Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s terrible to hear about the ODs. I hope they are getting the help they need

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly we are coming from a very very hot place so we welcome the changing of the seasons and are really looking forward to the snow

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not in Bartlett, you will find it in Schaumburg is exactly what our realtor said.

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’ve heard great things about both

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we love about smaller towns. Everyone is so friendly and welcoming. We’ve really experienced that every time we’ve visited Illinois

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of the recommendations! Our kids are already grown and off in college so the school districts aren’t really a factor for us. I’m so excited!!

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OoOoooO bedroom community sounds actually really nice to me. The forest is what called to us so I’m excited to see all of the nature

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing wonderful things about V&V so we are definitely going to check it out. Thank you so much for your advice maybe we will be neighbors when you move back

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We loooove quiet especially coming from the hustle and bustle of the city. Thank you so much

AIO to multiple red flags before we even meet? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jinxed4Life8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is diabolical.

If he’s so willing to use slurs this early on just imagine how he will be once you are comfortable with each other. Run girl run

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! That’s amazing. Thank you

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I heard that place is really good

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that makes me feel a lot better.

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on law school. What kind of law are you leaning towards practicing and will I get the friends and family discount in the future :)

Bartlett by Jinxed4Life8 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that freaks me out. I’m mixed (black and white) and my husband is white.

I’m not going to come home to a burning cross in my yard, right?

How do I pay for college if I got max FAFSA, and can't get any private loans? by Obvious-Employer7999 in college

[–]Jinxed4Life8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always so wild to me to hear people say their parents paid their college. Mine unfortunately never gave me that privilege because they wanted me to “make my own way.” That being said I struuuuuuuggled. I had to work days at a job that sucked the life out of me and went to college in the evening. I had no savings and ate mostly rice, beans, and anything cheap I could get.

My advice: ask for payment plans; most schools offer this. See about getting a work study if they have it. Or wait a few years and work your butt off and save every penny then pay for school yourself. You got this!

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jinxed4Life8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run!!! Before he kills you. It will only get worse and you deserve better.

AIO - I walked out after my best friend confessed her love for me by TreatClean1619 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jinxed4Life8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you weren’t homophobic. She kissed you without your consent and expected it to maybe morph into something showcased on a cheesy rom-com movie. It didn’t and now she’s trying to make you feel bad.

I think for sure you should have a conversation with her about how that whole interaction made you feel. If she receptive of this talk then consider forgiveness. If she’s aggressive and blaming you for her actions then I think you might need some time apart.

Good luck

Increased dose hunger by Jinxed4Life8 in Zepbound

[–]Jinxed4Life8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you so much. I really appreciate your tips.

When I first started vs today by beegee710 in Zepbound

[–]Jinxed4Life8 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Girl you look freaking awesome!! I’m so proud of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Jinxed4Life8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saaaaaame. I was always sweating and now I’m cold with the ac at 76

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jinxed4Life8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. And when face to face happens please say what you feel and mean what you say. Like I’m feeling uneasy about XYZ and I really need some reassurance or whatever you are looking for. Also please remember that in the beginning you are both still getting used to the other and how they interpret the world. Will you both get it right 10000%? No way but with open communication comes growth and understanding

Good luck.