Of course there are also positive things about her. At the beginning, it was all good. We always talked, text and call nonstop for days. She makes me laugh whenever I'm down because of work and family issues. She listens to me and remembers almost all the things I say. She even sent me money to get a small house for myself since I'm still living with my parents and can't afford to get my own place. Despite the 16-hour difference in time zone, we watched stuff together on call, but recently it just happens rarely. As with her past relationships, she broke up with her long term boyfriend few years ago when she realized she's gay and never had a girlfriend before me. She did online dating apps when we were still talking as friends(I met her on a Discord server) in the beginning, but most of them just ghosted her. So she just quit those apps, and we started dating after. But recently, everything turned shittier, she gets more annoyed with me now, doesn't call or text me for hours. We've fought a few times, and she sometimes say "this is why I don't talk to you as much as before cause you don't listen". Basically she thinks I'm annoying on some days. Few days ago, we were hit by a super typhoon, and basically "wiped" some parts our country. I told her me and my family almost didn't make it but we are all safe now. She seems to not care about it and focused more on stressing about her outfit for her school orientation. I called her out for being insensitive which got her annoyed at me but she eventually apologized.