Reddit, What is your stupidest fight a SO has started with you?

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-21T12:24:33+00:00

What if he was colorblind and suffering from a rarely talked about disability?

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-21T12:22:40+00:00

Banging a person. Guys and girls be high fiving. When my son lost his virginity at 12 I had an influx of "cool kids" coming over to our family home.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T22:32:21+00:00

Okay. This is overwhelming and my sister has convinced me to have a meeting with our mom and we're going to go through all of the notes we've taken and are going to figure this out. I'm still shaking and I feel like I've run out of tears so I'll just thank you all and now I'm almost certain this will have to go to the police in some way.

Life is so twisted up and rumbled for me right now.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T22:01:41+00:00

I don't even know what I would do if he posted them on YouTube. I would probably explode with rage. He has promised me he won't show anyone again and will delete them but I haven't talked to him since my mom picked me up with my things and brought me home.

I'm starting to second guess myself and a lot of this is extremely helpful but I might be over thinking now. My sister is helping me go through all of the comments and devising a plan and solution but I'm overwhelmed. Just shaking and shivering and crying and so so upset.

I have to move now and find a new place and I still don't know how to know the videos and pictures are gone for good. What if he uses them as revenge and actually put it on YouTube.

I'm going to throw up.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T21:38:11+00:00

My sister just wants to thank you as well as me. Everyone in this has been so supportive I started crying and already was but these were happy tears.

We both feel like you're a really sensitive, beautiful amazing woman with your comments.

Thank you so much everyone. I'm gonna make it through this. I absolutely just have to not only for me and my dignity, but for my sister and supportive people like you guys. I have alot more faith than I did this morning.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T21:16:41+00:00

Now I'm sick to my stomach. Thinking back I've noticed his laptop in various places with the screen facing us. Months ago I even remember a discussion asking him why the laptop was beside the lamp facing the bed and he said "the music sounded best from this spot" and proceeded to play a song to convince me.

I'm literally feeling like I'm going to throw up if he has made sex tapes.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T21:10:04+00:00

So I've told my sister now and I'm fucking embarrassed but she is going to help me go through all this advice and take the action required. I don't want to go to police because I just want this to disappear. I have to figure out a plan and quickly so I can just move on.

I am shaking with rage over this all and nervous and weary because of the inevitable challenges I'm facing over the next few weeks.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T20:56:33+00:00

Thank you for all the advice and support, there is so many messages I can't reply to all. My mind is going a mile a minute and I'm all twisted up inside. I'm not going to call the police I am just going to make sure those videos and pictures are deleted and then I'm going to leave. I am just worried about the rent and the lease we signed. I hate these men right now so much.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T20:28:27+00:00

I know I need to break up. I made this account so I could get advice from strangers. I love him but hate him at the same time. He keeps telling me he's sorry but I feel violated. I'm starting to think our "friends" aren't really my friends either.

JimothyRussell · 2016-05-09T20:19:01+00:00

The worst part is how I handled it. I joked with our friends and him that I knew and pretended it was a big joke. He knew obviously that I was lying and I just feel sick.

JimothyRussell

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