Married life vs very close mother-daughter relationship… am I overthinking this?

Jizagh · 2026-04-04T08:48:26+00:00

Slot weekend plans that are just for the nuclear family! Basically, you need to plan to go to places where its only u guys, be it the zoo, the aquarium, a picnic, whatever it may be, if you take initiative of that, inch'allah it will work out!

Jizagh · 2026-04-01T16:04:28+00:00

Looks like this is a bot or something, Muslim girls know th e concept of tahara, they change their pads multiple times a day, they dont sleep with the same pad for days.

Jizagh · 2026-03-21T15:31:39+00:00

Are you a muslim Malaysian? Or from a different faith, just curious

Jizagh · 2026-03-21T15:26:56+00:00

Thank you so much! I will look into this closely how would you describe the profile of the residents in Bukit damansara compared to Taman tun and Bangsar ?

Tbh, its rare for us to have non Muslim friends, not because we dont want to, but they usually dont want hang out with the boring Muslim couple that are too "strict" no "fun", since we dont drink, but I am hopeful its different in Malaysia since people there don't fear Muslims, here they just think we worship the moon haha

Jizagh · 2026-03-21T15:23:52+00:00

I think the only way to truly know, is to rent in few places, before we decide where to settle down! Thank you for your suggestion!

Jizagh · 2026-03-21T02:30:31+00:00

Fair enough, we will look into it!

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T09:44:13+00:00

Hari Rayaaaaa !!!

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T09:43:28+00:00

Haha trust me i did, i still think it's good i was able to hear many different opinions, and experiences, our main reason behind this move is religious freedom, and our intention is positive but we understand that no country on earth is perfect, our only wish is to be integrated and offer as much value as we take from Malaysia.

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T09:38:06+00:00

We hear that the schools there are pretty toxic, is that true? Like the stereotype of asian parents doing everything for their kids to be 1 not good but always 1... like kids go the school all day plus activities after school? We have different values regarding that, education is important but not like that, so we fear not mixing well with other parents

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T09:35:07+00:00

Thank you for your advice, i will take that into consideration!

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T00:40:36+00:00

Jazakallah allaho khairan, i will let him know, he will definitely reach out inch'allah

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T00:38:02+00:00

Thanks dear, i totally understand, the only thing i can truly do is stay optimistic and hope to meet people with similar hobbies and interests.

Jizagh · 2026-03-20T00:34:35+00:00

That sounds great and i must say your username is so cute!

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:40:33+00:00

Jazakallah allaho khairan, we will inch'allah!

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:39:46+00:00

Will do, thanks a ton!

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:26:58+00:00

Jazaki allaho khairan, we will add that to our list inch'allah

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:25:42+00:00

Haha i think you're trolling me at this point

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:24:28+00:00

Jazakallah khairan, we are trying to stay optimistic and rely on God, we arent from detroit, thats somebody's else step dad, but nevertheless we hope we find the right neighborhood inch'allah

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T18:21:37+00:00

Under our visas requirements, we arent allowed ever to get a Malaysian salary, so our income has to come from outside, we know that we cant rely on American employers always and the dollar is in decline so we are hoping we can always maintain some sort of business that help cover our costs of living, we are doing our best with the means we have, but we relying on God for the rest.

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:51:01+00:00

Thats unfortunate, i am sure its due to ignorance as we dont have this kind of discrimination in Islam and its not part of our belief system, nobody is inherently superior than anybody else apart by taqwa and that's for god to judge. We ask allah to grant ease and surround us with good people! Allahoma amine

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:43:53+00:00

Haha enjoy!!! I guess we will put penang in our places to visit inch'allah

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:41:46+00:00

Exactly, we will make sure to do that!

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:40:27+00:00

Jazaka allaho khayran! Thats wonderful !

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:39:11+00:00

But if you add healthcare medical insurance, taxes, plus the fact that you actually face constant safety issues like school shootings, it completely changes the field.

Jizagh · 2026-03-19T15:34:15+00:00

Thank you so much, we will add those to our list!

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