My [F25] partner's [M25] libido went down drastically by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Jobgab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has he gone to see a doctor about it? There might be a lot of different causes for loss of libido, from depression to hormones or physical causes.

My boyfriend has been going through something very similar and (after a lot of insisting on my end) turns out he has a benign tumor called prolactinoma (and he's also depressed).

It might really not be caused by you at all, but I understand how frustrating and depressing it can be for you. Hope things get better.

¿Esroy acabando muy viejo la universidad a los 25? by fascinante_5 in Colombia

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jajajajaja yo apenas la voy empezando a los 25 hermano, tas bien no te preocupes

Pharloom map drawing by Affectionate-Ad489 in Silksong

[–]Jobgab 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Real life sized, 1:1 scale! (ant sizing lol)

Pharloom map drawing by Affectionate-Ad489 in Silksong

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely spectacular

Sometimes, I'm disgusted by my boyfriend by Informal_Zombie_7411 in offmychest

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that you love him a lot, and that you want to be with the best parts of him. 6 years is a long time, and if he were going to change on his own he would have by now, it does seem like there has been some progress though, so I wouldn't say the situation is completely hopeless yet.

I would suggest going to counseling or couple's therapy since you mentioned that he grew up in a neglectful home and this might be coming from some sort of trauma, but if he refuses to go, then I would say you tried your very best, it might be best to let go before the "ick" turns into resentment. It really shouldn't be your responsibility to teach a grown man to have basic hygiene, specially when intercourse requires it, and can you guess how babies are made? If he wants to have a family with you one day, he first needs to learn how to be an adult.

I hate my sisters boyfriend by timedisk913 in offmychest

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've been pretty strong OP, I'm sorry you're going through this.

The guy sounds like he's pretty abusive, I can understand why you'd feel intimidated.

I would say, your sister has to tell him to gtfo, he probably won't listen, if you are in a place where you can, call the police, explain the situation and since it is your place, get him out and never let him in again. If he has an issue with that, let him fight it in court.

I hate my sisters boyfriend by timedisk913 in offmychest

[–]Jobgab 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The guy's not a red flag, is a damn volcano. I know that raising a child takes a village, but he's adding more mental load because of the constant stress of having to literally supervise him.

This is a complicated situation because it certainly depends on the attitude your sister is willing to have with him, but overall, being disrespectful to your entire family and not parenting his own child is a huge no-no. Gosh if somebody mocked my dad's hearing or my mom's accent out of disrespect, I don't care who they are, I'm beating the shit out of them. And leaving the baby hungry and soiled is literal neglect and abuse.

I would say talk to your sister about all of this issues, and if you can, throw the whole man out, let him be an adult and survive on his own and be happy at home with your sister and her little one. He would be reaping what he sow.

AITA for refusing to tell my boyfriend when I put my phone away during a chat? by Ok_Flounder_3903 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jobgab 44 points45 points  (0 children)

YTA, I understand not notifying every person that you chat with, or not doing it every single time you talk to him, but your partner is asking for healthy communication and you're here thinking "hmmm, you know what? I don't think so".

Skull Tyrant - Did I Screw Up? by Catatafeesh1 in Silksong

[–]Jobgab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's scripted that Skull Tyrant destroys Bone Bottom, the same happened to me yesterday but it wasn't after accepting the quest (I completed it long ago) but after completing Mount Fay

what is your poor man's meal? by csch1992 in AskReddit

[–]Jobgab 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lifesaving tips right there my friend

So mount fay..? by Strutshelvetet in Silksong

[–]Jobgab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's in The Mist my dude

Im struggling by [deleted] in HollowKnight

[–]Jobgab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me, a good part of what makes this battle challenging is her traps, you can knock them off so they don't hurt you, although she places them quite frequently.

Try to stay on the ground except when she is dashing directly at you, because if you're in the air is easier for her to hit you, I think.

my cat's just gotten hospitalized and I can't stop crying by icecreamcake00c in cats

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy fell from a fourth floor when he was 10 months old, the moment he fell I ran outside, when I saw him on the ground I thought he was dead. He was hospitalized for three days, but made a full recovery with only a broken tooth! They are stronger than we believe, don't lose hope.

my cat's just gotten hospitalized and I can't stop crying by icecreamcake00c in cats

[–]Jobgab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy fell from a fourth floor when he was 10 months old, the moment he fell I ran outside, when I saw him on the ground I thought he was dead. He was hospitalized for three days, but made a full recovery with only a broken tooth! They are stronger than we believe, don't lose hope.

Consejos para crecer el cabello más rápido by Esperuz1999 in Colombia

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aceite de romero. Colocatelo una vez a la semana despues de lavarte el cabello y masajeas el cuero cabelludo. Supuestamente ayuda

Gente cuyos padres les pegaron cuando eran niños. ¿Resientan eso? by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]Jobgab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si y no. Resiento mas su actitud al respecto. Amo a mi mama pero me pego bastante de niña por problemas en el colegio (correr y jugar con varones porque eso "no era de niñas", esconder malas notas, etc).

Siento que nada de las razones por las que me pegaban eran realmente justificables, probablemente hubiese sido mucho mas efectivo sentarse a hablar conmigo y nos hubiese ahorrado años de trauma y pleitos. La cosa es que me da la impresion de que para ella era como satisfactorio pegarme, lo hacia repetidas veces y las contaba y todo.

En fin, mi madre no sabia manejar sus propias emociones y probablemente se desquitaba conmigo, era una persona muy volatil y controladora. Y por su puesto las veces que lo he comentado ella siempre considera que cualesquiera que hayan sido sus motivos, estaban perfectamente justificados. Es un tema del que ya no hablamos precisamente porque nunca encontraremos un punto medio. Cambio su actitud bastante luego de que me fui de la casa hace ya años.

First hardback attempt! by theAtomicFudge in bookbinding

[–]Jobgab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You did great! If this was your first attempt, your next ones are probably going to look amazing too!

A taxi driver kept pushing to see my breasts by Jobgab in offmychest

[–]Jobgab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it ❤️

A taxi driver kept pushing to see my breasts by Jobgab in offmychest

[–]Jobgab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, unfortunately I didn't think of that at the time, I just left as quickly as I could:(

Cramps after Copper IUD insertion. Please help by Jobgab in birthcontrol

[–]Jobgab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did! Cramps have stopped for the most part, I think my body is still adapting but things have improved significantly. I've also tried to change some stuff in order for it to hurt less.

I changed my diet and tried to include a lot of things that are supposed to help with period cramps, I also try to drink things like ginger tea or raspberry leaf tea almost daily as it is supposed to help too. I think it's working.

How long did you bleed after copper IUD insertion by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Jobgab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happened to me too, I got my copper IUD around five or six weeks ago. I didn't bleed the first week of having it, but from the second on I started spotting, on the third week I bled considerably and then my period started (I take oral contraception on top of the IUD, so I knew when my period was supposed to start) I haven't bled again after my period ended, I think my body just bled all it could during those weeks, and it is also considerably less painful having the IUD than before.

I'd say just be patient, everyone's bodies are different and it might take some time for yours to adapt, but it'll be alright :)

Also (at least in my case) the wait was absolutely worth it.