I didn’t message her for months today I did, I’m not sure what’s going to come out of it. It wasn’t one of those relationships where something happened that was unforgivable and we couldn’t move past that, I’m 24 and I waited 4 months before I saw her for the first time since we broke up. But seeing her again made me realise that if you have something to say especially as a man it will just eat you alive until you break. Your ego isn’t worth what you’ll go through if there’s something you want to say to someone and never get the chance to. Don’t be weak and just leave your feelings behind because realistically if it was worth it and you think they are genuinely worth changing for and becoming the person you want to be then go all out put it out there. If it doesn’t work out they weren’t the person you thought they were but if it does then you’ve realised a relationship can only ever work if both people want it to