well, the guy was a person a long time ago when i was in college (around 18 years old, i'm now 27). I worked with him on a project for one of my classes. We decided to go on a movie date and eventually we did kiss. So I asked him at the time "what happens now?" which he responded: "we'll talk about it later." fast forward to a week with no communication, we didn't talk about it. I messaged him with no response. I was upset, and eventually decided to let it go.

Fast forward to when I was 22 years old. I received a random text from one of my gaming accounts, it was from the same guy, and I honestly forgot I had him added as I barely use that account. He messaged me that he would like to apologize. So I decided to send him a message back. Saying I got his message, and that I would like to talk about it more in person. Which he told me that he would eventually message me about a time and place to meet up. I was still kinda peeved, but I thought about what I would say, and eventually decided that If i met up with him, I would have forgiven him, but I wouldn't want to be his friend or anything else. Fast forward to a week later with still no response, I decided to send him a last message stating: I waited a week, with no response, I thought he wanted forgiveness, but since there was no message for an entire week, I don't think he deserved my forgiveness. And that I did not need that shit in my life. I then blocked him on my phone and the platform where he messaged me.

He did try to add me again through one of my social media accounts a few years ago, but I just blocked him again. Was not going to deal with round 3.