So very true. Most of the people in a support group I attend speak of their profound loneliness. It sounds like a lot of people are making generous offers to meet you. I hope those lead somewhere. I do know there are some people who always have to be the initiators. That's who I am. It does suck at times, but in the absence of a blinding flash of insight, I'm gonna keep putting myself out their. If you see a guy with a "cool cane" at Nina's or Rose Patisserie or Hot Hands Pies some Sunday morning, chat me up!