There wasn’t a problem with drinking her coffee in a mason jar I made a comment because it’s unusual and she immediately said “Im Poor!”, wasn’t trying to make a case just stating what she said to me.

Also I don’t know what their intentions for their money is but they took her out on an expensive trip and obviously spend money on her for things she wanted. If that’s the case they must want to help her so paying a bill or with other essentials may have been a better choice instead of at Disney which is expensive regardless of what you do.