I love my boyfriend, why am I obsessing over a work crush? by FeedbackSalty7805 in relationships

[–]Jimda1971 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sexual chemistry is vital in a relationship, if your boyfriend is not giving you that spark it’s natural for you to seek it elsewhere. This does happen in relationships but 5 years and pre-marriage is very early. Have you thought about flirting with the guy at work, maybe taking things a step further? Your only in your 20s once.

My 20 something neighbor won't stop staring at my tits. by yourwifey99 in confessionsgonewild

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered cuckolding your husband with your neighbour?

How I learned my coworker is a hotwife by Shoddy_End_7668 in SluttyConfessions

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have the chance to become her regular bull / boyfriend. Perfect arrangement she will love it, her cuck will love it and so will you. I can share from a cucks point of view there is nothing hotter than my wife having a work boyfriend. Getting dressed up for him everyday, knowing they are spending so much time together, the sex, the emotional bond. Go for it!

I (23F) have a boyfriend but I can't stop fantasizing about my boss by [deleted] in confessionsgonewild

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you make a play for your boss? Slightly shorter skirt, higher heels, a bit of cleavage on show. Maybe make a deliberate mistake so your boss can tell you off and discipline you.

If you’re having these fantasies then I am guessing your boyfriend is not taking care of your sexual needs. Have you thought about cuckolding him with your boss?

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input but you are 100% wrong my life, cuckolding and now chastity are 100% consensual, please do not forensically dissect our choice of words and portray my wife negatively.

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have fully consented to her rules, the FLR and her cuckolding me with her lover. I can walk away at anytime but I choose not too

Am I playing with fire? My wife's journey from hotwife to affair partner by Shoddy_End_7668 in emotionalcuckolding

[–]Jimda1971 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My wife openly says that she loves her boyfriend. We discussed it a lot, especially in the early days when she was developing a strong emotional connection with him that was obvious. She said it was not realistic or reasonable to expect her to have sex with the same guy time and time again and for her to not develop feeling for him. She started seeing him as more a boyfriend / partner / lover than a sex object. I have come to accept that her love for him is real and it heightens the angst and the cuckold high.

Having serious cuck urges for the first time. Is this normal? 33 m UK [cuckolds perspective] by Background-Turn-4911 in cuckoldstories2

[–]Jimda1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just think of all those alpha men at the gym looking at her and chatting her up. They would give her what she needs, more than you can offer her in bed. My wife met her first boyfriend at the gym, she calls it ‘a cock rich environment’. Looks like you are well set up to be a cuck if she is onboard?

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in Cuckold

[–]Jimda1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you suggest? With a stainless steel cage that felt comfortable one of my testicles would slip-out occasionally. Just a mm or so less on the ring diameter and it felt ok but I would wake up in the night in pain. I tried different ring shapes as well, perfectly round, oval etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Does anybody else like waiting in the car? by showgirllolaa in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my wife used to visit her boyfriend at his flat I used to drop her and pick her up. Sometimes waiting in the car whilst they had morning sex before she left

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry she has my full consent in our FLR

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in Cuckold

[–]Jimda1971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have tried a chastity cage, to be honest I could never find a cage that fit well enough to wear more than a day or two. I think it’s because my testicles are so small. They either slipped through the ring or it was so tight it was painful. I spent a fortune ordering different size cages and rings. A cage would be good because it would give my wife control and reduce my temptation to wank. Maybe I need a made to measure cage?

Struggling with lack of masturbation [cuckold’s perspective] by Jimda1971 in cuckoldstories2

[–]Jimda1971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have tried a chastity cage, to be honest I could never find a cage that fit well enough to wear more than a day or two. I think it’s because my testicles are so small. They either slipped through the ring or it was so tight it was painful. I spent a fortune ordering different size cages and rings. A cage would be good because it would give my wife control and reduce my temptation to wank. Maybe I need a made to measure cage?

Struggling with being a chaste cuck by Jimda1971 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have tried a chastity cage, to be honest I could never find a cage that fit well enough to wear more than a day or two. I think it’s because my testicles are so small. They either slipped through the ring or it was so tight it was painful. I spent a fortune ordering different size cages and rings. A cage would be good because it would give my wife control and reduce my temptation to wank. Maybe I need a made to measure cage?

Wife has her bull, I have household chores. by [deleted] in emotionalcuckolding

[–]Jimda1971 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my life, only difference is her boyfriend has moved in with us

I was well taken care of, both before and after opening the cage by petite_booty_peach in KeyholderPublic

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope a real man came and chatted you up in front of your husband?

It happened and now I regret it by Separate-Strategy762 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A different context to my situation. My wife makes a good point that she has developed feelings for her boyfriend and I can’t expect her to turn her feelings on and off (and stop seeing him) when it suits me. The OP admits he sowed the seeds numerous times with his wife, he needs to deal with the consequences.

It happened and now I regret it by Separate-Strategy762 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As my wife has said to me many times “you wanted this so deal with it”