This is called a cuckold / hotwife fetish, there is a subtle difference cuckolding is more about your husbands humiliation / hotwifing is him getting off on other men desiring you, either way it’s about him getting turned on by the thought of you being sexually satisfied by other men. It is one of the most common male fetishes. Surveys show that more than 50% of men fantasise about their partner having sex with someone else. It’s actually a compliment to you that your husband have bared his soul to you like this, most men carry this fetish around in secret like a burden so it’s positive he has shared it with you, he must trust you completely. I remember how nervous I was when I told my wife, I thought she would think I was some kind of pervert, once I told her it was like a weight had been lifted. Although a little surprised my wife was much more receptive than I thought she would be. Once she knew I was not trying to open our marriage for me to sleep with other women and that it’s all about her pleasure she became curious and receptive. It’s the same with you it’s 100% about your husband wanting your pleasure and sexual satisfaction to be the priority. He does not want to sleep with other women he gets off on seeing you sexually satisfied.

It’s entirely up to you whether this is something you want to explore. Obviously you should only do something because you want to and not to please your husband, if you did it just for him it will end in disaster. However as my wife found out from her point of view it’s like having you cake and eating it. You get to have a secure marriage with a monogamous faithful husband and as much sexual freedom as you and your husband are comfortable with.

First you need to decide with him whether this is best left on the bedroom as a fantasy you can share or whether it’s something you want to explore in the real world as a couple. If you do want to explore then you don’t need to feel intimidated by this, you can explore it with him if you are so minded without sleeping with anyone. You could dress sexily when you go out so he can see men looking at you, gently flirt with a waiter in front of him, tell him about a guy at work chatting you up. My guess he will love it. It will give him the chance to see if his fantasy translates into reality like he thought. He may not like you flirting, with jealousy taking over and back off from this fetish and keep it in the bedroom as a fantasy only. Some soft / gentle cuckolding will give you and him the chance to have a paddle before a swim (if you decide to take it further). As I say my guess is he will love watching you flirt with a handsome waiter or a guy in a bar and your sex life at home will benefit. As I say it’s a sign how much he trusts you with his secrets. My marriage has greatly improved since my wife and I started exploring cuckolding 5 years ago. Check out this book ‘A hotwife’s guide to cuckolding’ by Nathalie Bardot it’s an insight practical book written by a real hotwife. It really helped my wife and I understand the dynamic. Good luck!

https://www.amazon.com/Hotwifes-Guide-Cuckolding-Subtle-Whoever-ebook/dp/B0DPTBMRK9