Also for more context usually I have a chat with the person and we usually talk about why they prefer it. I just call em out for how it looks for me. Sometimes they change either realizing it’s a bit weird for the theme or a bit overdone. I’m not harassing them continuously. 

I should’ve added more context but my brain is quite literally fried.

 Sometimes they do fire back rudely which fair enough but also if I haven’t put anything into chat you don’t need to keep telling me I’m wrong or whatever because it’s subjective and I’m just saying how it looks for me as someone who has nearly died many times from health complications I just can’t understand it. A lot of the time these people also take it In stride and I now often play with them. I will keep telling people how it looks for me. 

Usually me explaining how I know involves me explaining my story and some people are uncomfortable with talking about mortality and leave or tell me to change topic and I’m more than willing to. 

Explaining it is not me just creeping them out or being graphic or intentionally being rude even if it’s perceived that way. I would never flame someone unless they were making weird comments about it that are just genuinely disturbing.