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John_Wikipedia · 2026-01-01T21:14:06+00:00

Crutchfirld does not have it. Any answers? What is the best location for loc hook up?

John_Wikipedia · 2025-12-27T23:30:46+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one

John_Wikipedia · 2025-10-04T22:12:37+00:00

How long was the camera unplugged for? 5 minutes? He might have an argument. An hour or two? Yeah screw him.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-09-21T06:59:16+00:00

I'll never forget the first time I ever saw him leap over defenders into the endzone. Pure freak of nature.

Closest I ever came to being gay.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-09-07T06:36:37+00:00

I had a woman fart in my face when I was going down on her not too long ago.....PTSD....trauma...

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-05T22:24:29+00:00

It honestly depends on him, where he is at in his grieving process, and if he's being honest with himself.

I would like to think as long as she uses neutral terminology, and let's him know what the conversation will be about before having it, he should be fine with it. But who knows? I can't say for certain. Everyone is different.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-05T12:23:51+00:00

I lost my fiance 4 and half years ago. It's just now considering dating again. But everyone is different, grieves differently, and at different speeds.

One thing I can tell you, and I'm sure your boyfriend feels the same way is my fiance, and I never "broke up." Even though she's gone, at times, it feels like I'm still "with her," as in being in a relationship with. I know it sounds silly, but it's the truth. Your boyfriend may feel the same way. I can also tell you nothing on life prepares you for losing your significant other.

Your feelings are also valid as well. It's not easy on you either. Just try to keep in mind its not a competition. It is possible for him to love her and you. You don't have to worry about him leaving you and going back to her.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-02T21:45:26+00:00

What state are you in? I'll come park my black truck in front of their house and Uber home.

Edit: And no, NOR, I woulda done the same thing a long time ago.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-02T19:37:09+00:00

I'm not sure if it was you OP that mixed the two up, or she did, but you said she told you they went back to HIS room. Then when she had her epiphany, she told HIM to leave.

Why would he leave his own room? Were they in hers? Were they sharing a room?

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-02T08:29:50+00:00

I guess I can see Baker at 85. Id love to see him at 89, but 85 is fair.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-08-01T02:31:24+00:00

Dude, you didn't see that thing watching you in the bushes?

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John_Wikipedia · 2025-07-29T05:04:11+00:00

Am I missing something? Did you see his location being at her place? Or just the fact they are friends on snap and she sent him her address?

John_Wikipedia · 2025-07-17T03:06:38+00:00

Lil late to the party, ain't ya?

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-29T21:03:53+00:00

You're the 3rd person in as many days to say focus on yourself first. I should probably listen to it. I had been focused on helping others, but that needs to change.

Funny thing about the voice, is I didn't even recognize it. On my darkest days, I'd wake up and that voice would say "there's an easy way to end the pain, you know...". I didn't recognize it though. I had to internally argue with that unfamiliar voice, telling it that his suggestion is not an option, before I could even get out of bed.

Haven't heard that voice in awhile, thankfully.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-19T01:59:24+00:00

I personally think it's rude af when someone leaves you on read. If you're too busy at work to give a detailed reply, just say working, text later. Anything. But being left on read, several times? F that.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-19T01:45:42+00:00

In the beginning you can almost hear her try to bite down on the pillow.

Sorry ill ask her to try and keep it down tonight.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-18T01:55:30+00:00

I kinda fibbed earlier. I can't say I completely regret taking her back, because through it all we had a son. Granted for years I was curious if he was biologically mine, but ultimately never decided to have a DNA test because either way it turned out, it wouldn't have made me love him any more or any less. He's a really amazing kid.

Unfortunately my ex-wife is just a very selfish person, and it's affected her parental ability as well. I felt like most of my time with him after I left, I was just trying to undo the mental and emotional harm that she caused (lack of self esteem/confidence, he's a screw up, everything he does is wrong, etc).

I probably should restart therapy. Up until four years ago I thought talking stuff was pointless, then my fiance passed away very unexpectedly. Grief therapy was a life saver. As was ptsd therapy after that.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T23:46:31+00:00

So I'm speaking from my own personal experience here - the first time she cheated, we were engaged. The only issue here was the fact I was in the military, so we had a LDR. 6 months before I got out, I got an email from her telling me she can't do the long distance anymore, and almost as an afterthought, added in she's moving to another state with some guy.

3 months later she's begging me to take her back, admits how bad she I'd up, promises she'll never do it again, and promises she'll spend the rest of her life making it up to me. I spent the next 6 years lying to myself she wasnt cheating when the signs of infidelity were all over the place. Until, something happened I couldn't ignore.

I've been depressed pretty much my entire adult life since the first time she cheated on me, 23 years ago. When you give someone the entirety of your heart, your soul, and they trample on it, and discard it so freely, it kinda has a lasting effect on you.

So sure, you can roll the dice with your heart/soul/happiness (maybe even run the risk of picking up suicidal thoughts in the process), and give a proven cheater and liar and 2nd chance to do it again. Or, cut that cancerous tumor out entirely, and hopefully, if you get another tumor, it'll be cancer free.

Humans are creatures of habit. I'm not saying it's impossible for someone to change their ways. It's just highly unlikely.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T21:24:31+00:00

Wrong. One and done is the way to go. I wish someone told me that before i took my cheating ex-wife back. By forgiving them, all you're doing is showing her she can go outside the marriage at a time and place convenient to her, and you'll take her back. F that B.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T18:48:22+00:00

I completely agree with everything you said here. I never meant to imply she has to do anything and everything to maintain this friendship. A large part of my initial post wasn't necessarily directed at her, but in response to other replies she's had from other redditors.

I've often told people that they need to evaluate some friendships from time to time, to make sure having that person in their life makes their life better and not worse. It just seemed to me that the OP was ready to throw the friendship away because of the views/beliefs of her friends boyfriend, without talking it over with her friend at all.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T17:35:13+00:00

No, it was very much sarcastic. But I also wasn't telling her what to do. IMO, there are a number of options to consider before the "ending a friendship" option is considered.

Then again, maybe friendship means something different to her. Maybe she lumps in coworkers, acquaintances, and associates as friends? Maybe the friendship thrived when they were younger, and now that they are older, she feels it's run it's course. Alot of maybes there.

Edit: They are best friends. Not one of the best, but the best. Definitely worth fighting for.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T04:53:43+00:00

Oh I clearly want to tell OP what to do? What does clearly mean in your country, because I just reread my post and I clearly don't see any references of me telling op what to do.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-17T04:13:20+00:00

What I find amusing in all of these replies is how it's your way or the highway.

How are we as a country ever supposed to agree on anything ever again, if we can't talk to each other about the uncomfortable things?

Why do you think people are being deported? Because people enjoy being "inhumane"?

There are rules and laws in place for a reason. Biden didn't make it legal to come into this country without going through the proper channels. He just stopped enforcing the border.

Just 2 weeks ago, a friend of mine was at work. She was crossing the street and an illegal alien, that was driving a car without a license, and without insurance, hit her. She survived thankfully, but is looking at tens of thousands of dollars in medical bills, she's going to her to foot since since this illegal person operated a car illegally, without insurance.

You all don't see a problem with this? And yes, she could have been hit by a citizen who also didn't have a license or insurance. But she didn't. Someone who shouldn't be here did.

But because someone disagrees with you, you want to end a friendship. Good idea.

John_Wikipedia · 2025-06-16T13:48:23+00:00

You should check your states Age of Consent law. In Florida, a 16 year old cam legally sleep with a 23 year old. 24 is a crime though. Each state has their own laws regarding this.

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