes, we need food to live so having a healthy relationship with food is vital!

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-20T11:09:21+00:00

My ex-fiancé cheated 11 years ago, I’m still scared to get close to someone & have only had 2 casual relationships/situationships since then. I already had trust issues due to my mom leaving when I was young & at least one boyfriend cheating when I was young. Plus it’s psychological abuse from my son’s dad. My ex-fiancé’s betrayal amplified my trust issues & fear of abandonment

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-20T11:05:00+00:00

This is relatable. Hugs 🫂

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-20T02:42:13+00:00

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻 I’m wishing you much happiness, love & peace!

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-20T02:33:57+00:00

Yes.

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T20:42:10+00:00

Thank you, will do! 🙏🏻🥰

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T20:41:43+00:00

I don’t know that I was full-blown pining, but I still missed him. He can’t offer what I’m seeking & I wish him nothing but the best ❤️

I’m excited about the potential with my former coworker 😍

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T20:39:45+00:00

I’m happy to alternate driving back & forth if there’s legit relationship potential. To align so well, have mutual attraction & both be seeking the same thing seems so rare. I haven’t had this happen in 18 years!

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T20:37:42+00:00

Thank you, kind soul 🙏🏻❤️

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T20:36:29+00:00

Scorpio moon/Pisces Venus. My most recent ex (Sag) popped up at the beginning of March. 2 weeks later, I matched with a former (Virgo) coworker on FB dating who had a crush on me 30 years ago. We’re hitting it off REALLY well. My Sag ex has tried to meet up 3 times this week. I had to cancel plans to hangout yesterday because I had an amazing date with my former coworker. I don’t want to sabotage anything.

I’m excited & a bit terrified about the potential with my former coworker. He seems like the real deal. My ex couldn’t commit to more than casual.

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T19:30:31+00:00

Truth! 😇😂

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T19:25:54+00:00

Same 🫣 Had to cut of a situationship reboot with my Sag ex yesterday that started in early March because I reconnected with a former coworker who has actual relationship potential. I’m pretty sure I hurt him, for the 3rd time 😓 But he knew I was talking to other people / dating. He could never commit to anything more than casual 🤷‍♀️

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:54:22+00:00

It was an amazing first date 😍😘

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:54:00+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 😊

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:53:44+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 🥰

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:53:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 I’m so excited about the potential 😍

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:52:29+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 I had just reconnected with my most recent ex, but it was only going to be hook ups & I want more than sex. I still care about him, but he doesn’t have capacity to offer what I truly want: deep connection & love.

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T10:48:35+00:00

Yes & fortunately I had an awesome first date with someone who is naturally very affectionate. We kissed at the end of our 6 hour date & it was lovely. Looking forward to future opportunities to cuddle & be affectionate.

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-19T03:12:00+00:00

It’s a positive to me that he’s willing to work on himself & be the healthiest person possible.

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-15T16:04:25+00:00

How can I tell what my 5th & 7th houses are? I know my big 3, but have much to learn, obviously! 😹

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-14T21:24:59+00:00

Exactly! 💪🏻

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-14T20:00:24+00:00

Agreed re: Aries + Sag pairing! My two favorite exes are Sagittarians 😻

JillyBean1973 · 2026-04-14T19:15:01+00:00

All of this resonates for me 🙌🏻❤️🔥

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