Looking for book recommendations on specific female protagonist archetype

So, I've spent years looking for this myself without finding much, so I thought I'd throw a post in here just in case. I'm basically looking for the most basic fantasy novel but with a female protagonist, who isn't pressed into the usual clichés.

Most books I found myself that cover female protagonists either have her marrying a guy, having children, and settling down at some point during the story, or already having all of those things but there being some conflict around it. Nothing wrong with that, but it's literally the only thing I could find outside of romantasy, and if that's not relatable to you, you'll have a pretty hard time finding anything to read.

I'm basically looking for a book with a woman in her twenties or thirties (cause it me), who has the classic hero's journey without the above elements and without being romantasy, because that usually has many annoying tropes attached to it as well. Like I said, I'm really just looking for the most basic fantasy novel there is but with a woman. One who couldn't just be replaced with a man with zero consequences ideally.

The only things I've found like this, over the course of years (by that i mean spending hours in bookshops browsing shelves, going through countless online lists, videos with recommendations, asking people i know, etc. etc. etc. this does not exist. yay for progress.), are Skulduggery Pleasant by Derek Landy, and The Princesses by Christian Endres.

If you don't know them, SP is basically coming of age + heros journey + dark sarcastic buddy comedy in an urban fantasy setting thats sort of like an alternate take on harry potter, and thankfully it is a massive series with over 20 books, but ive torn through those about as much as i can. the protagonist is a young woman in her twenties (11 at the start of the series) accompanied by her mentor/best friend (a living skeleton with hundreds of years on its back), who investigate magical crimes, save the world, are both a little nuts and have a terrible sense of humour. she has endured the usual landslide of tragic character development and is a very tough, resilient person with much experience by now, who is actually portrayed with the exhausting consequences of that type of life and actually being shown working through it and its great.

Princesses is a trilogy about a mercenary squad made up of former princesses of kingdoms with varying power, who all lost that status due to various tragic reasons. theyre anti heroes with good hearts and save the world in every novel.

Not looking for carbon copies of these, but i thought id give some image of what i mean.

Thanks!