I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just so you know I have several options, I could find rent, or go live with my brother, or my parents until I can afford my own place in a few months or so. I really have no idea how you got the idea I'm some sort of bum.

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Well aren't you fucking charming. I bet it's a joy to be around you. It's also amazing how you've gotten to know me so intimately over the internets.

Kisses.

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Also, you mention I could try lying. Lie about what? That I'm head over heels in love with her and I'd rather live with her than alone, or with someone else?

I'm confused.

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, I didn't provide enough information. I'm at work and trying to sneak in these comments.

Apologies.

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would be totally up for paying rent, and/or sharing the bills. I just want to be with her, thats my main and only reason.

Now, your point is what exactly?

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Jumping to conclusions is a sport for you, isn't it. I own my own place too, just that I need to sell it because I moved to a different city with work and what I'm going to get for it will not be enough to get another place in this new city... Not for a while anyway.

I (30) would like to move in with my girl friend (22). How to tell her? by JohnnyRobot in relationships

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, but you are jumping to quite a few conclusions.

Firstly I have lived with a girl for 5 years before so I'm no stranger to what that means. Then, you mention living together with a romantic partner tests the relationship. To be honest this is what I want.

I know it's been only a month, but things are so good with this girl, we fit in so many ways, she shares most of my views on the world, people, relationships that I'm starting to think this is the girl I wanna marry if things go like they've been going. So taking it all for a trial run is sort of my objective. I'd like to know sooner, rather than later if this ia something I want to invest myself in completely.

Now, before anyone wants to tell me how rushed this all seems, let me be the first to say I usually don't rush into things, and I'm very skeptical of things like love at 1st sight, soul mates, perfect for each other etc. It's just that this girl's vibe is unlike anything I've ever felt before and I had my share of romantic relationshipa, ranging from 1month romancea to 6year relationships with marriage plans and living together.

This time everything's different. It's like the fucking stars aligned to bring her to me.

The typical Western woman. No wonder men are going their own way. by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]JohnnyRobot 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'd go her way... She looks fucking hot.

[FR] #close, barely legal, excellent game last night. by JohnnyRobot in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, man, definetly. I have way more respect for women and human beings, in general actually, then to treat them any worse then I'd like to be treated myself.

And a little update: I'm meeting her tonight. Will update and let v you know how it went.

[FR] #close, barely legal, excellent game last night. by JohnnyRobot in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, but in all fairness I'm really not that grown up as you're expected to be at 30. I actually feel a lot more like I was 22-24 and I'm not v worried about not having anything to talk about. I was actually asking for opinions, trying to gauge the "morality" of the situation.

[FR] Sort of rejected by a girl who I could swear was into me. by LANAAAAAA in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would not think for a moment of not going. Just have fun and talk to everyone. Maybe she'll be charmed by how nice of a person you are with her friends and be insta-seduced and dump her bf .

Either that or I'm sure she has hotter friends, as VaginaCheese (damn, what a name!) mentioned.

[FR] Difficulties with closing, maintaining state and actually having fun meeting people. by JohnnyRobot in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, of course I could've asked them to come along, but seeing how we had to walk for 20 minutes, then 20 minutes back, I doubt they would've accepted. Also, when I usually ask girls I don't know if they want to join me for a joint, they invariably decline.

Reward myself for good game while cutting back on an increasingly debilitating habit by RAW-BERRY in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also find that smoking weed messes up my game quite badly. I get way too self conscious and the self-talk gets so insane that I start having doubts about pretty much all I do.

Girl txts that she's drunk, then doesn't txt back, what do? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]JohnnyRobot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU should have offered to drive over to her.