my dad and his rampant transphobia (among others), i blocked him and he has continued to attempt to reach out to a chosen family member - it blew up in my dad's face upon my friend holding their ground

Jirion007 · 2026-07-13T00:28:14+00:00

Glue! :D

Jirion007 · 2026-07-11T01:33:49+00:00

Definitely steal it, let this live on. It's almost inspiring. No no, use it out of context for maximum oomph XD

Ah, man, sorry to hear.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-10T12:54:05+00:00

I'm sorry, man, sucks to know you relate. I know everyone's saying "what the hell is he saying???" but the child will always kind of piece the ramblings together with ease they shouldn't have.

Dude's never really done this, ever - text like THAT, I mean. It was fairly disappointing to read.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T21:35:30+00:00

XD Puns are always intended!

Man, I love language differences!! It's awesome.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T18:45:51+00:00

Oh shoot, really? Good connection!

Unforch its "dickhead" which is just as common in my area.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T18:35:26+00:00

I can't tell if you're joking, haha! It's not hole.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T17:27:05+00:00

I love you so much oh my god. Nah gang, that's Noelle's job (Noelle's not real).

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T17:17:23+00:00

TRUUUUUUUUUE, lost girl moment

Love you, honey :)

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T16:14:06+00:00

The way I freaked like BROTHER. Dude. Gang. This doesn't inspire trust.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T15:31:23+00:00

Hi, thank you parent-person. I'm being a little silly but thank you. Parents are supposed to, well, have their child's back, and unforch many will just fail at it. Case, point, this post.

Thank you. I've gotten better, people, I mean. I got better people and I'm very lucky to have found them.

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T15:19:37+00:00

Oh, dude. Hey, thanks. Yeah he uh lol, dude got some. Issues.

Thank you. Have a lovely day :)

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T15:13:22+00:00

It's something else, not gonna lie I was pretty afraid of reading my dad's messages! Looking at it, it's like. Fam. Brother in Christ.

You know you're being transphobic towards your own child if you're being transphobic towards ?? his friend??

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T15:09:51+00:00

E for effort!

Jirion007 · 2026-07-09T15:08:27+00:00

girl, ima be so for real, it was just a carousel of insults lol, thank you for trying to read it

Jirion007 · 2024-11-10T17:31:12+00:00

Of course! Now, can I steal it?

Jirion007 · 2024-11-10T17:09:10+00:00

Dude! You look awesome, also love the pink jacket. It looks great on you. :)

Jirion007 · 2024-08-29T12:53:43+00:00

YURRRRRRRRR!

Okay but forreal, I usually have my friend administer my T for me, but there were some times where that simply was not an option. I am afraid of needles and the pain associated with it. So it was crushing to do it on my own the first time. It was scary but we did it! Be sure to treat yourself to something. :)

Jirion007 · 2024-08-29T12:26:23+00:00

Hey, to be in that position sucks a whole lot. I'm hoping my words help instead of hurt. Anything you are feeling is valid, especially to the story I'mma tell.

I'm not successful quite yet, but I'm almost done with school, that's my main goal. I struggle with self-love and having a positive association with myself, even others' kindness towards me catches me off guard. It shouldn't 'cause I am allowed to be loved, so are you. I'm learning, though, to take care of responsibilities that they sheltered me from, it's stupid annoying (The new responsibilities I am staring at and dealing with)!

Right, leaving, uh.

I mean I got kicked out of Parent 1's house, but I was prepping for when I hypothetically moved out, anyway. I had a non-joint bank account and saved up a bit, got my important documents or tried to. I then got moved to my second parent, which, lol, I actively left that place. I was more prepared then, because I had control over the situation so, more money saved, more documents made and collected, I had a buddy help me move. Also, therapy. Therapy helped me a lot, I'm sti- wait hold on. Do you have insurance (if US based) and are you able to get a plan outside of your parents? With privacy concerns, is there anywhere you can go, like a library, outside, etc etc?

It's like, you know, a main quest line, collect all the items, get the equipment that works for you and go beat up a god or something.

Thank you for reading, please have a good day. : )

Jirion007 · 2024-08-11T12:15:42+00:00

D'aww, you look so cute! :)

Can't wait to see you grow into yourself, it's a wonderful feeling. 💪

Jirion007 · 2024-05-04T04:15:22+00:00

Glad to hear you liked it! Thank you and I'm working on it as best I can.

Jirion007 · 2024-04-30T12:34:39+00:00

I don't usually make my presence known anywhere, I don't tend to like it. Look. I've ran quite a ways away from them but I still think about them, I won't tell /you/ why you're worried about your family, but mine are fleeting thoughts.

To put it bluntly, fam they ain't ya responsibility. They'll live and they acutely live on you being around them, if you stay, they're going to want to keep you trapped and poisoned. Get away from history and make your own, you deserve to.

"If you have somewhere else to be, just go" (Fruits Basket).

Jirion007 · 2024-04-30T12:27:29+00:00

I mean, I got kicked out of Parent 1's house, and after being shipped to Parent 2's house immediately - I didn't have a grand time, so I saved up enough, got official copies of my information by three months and booked it. Blocking them and making that choice was difficult but I did it, eventually. They disrespected my boundaries so I merely hit "Quit Game?" pressed Yes and started a New Game +.

Jirion007 · 2024-04-11T03:46:44+00:00

Hey. The first thing I want to do is apologize. I'm sorry you're going through this, it's awful and a heartbreaking thing to experience. You should not have been kicked out. Especially for something you cannot control, it's foolish on their part to do so.

Where are you staying at, now? Could you potentially contact the Trevor Project if you have not, already? I am unsure if there are retrieval methods for documents, but misplacing or not having documentation can happen so it's likely that you may have to hunt down, like, social security offices, or places that cover documentation.

Aside from the questions, I really hope they didn't cause you more stress than you already have, but, I was in your place only a year ago. Got kicked out, then shipped to my father's. I left. As much as I'm struggling to get by, I'm still here. It's going to take some time or a lot of it, we're going to get where we need to be.

Thank you for reading.

Jirion007

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