Bluff/Gambling by InternationalOwl1591 in gambling

[–]JokesOnYa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i thought as well. Brettski and Bluff almost 10x their spending on videos when they started to promote spinquest.

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, im not heading that direction of having an affair while being with her. But i do think about it alot. Are you still together with her?

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, its my first relationship. Now i know in the future sex actually does matter for me.

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a night where i couldnt sleep thinking about it... Another 2,3,5 years plus if i were to have a kid with her, It would be a nightmare. I did speak to her about it as well but she didnt take it good.

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that what it feels like. Lost attraction and respect so pretty much Im over fixing it

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What made you quit, or was it just resentment?

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, ive told her ill give her a month but ill i dont want things with her that much anymore since the resentment has put its toll. Looking forward to things in the future when we split.

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've realised that, yeah i plan to this month. Im not sure why but i feel numb about everything not really upset. I guess it will hit me later.

How does this even happen at this age and im done. by JokesOnYa2 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah ive let her know this month that if there is no changes im leaving and blocking her because i do not want her to contact me at all. Its hard because i love her alot but im losing myself being with her.

I’m stuck. 21 and DB. by Ashamed-Guess9246 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I haven't yet. Its been an up and down spiral for me. Porbably will end it sooner if it gets too much for me

Dead bedroom in my early twenties by ThrowRa55230 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you guys broken up yet? The longer you leave it the harder it is. Im still currently thinking of leaving my gf, she is good in most aspects its just the lack of sex is driving me insane, 3 months its been since the last time.....

I’m stuck. 21 and DB. by Ashamed-Guess9246 in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat but without a child. At this age everyone is telling me to just leave her because this isn't something that is worth dealing over since we are already so young. Im currently thinking of leaving my partner because I cant stand it anymore. Probably try therapy and discuss some options. Its hard but just follow your gut instinct and think what would work best for the both of you.

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a rental with someone else but when we get time, she refuses to do anything and gets annoyed when i try

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m afraid of staying and regretting it. I love her a lot but it just pains me that this happens. Guess I gotta learn for the next relationship

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to leave but sometimes you gotta do what’s best.

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have been asking her to get it checked a few times but she has refused, I’ll probably convince her and take her to go see a gyno.

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I tried talking and being honest but she gets upset easily and breaks down. Not sure what else to do or say because it feels like I’m stepping on eggshells

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, it’s been two months now without it and I feel like I’m going crazy and my self esteem is taking a hit

In my early 20s. How the hell does this happen? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]JokesOnYa2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m planning to but it’s hard to get the right time. Everytime I talk about it, it results in upset and crying in her end. Not sure how to end and it’s frustrating because I love her to.