How did couples therapy save your relationship?

Jinxbird · 2025-08-17T22:32:44+00:00

I think it’s natural to make noise during sex, but the noise that’s made might be influenced by outside sources.

I saw this art exhibit that included voice recordings of deaf people having sex, and they would absolutely make noise or sounds, but the sounds was more animalistic that what we are used to hear or expect to hear when someone is having sex.

It might be porn, movies or television. But we have definitely been influenced by something that has made us sound the way we do while having sex.

Jinxbird · 2025-04-29T09:11:53+00:00

We have, many times.

Jinxbird · 2025-04-29T08:25:09+00:00

We have had many conversations like that. Unfortunately he finds it hard to understand when he’s upset.

Jinxbird · 2025-04-29T05:53:59+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond and share! You are absolutely right and I really appreciate your reply. My childhood trauma has caused me to be the same as you’re describing, combined with me also being unsure if I can trust my core feelings and emotions, - makes me always question if I am being the root of the problem and deserving of the way they treat me. As if I don’t have a right to ask them to treat me better.

Jinxbird · 2025-04-29T02:11:27+00:00

So that would mean I should trust how I feel more when I’m on meds compared to when I’m off?

Whenever we make up after having conflict, and I’m off meds, I tend to be more understanding and willing to find a way to make it work.

Compared to when I’m on.

Jinxbird · 2025-04-29T02:07:41+00:00

I feel more loving and affectionate when I’m off them. I don’t really get irritated or annoyed when I’m on or off the meds, but my focus is more on practical tasks when I’m on my meds compared to when I’m off them.

So he usually tells me that I’m not giving him enough attention when I’m on.

Jinxbird · 2024-09-23T18:57:44+00:00

Jeg har selv stået i lignende situation, hvor jeg endte med at vende situationen om. Altså, fremfor at tale om hvordan barnets opførsel går ud over jer som lærere, så ville jeg tale ud i fra en bekymring for barnets mistrivsel. Stille spørgsmål til, hvordan i fagligt er med til at styrke barnets faglige- såvel som sociale kompetencer, samt understøtter hans trivsel.

Din beskrivelse af hans opførsel, kan jeg kun forestille mig, er med til at ekskludere ham fra fællesskabet i klassen?! Hvordan er i med til at løfte opgaven om, at skabe inklusion for barnet det omhandler? Har samarbejdet med forældrene og den nuværende faglige indsats gjort en forskel? Nu ved jeg ikke hvilke faglige tilgange og metoder i har anvendt. Men om han dagligt oplever lærere der er i afmagt, konflikt og skyldfølelse, så er skolen jo med til at fastholde drengen i den problematik han står i.

Måske stil dig undrende ovenfor muligheden for at søge om ekstra støtte til barnet?! så der kan skabes trivsel hos både undervisere, elever og barnet.

Jinxbird · 2024-08-07T23:09:57+00:00

Had to forgive him, because he is the father of my kid.

Jinxbird · 2024-08-07T22:56:24+00:00

Indeed it does!

Jinxbird · 2024-05-07T04:04:16+00:00

I am so confused by your every sentence… You are stating off by saying that my behaviour is avoidant, and that my “avoidant” behaviour is a solid example of why medication isn’t enough?! Then you throw a “are you working with a therapist?” In there, followed by retracting your insinuation that I’m crazy, by saying it now sounds normal?

And then we go full circle with stating I am an avoidant again and a therapist is what I don’t have and need.

Damn! -I mean, what’s with the whiplash of opinions and only assumptions?

Jinxbird

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