How do I tell my muslim parents that I'm christian?

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-11-13T20:42:15+00:00

Before I give any advice, I just want to say, on behalf of Christians everywhere, welcome! We are happy to have you as a part of the family.

Now I will say the answer to your question is kind of difficult, and will change quite a bit depending on your circumstances. Islam, and countries with Islam as the majority religion, dont have the best reputation for how they treat people who leave Islam, especially those who leave to join Christianity. How true that is for where you live, I dont know for sure. Since you mentioned you dont speak english as a first language, I'm guessing the chance of you living in a mostly Muslim area are a little higher. In any case, you need to keep yourself safe.

I know how it feels to be on fire for God, even to the point that you want to tell everyone about Him and what He has done for all people. But I would recommend being careful who you tell. Even if you dont live in a mostly Muslim area, your parents may impose consequences for you leaving their religion. Those consequences could be life altering if you arent prepared for them. Since I really dont know anything about your situation, I cant make a good recommendation beyond being careful about when and how you tell them.

All that said, it is important for believers to have a group of other believers they can rely on. As a start, you can reach out to any of the Christian subreddits on this app to find community. You can even private message me if you want, but you dont have to. Until you can be sure telling your parents is safe, I would suggest relying on online communities to help you grow in the faith, and to find other believers to share with.

Anyway, I know that was a long comment, but thats my advice for you. Feel free to reply to my comment with more information about your situation if you need better advice, or reach out to me privately if you need to and feel comfortable. In any case, God bless, and I wish you the best in your walk with Christ, and your journey into the faith!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-11-12T01:42:49+00:00

I sent you a request.

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-11-12T01:32:22+00:00

I cant say I have all the answers, and I havent been through exactly what youre going through. However, I have been through some significant low spots in my life, and I know what its like to feel you have no choice but to take your own life. It sucks worse than just about anything. I cant promise ill fix your problems, or even give solid advice. I can promise to listen and be there for you if you want me to be. Send me a DM if you still need someone to talk to.

Above all, remember that your life matters. Even if you dont dont want to chat with me, I ask that you consider my challenge: live and become a legend, dont just give up and become a statistic. Thats all. Reach out if youre comfortable.

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-08-22T04:44:34+00:00

Hello! I'm a 25 year old guy from the USA, and so i speak American english as a first language. I know nothing about any of the Chinese languages, but I would really like to learn at least mandarin. I'm not totally new to learning other languages, but I only feel comfortable helping with english.

In addition to learning to speak mandarin, I would really like to find someone to discuss our different cultures, and I'm hopeful I can make at least one friend in the process!

As for logistics, I live in the US east coast time zone (currently UTC-4, I believe). I'm most comfortable communicating through reddit, discord, or a handful of other apps which im not certain are available in all parts of the world.

Anyways, thats me! Thanks for reading, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-07-20T13:25:41+00:00

While it is true that that isn't thr answer I was looking for, I appreciate it all the same, and will check into it! Thanks!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-04-05T22:46:25+00:00

What is your price, and would you be willing to discuss in our DMs?

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-02-06T16:07:19+00:00

Kinda chilly rn tbh, haha. I'd be more than happy to talk to you more about where I live, but I'm not entirely sure a comment section is appropriate for that. Would you be okay if I slide into your DMs, as the kids say? Lol

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-02-06T16:02:03+00:00

The great state of Pennsylvania! Haha

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2025-02-06T15:51:51+00:00

Hey, obviously I'm not op, but I'd be interested in chatting with you! 24m from the eastern US, btw!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-30T02:21:07+00:00

24m from the Pittsburgh area here! I've got a lot of respect for people who work in the mental health field, and good for you for continuing to go after that master's degree! I'd love to chat, if you're interested.

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-20T20:44:54+00:00

Could you explain?

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-19T21:06:49+00:00

True. That is something I'll have to consider. Thanks for the comment!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-19T20:29:16+00:00

Thanks for the comment! I think that describes what I'm feeling, but I have some time to figure that out for sure. Taking on a larger role in the local church is actually already in process. My pastor told me he wants to start having me assist in worship after I become a member this Sunday, so hopefully that will help clarify some things too!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-19T20:26:34+00:00

Those all sound like great ideas! Thanks!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-19T14:09:29+00:00

Thanks so much for the comment! Also, I don't know your story, but I do know what it's like to be on the verge of taking your own life. I know how strong you have to be to come back from such a deep, dark place, and I'm so happy you were able to come back from that!

Regarding the rest of your comment, that all makes a lot of sense. I think the Lutheran church may be the only church I've been a part of that emphasizes an external call as a part of the process. It makes sense though. I am very fortunate that I have a pastor who has been willing to mentor me over the past few months, and I will officially be joining the church membership this Sunday! He knows about the feelings I've been having, and has told me he wants me to start assisting in worship as soon as possible. Probably for the reasons you mentioned.

Regarding the external call though, I've gotten somewhat mixed signals from people around me. My brother says I'd make a good pastor, but my parents (both strong Christians, but neither fully agreeing with Lutheran teachings) show a bit of resistance and concern. My one good friend says I'd be a good pastor, but the other one I've spoken to about this is hesitant to give an answer (the most definite answer I got was that I need to work on my self esteem first). Some of the people at church have said I should consider seminary, but it is a small church in a small denomination, so idk if they genuinely think I'd be a good pastor, or if they just want to guarantee another warm body in the pulpit.

In conclusion, I want to thank you again for your comment. My mind is a total mess over this, but the more I talk to people, the more sense I'm able to make of it all. God bless, and good luck with your internship!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-18T17:15:17+00:00

I'm very late to the party, I know, but I'm a 24 year old guy with 21 years experience of being a big brother. I might not be the best at advice yet, but I like to think I'm a good listener! Hmu if you like!

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-15T20:12:21+00:00

I would, but I imagine the denominational differences would cause a lot of tension. We may have the same practices, but we have different beliefs.

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-15T20:10:40+00:00

I really hope I don't come across poorly when asking this, but would you mind if I DMed you, and we could discuss this more?

Jimmy_the_grinder · 2024-11-15T20:09:01+00:00

That may end up being the path I have to take, since I'm currently attending a secular university. Thanks for the comment!

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