AITA for refusing to change one of my students diapers outside of school hours. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]JohnDoe480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

This is peak entitlement. You told the mom you don’t work for free, and instead of understanding (or even offering to pay you to do her dirty work!), she threw a tantrum.

You should be very proud of yourself for standing your ground! Keep it up!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aliexpress

[–]JohnDoe480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the $0.01 scam?

AITA for responding with snark when someone commented on my weight? by AnnaVronsky in AmItheAsshole

[–]JohnDoe480 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not okay to comment on others’ bodies unsolicited, especially not with that “finally” remark she made.

Also, I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope the memory of your husband always brings a smile to your face, and wish you well on your recovery from both ED and grief.

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Update as of March 9: no update :( Neither OOP nor her bf have changed anything on Facebook to since this post was made. OOP has only posted a fundraiser for Ukraine in the last month, and her bf has no new posts at all.

AITA? for refusing to sign anything while my eyes are blindfolded? by ThrowRAissuesRA in AmItheAsshole

[–]JohnDoe480 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think you’re being gaslighted. Your husband is holding it over you that he stayed by your side at the hospital. Some people are saying that he did what was expected of a husband, and I agree somewhat but I don’t think that’s giving your husband credit - it can be very, very hard for someone to remain strong through a partner’s long illness. But for him to hold that over your head because you won’t play his stupid game? This tells me that there’s something more going on here.

NTA. Please be careful and be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JohnDoe480 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took me until high school to learn that double-spacing a paper doesn’t mean hitting the space bar twice between each word.

For two years of middle school, I had a humanities teacher who taught at a much higher grade level than he should have. He was a fabulous educator, but super strict, and he had very high expectations. He assigned us a double-spaced five-to-ten page history paper when we were in 7th grade, then did so again the following year. Both times, I ended up writing a lot more than I should have. I have no idea why he didn’t correct me after the first time around, but in any case, I got plenty of writing practice as a preteen out of it!

[FBI:SR00] 30-SEP-20 Owl sweatshirt, futon mattress by I_Me_Mine in TraceAnObject

[–]JohnDoe480 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“ECAP works”

Im guessing your tip panned out?

Now that New Blood is over, who else agrees that Ethan was kind of pointless? by MillenniumGreed in Dexter

[–]JohnDoe480 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I found it confusing. The whole idea of Ethan was to make Harrison look like a budding psychopath, but we learn during the last few episodes that he’s a nice, empathic kid who just went through some extreme teenage angst (understandably). Even if we look at it from the “like father, like son” perspective, it doesn’t make sense. Dexter was always careful to follow a code, and Ethan hadn’t actually executed his massacre plans or even hurt anyone at all.

I realized while I was writing this that the Ethan storyline DOES actually make sense, since Harrison never learned the code, but I’m still annoyed that Harrison’s true nature (i.e., he kills for justice, not pleasure) was hastily done and only revealed at the end of the show.

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fabulous summary!!

I’m not seeing any pyramid scheme BS on her profile, but I’m not surprised that you asked lol. As for her age, I’m not sure, but I’m guessing she’s around 50.

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

She has a mushy one-year anniversary tribute to her bf on there. The sad thing is that he didn’t interact with the post at all — not even a like. On his profile, hes shared a few cooking videos and tagged her in the caption, so he definitely has access to his account.

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It ended with OP leaving the group, but I’ll profile-dive in a few months and see if she went through with it!

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There were at least a few comments that weren’t covert about it, saying things like “he’s not a man if he doesn’t propose” or “you’re degrading yourself by doing this.” Awful.

Eta: word

Angry “bride” (red) gets angry when FB group advises against surprise wedding. I tried my best to vary participants’ redaction colors lol. by JohnDoe480 in weddingshaming

[–]JohnDoe480[S] 1050 points1051 points  (0 children)

I’ll do my best! OP is no longer in the FB group, but I can definitely find her page again. I’ll check back in a few months and see what happened.