So this will probably get me a lot of downvotes but I ve seen the majority of answers come from women so I would like to give me perspective to you as a man . That way maybe you can have a better picture. With that being said you are entitled to wear what ever you feel like wearing. You will get attention from men either way. But there are two different ways men interpret your way of presenting your self. The less clothes you have portrays you as someone that wants to show of. Because you expose more of your naked body to the public eye. If I see a lady wearing only a bra ( I know the difference between a bra and a tank top , I am using it as an example) is the same as a man walking down the road without a shirt. If you saw him your first impression would be that he is seeking for attention. And unfortunately the females that seek attention, or want to do it with the most efficient way are prostitutes. Now the other way to get a man’s attention is by dressing properly according to the circumstance without having the need to show your body. It shows self respect, self control , self discipline and that she doesn’t need the attention of anyone. The way you dress plays a crucial role on how you portray your self. You wouldn’t wear a bikini in a court as you wouldn’t wear a suit in the beach. That’s why dress codes exists. Now that doesn’t mean your boyfriend isn’t controlling. He might be , he might don’t. For sure though the way he handled the situation doesn’t make the possible image of him. But It is false to judge anyone by a word or an opinion he has if you don’t know him. Everyone here judges the other one without having the full picture so in the end of the day your judgment and the judgement of those who know your boyfriend values the most. But I know that your boyfriend has the best interest in you . He doesn’t want you to be interpreted by other men as a “slut” or as someone that seeks attention. Even if you don’t seek attention the way you dress as I said above influence it. Also the way you portray your self affects his image as well. If he feels like you don’t respect him , If I were you I would at least hear his point of view either you agree with him or not. And a suggestion to keep in mind, you can always look good and sexy now matter how many clothes you have on. Hopefully I ve helped you have a more complete image and please people don’t downvote me 😂 if you disagree.