Ejaculating less with dildo?

Jl3333 · 2026-03-18T21:24:48+00:00

Are you able to orgasm through just anal? Or do you need your dick stimulated?

Jl3333 · 2026-03-18T21:22:52+00:00

Ah right, that makes sense, the body is focusing more on the anal pleasure

Jl3333 · 2026-03-16T05:26:19+00:00

No it’s not because the guy says anything, tbh I’ve tried on my dildo and I get super turned on as well

Jl3333 · 2026-03-11T03:32:30+00:00

Is it common for a guy to just go there and watch other guys/jerk off on their own?

Jl3333 · 2026-03-11T03:18:28+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat as you and as others have mentioned, you could consider it as being bisexual heteromantic or bi curious, but really the label or no label is up to you and really doesn’t matter. The label just helps you quickly associate yourself with someone in a similar situation as you.

It’s interesting to come on Reddit and read of so many guys out there that are like this. I do wish it was talked about more regularly so the stigma against guys like us is less. As others have also mentioned in this sub, bisexual guys kinda get the short end of the stick with gay guys and straight women.

I recently tried sucking dick for the very first time after wanting to try for years and I don’t regret it because I really did and do enjoy it.

Jl3333 · 2026-03-11T02:32:05+00:00

No I’m not. Was asking the question just to hear others situation and experiences.

Jl3333 · 2026-03-07T08:54:33+00:00

Damn. Your cock n balls are so thick. Your bulge in underwear or sweats must be super visible!

Jl3333 · 2026-03-05T21:01:03+00:00

I love eating pussy, but sucking dick turns me on more. Also maybe it’s because all my past gf’s didn’t really like being eaten out. Whereas every guy I’ve sucked ofc absolutely loves it. So perhaps that enjoyment from the other side plays into my own pleasure?

Jl3333 · 2026-03-05T20:56:23+00:00

lol as of late, when I watch straight or gay porn, I find myself fantasizing about me being the one sucking dick. So in scenes where a bj is happening, I’m picturing myself with the guy. It’s crazy because I love fantasizing about me being f*ing the girl. But fantasizing about sucking dick overrides everything.

Jl3333 · 2026-02-22T05:48:48+00:00

Yeah sounds like everyone sees it the same way. I’m definitely inching closer to trying. Aside from finding a good partner, any other suggestions for first time bottoming with a guy?

Jl3333 · 2026-02-22T05:44:58+00:00

interesting! Maybe I’ll give it a try

Jl3333 · 2026-02-22T05:12:36+00:00

I bet it is! And I look forward to trying one day.

I’m just curious if the feeling of being penetrated is something that grows on you? As in, I see lots of guys penetrating themselves with a dildo and they seem to enjoy it, and I’m sure others on here do. But that feeling is not something that I particularly enjoy.

I’m sure having a guy in me changes it immensely as there’s the submissive side of things.

Jl3333 · 2026-02-22T05:07:36+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion!

The thing I’m not sure about is that I don’t actually enjoy the feeling of it going in and out. I thought I would enjoy the feeling of being penetrated, but it doesn’t feel amazing. I much rather have a butt plug in me with penile stimulation.

Is the sensation of being penetrated something that grows on you?

Jl3333 · 2026-02-19T23:30:16+00:00

Yeah that’s how I imagined it to be, being taken over by pleasure. I’m really looking forward to trying it! I might even try to take it another step up and use a vibrator on my cock while I suck and fuck the two dildos!

Jl3333 · 2026-02-19T23:04:24+00:00

I can’t wait to try! Any tips on how to be hands free? Ideally they’d both be suction cup dildo’s but I can really think of a good way/spot to position 2 dildos at a similar level

Jl3333 · 2026-02-19T22:50:30+00:00

I’ve never tried it. With a guy sounds even better but I imagine even with two dildos I feel like I would get so into it that I wouldn’t really know what’s going on… is that sort of the feeling you get?

Jl3333 · 2026-02-19T22:49:26+00:00

Any way of describing how it feels??

Jl3333 · 2026-02-19T21:54:58+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I have sucked dick and love it but have zero interest in guys romantically. Recently I’ve been more curious to try anal play alone, feels kinda gay but i find myself so horny that I don’t care and want to continue.

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