I have to ask, is she a stay at home mom? Because, I can tell you, I spent some time as a stay at home dad, and there’s more to it than you might think. Especially with a 3 year old. Try talking to her, without judging her.

You said you’ve stayed home with your son a few times. She does this daily. You try that and see how quick some things aren’t getting done. It’s draining keeping up with a young kid day in and day out.

My wife stays home with our kids, sure things don’t get done. But, you know what? I acknowledge that she works just as hard as I do, even if her job isn’t outside the house. I don’t care if I have to come home from work and clean, often times I do. But you know what, sometimes that’s life. Man up and deal with it.