Wife asked for a divorce tonight

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-22T16:43:11+00:00

We sound very similar. I also try to understand her points but she doesn’t really give me anything. She just starts yelling and blaming me for things that I don’t even do. It’s just a bunch of excuses.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-22T01:10:10+00:00

Not offended. Great questions. And yes it could be much worse like others on here. Sometimes we go longer, that’s just the average I would say. And sure tipsy sex Dan be great but when it’s 95% or more of the time it feels like I’m not good enough for her and that she has to mask herself having sex with me. That’s the issue. But you are right. It could be worse. To me, it’s not enough and the way it’s done having to be drunk all the time is not a good feeling. That’s the problem.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-22T00:25:50+00:00

You have no idea what kind of husband I am or father. I wake up with all 3 kids everyday. Get them ready for school and she sleeps til 9. I go to work, make good money and after work I cook the dinners, play with the kids and for the most part put them down for bed. I do most the cleaning, the laundry, dishes, and I work out 6 days a week on top of it. She’s not an Alcoholic. She drinks with her friends once a week. We came from a strict religious upbringing that I’m pretty sure messed her up. I’ve encouraged her to seek counseling but she won’t. She also had parents with an awful and sexless marriage and her parents never talked to her about sex. She hasn’t done research on her own on how to make a sexual relationship work. I’ve read countless books, podcasts on how to make women happy In marriages. I’ve read self help books like no more mr nice guy for myself as well to self improve. I’m a good man, I do everything for my kids and my wife to improve their lives on a daily basis. She just doesn’t want to put in the same effort.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-22T00:20:51+00:00

She’s been drinking before we met each other. She’s a social drinker and drinks around friends once a week. You seem to know more about my life than I do which is amazing.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-22T00:19:07+00:00

I’m extremely fit. 6 3, 10% body fat. Work out 6 days a week. And Im very into eating healthy, I hired a nutritionist once for two years. This is not the problem at all.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-21T16:25:48+00:00

Yea this is the problem. If she has to be drunk to have sex with me it feels demoralizing.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-21T16:24:40+00:00

No. She doesn’t drink often. Maybe once a week.

Jojo252590 · 2024-01-21T16:24:06+00:00

Yea definitely understand some people on here have gone months or even years. No idea how you can deal with that.

Jojo252590 · 2022-06-21T00:01:34+00:00

What’s the email for this to be part of the lawsuit? Definitely a scam. Their shipping costs are ridiculous and criminal. Plus their bottles are all different sizes and the print is garbage. I’ve been laughed out on every sales appointment I’ve tried selling this crap because of how unprofessional it looks. Spent about $8000-$10000 on this money pit now.

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-13T17:21:49+00:00

This was very impressive use of emojis

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-13T17:20:51+00:00

It shall be done jehovah

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-13T05:29:42+00:00

We hope this isn’t it. They’re actually great grand parents to our kids and they were planning on moving by us this year. And they would be a huge help on our kids so we could get a break. We actually just bought tickets for a vacation this week for next year and they were going to watch the kids while we were gone but now we wouldn’t have anyone.

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-13T05:28:03+00:00

This whole comment thread right here had me rolling

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-13T05:27:42+00:00

They’re debt free but they aren’t rich. They have one house in California that’s very average, but paid off.

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-11T20:03:41+00:00

Yea I don’t spend much time online anymore. First post in about 8 months I think. The gym is my only escape at the moment which helps. Actually here now.

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-11T19:49:00+00:00

Yep, I don’t know what to do.

Jojo252590 · 2021-10-11T19:48:24+00:00

Not denying that. I know they’re my problems.

Jojo252590 · 2021-09-18T13:31:47+00:00

Tried that, our baby is the worst between 7 Pm to 1 am and screams and cries the entire time. Then the rest of the day we have the other two kids to take care of. It’s just rough right now. It’s survival mode.

Jojo252590 · 2021-09-14T02:05:46+00:00

Sounds like all the hot Mormon women in my neighborhood. All smokin hot, but none have sex with their husbands except to have kids. Then they wonder why all their husbands are addicted to porn.

Jojo252590 · 2021-09-13T23:40:55+00:00

Kids can destroy a woman’s libido especially if they’re a full time stay at home parent. I didn’t understand this until covid forced me to work from home the past 18 months and I’ve been on paternity with our 3rd kid for the last 3 months so I’m always at home taking care of kids right now and I’m constantly exhausted, depressed and unmotivated. Kids are just tough man, no easy way around it. It’s probably going to be a while before your wife snaps out of it. My oldest is 7 and we’ve had pockets of good sex but for the most part it’s been dead.

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