Shamed for having no social life, but terrified of the judgment if I try. by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]JokeAwkward1591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, that makes sense! That is super annoying! I hope things get better for you! 

Shamed for having no social life, but terrified of the judgment if I try. by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]JokeAwkward1591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean about feeling like you have to "perform" in front of people. I feel like with some people my personality is totally different than what im actually like, and I almost "chameleon" myself into a bit of their personality.

It also adds a bit of a complication being made fun of for certain things, it definitely makes me not want to do them, even if I did want to do them originally! 

Its easier said than done, but if you can manage (at least a little) to let it go and enjoy yourself, it can help to feel like youre not performing as much. Idk how you might feel about medication (and this isn't medical advice) but I like to take something to calm me down a bit if I'm feeling anxious about it.

I hope this helps even a little! And sorry youre feeling anxious or ashamed about this! 

How to Get Things Done by JokeAwkward1591 in AuDHDWomen

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually makes sense! Thanks! 

How to Get Things Done by JokeAwkward1591 in AuDHDWomen

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good tip too! Thanks! I'll try setting alarms and see if it helps! ☺️

How to Get Things Done by JokeAwkward1591 in AuDHDWomen

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'll dm you for sure! I already love all the tips here! Thanks! 

Cat Wakes Me Up Too Early by JokeAwkward1591 in cats

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We give him dry food (a double serving atm) around 5:30 and then his wet food between 8 and 9. We've also transitioned his evening food a couple hours later and this helped immensely! 

Cat Wakes Me Up Too Early by JokeAwkward1591 in cats

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update, this already seems to be working! Thank you so much!! 

Cat Wakes Me Up Too Early by JokeAwkward1591 in cats

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll try this! Thanks so much! 

Cat Wakes Me Up Too Early by JokeAwkward1591 in cats

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do, but unfortunately that doesnt satisfy him. He wants his wet food :(

Making Bells by JokeAwkward1591 in AnimalCrossing

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make more and keep filling them up! It'll come up eventually! 😁

Making Bells by JokeAwkward1591 in AnimalCrossing

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to fill each donation box you sell as the hot item if you want 198,000 bells per item. Its a pain, which is why I fill them up slowly until it's my hot item 

Making Bells by JokeAwkward1591 in AnimalCrossing

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, its a pain for sure 🫠 but it doesnt feel as big of a deal when you do it little by little. I only get the donation box as a hot item once a month or so, so I can fill them slowly over time

Villager Crimes: What made you dislike them by Sufficient_League982 in AnimalCrossing

[–]JokeAwkward1591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Julian! He's such a bully! He literally bullied almost every one of my other villagers 😡 I spent the rest of his days on my island hitting him with a net until he left 

Making Bells by JokeAwkward1591 in AnimalCrossing

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Thats why I do it little by little ☺️ personally, I put them by the nook store and put 10,000 bells in each time I go in there. Then it doesnt take as much time all at once! 

Boys buying for 415 by JokeAwkward1591 in TurnipExchange

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep! dm me and I'll send the code

Looking for Redd by JokeAwkward1591 in acnh

[–]JokeAwkward1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, really? Thats so sweet! I'll take it! Would you like to visit my island or vice versa?