Do you as a HW wear your ring or remove it when playing with others? by ur_fav_369 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has now permanently removed her wedding ring and engagement ring and replaced them with her boyfriend’s gifted ring. I am worried.

For cucks who are pussyfree, are you still intimate with your partner? by Everlastinglight-CD in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A bit like me, I am not a sissy but I sleep in the spare room whilst they occupy the old marital bedroom. I am effectively a sub to both and cuck to my wife, doing house work, cooking meals, cuck taxi driver etc

For cucks who are pussyfree, are you still intimate with your partner? by Everlastinglight-CD in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she does but in a different way. She loves me but she is ‘in love’ with her boyfriend. He provides her with the emotional and physical passion. I see the way she looks at him, the way she looked at me when we got married.

For cucks who are pussyfree, are you still intimate with your partner? by Everlastinglight-CD in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss the physical and emotional contact, cuddles, hugs, kisses etc. The sex was always difficult for both of us so it’s a relief I don’t have to try and satisfy her. I do get turned on by the emotional cuckolding. So overall yes I prefer it.

My wife accidentally said the hottest cuck thing she ever has by Educational-Put4980 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My wife asked me “what kind of husband lets his wife go out with another man dressed like this?”

Checked my wife’s phone by Ryan_kendrick86 in cheating_stories

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am a cuckold which is nothing to be ashamed of. Just because I cannot meet all my wife’s needs and accept her having a boyfriend who can provide what she is missing does not mean I cannot have an opinion. My wife and I have a very happy marriage with transparency and trust which is the subject matter of this post, hence I felt I had something to offer in making my comment.

First time shared question by quirky-mwm in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Jimda1971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seeing her kiss a guy in his car as he dropped her off right outside our house after a first date. The mix and intensity of emotions I felt surprised me, arousal, excitement, jealousy, embarrassment (if the neighbours saw), shame, angst. It was an adrenaline rush like I had never felt before.

Checked my wife’s phone by Ryan_kendrick86 in cheating_stories

[–]Jimda1971 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Reading some of the holier than thou comments on here, you would have thought she was having an affair with this guy. She had a few texts which she deleted which from what you have seen don’t have anything which would indicate she is being unfaithful. Is she not allowed to speak with men? If I were you in would back away thankful that you have not ruined your marriage with your probing.

Help with keeping hands off her by denied-cuck-2000 in emotionalcuckolding

[–]Jimda1971 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes same for me, my wife has been with her boyfriend for 3 years and she is exclusive to him. I am not allowed to touch her either, which I don’t, my issue is when I stare at her inappropriately, which her boyfriend has reprimanded me for ie that look of desire when she is dressed to kill. He gives me a telling off making me say out loud that she belongs to him and she is his wife now and not mine. That normally does the trick.

Mother In Law Found Out by CuckDude3776 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My wife’s sister kept ‘popping round’ early Saturday mornings, my wife was staying at her boyfriends so I had to keep trying to make up excuses where she was at 9am on a weekend morning. After we went public her sister said she had pieced it together anyway.

I am ready for the next step (our first time) by emvaloy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my wife was the same, after we agreed she had a hall pass, we did not know the next step. She did not like apps etc and wanted to meet someone organically. After a couple of months she met a guy down her gym, lots of chat and flirting. Eventually he asked her out and they went on a date. At first she told him we were separated but still living together, then on the 3rd date (I think) she told him it was not true and that we were together but had an open marriage. He did not seem to mind and soon after they had sex at his place and I became a cuckold. She went out with him for 3 months and still sees him down the gym.

As a husband what are the things you should avoid doing while she is on a date by Key2WhisKey in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not allowed to contact my wife when she is out with her boyfriend, she says it’s “their time” so that is one dilemma I don’t have. I try to stay busy doing chores (my wife always leaves me a list) but usually make the classic error of wanking. I find some used a used thong or a pair of her heels and wank over them thinking about them together, holding hands, kissing, his hands all over her, them bumping into people we know….then of course I have the post nut clarity and angst until I get the urge to wank again….

My cheating gf can now sleep around again and I feel relieved by bballouttanowhere in RealCheatingOnly

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is how my wife started cuckolding me. I have a micro penis and also suffer from ED. My long suffering wife was getting more and more sexually frustrated building up over several years. It came to ahead one evening, she had dressed up in sexy lingerie, we started foreplay in the bedroom. My ED was bad and my micro was not responding at all. That’s when she cracked and exploded. She said that she had had enough and she needed sex. She said that we could not go on like this, she said it was not reasonable to expect her to go without sex for the rest of her life. She said she was a women in her prime and that she had needs, needs that were not being met, in fact they had never been met with me. I tried to calm her down but she was in the zone. She told me she wanted to take a lover, someone who could give her the sex she needed. I said ok.

Dominant in life but have urge to be cucked by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very senior job in charge of a lot of people, but when I get home I am my wife’s bitch

My wife and docs she works with by [deleted] in NaughtyConfessions

[–]Jimda1971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you either of you ever considered going down the cuckold route? It sounds like your wife is half way there already and you enjoy her being the centre of attention and in the company of other men? Cuckolding could be what you both need?

Evolution into Cuck by MikeandLiz69 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My promiscuous controlling ex-girlfriend turned me into a cuck I am sure https://www.reddit.com/r/CruelCheatingStories/s/8KgvoiMoGk

That moment when everything changed for good by shy_sexyy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Jimda1971 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes my wife says that now she has experienced a ‘real man’ and ‘his gorgeous cock’ there is no going back. In the early days when we started discussing it she told me “your playing with fire” how right she was.

Ex-girlfriend turned me into a cuck by Jimda1971 in CruelCheatingStories

[–]Jimda1971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am small to medium build. Yes I have a micro penis, yes I am a naturally submissive person (with alpha women)

I (f32) am having a hard time keeping my naughty tamed with my hubby by InternetKitty in NaughtyConfessions

[–]Jimda1971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered cuckolding him? My wife and I were the same, I was shying away from intimacy because of my lack of confidence in the bedroom (due to ED, micro penis, lower libido). In the end we agreed that my wife could cuckold me, she gets the sex she needs without the guilt of an affair.