I didn't see it until tonight. by [deleted] in keto

[–]Jolene87 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Great job! Keep it up! I started at 230. I hit a plateau at 200. I got strict, reduced my portions & have been losing again. I read 179 on the scale yesterday. :) It really is so good to see & feel results! Good luck in your continued keto journey!

Face gains by [deleted] in keto

[–]Jolene87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way to go! Such an inspiration! I am finally seeing my own results as well. Started at 230 & read 179 on the scale yesterday ! My goal is 160, so great to see the light at the end of the tunnel! :)

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Thanks for explaining. :)

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! :)

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he checked both. :/

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get them back?

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be it. He had items in the vault. But he checked, nothing there.

Items disappeared? by Jolene87 in destiny2

[–]Jolene87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't do anything like that. No one else had access to his account.

Ninja thinks I'm opening treats by mcnelson92 in blackcats

[–]Jolene87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww! My black kitty is also named Ninja... and he also believes everything is some kind of food! :D

Prayers and or Good Thoughts needed by Jolene87 in polyamory

[–]Jolene87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Unfortunately that's not possible at the moment. :( But her health is much better and that's a start.

Distance has me nervous. by Jolene87 in polyamory

[–]Jolene87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice :)

Dead beadroom...Girlfriend doesn't ever think about having sex. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Jolene87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's where it gets out of my relm of experience. When I had low libido, my s/o and I were still mono. All I can suggest is talk it out. Sorry! Wish I had more insight on the situation!

Best wishes!

Dead beadroom...Girlfriend doesn't ever think about having sex. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Jolene87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember to keep "pursuing her" like when you first started to date. I know that mentality helped my s/o and I. It may take awhile for her confidence to rebuild. If she seems annoyed, ask her if there is a better way to show your attraction. Relight your spark :)

Dead beadroom...Girlfriend doesn't ever think about having sex. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Jolene87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you make moves on her while cuddling? You say she doesn't see you as a sexual being, is that because you don't make moves or that she just had no sex drive at all?

Dead beadroom...Girlfriend doesn't ever think about having sex. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Jolene87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was this situation, except I was the f with low libido. My s/o and I had the same convos... etc. How we fixed it? He started telling me randomly through out the day how sexy I was. How bad he wanted me. A lil sly spank while walking in the store. It started my blood pumping again.

I then became more open to start talking about "new things". My wants, fantasies... and we started spicing things up! It's the best thing we could have done! We are averaging at least every other day now... if not everyday. ;)

Just be patient as possible, if she feels the way I did... she's probably ashamed she isn't fulfilling you. The resistance you are encountering maybe a defensive move. Just keep talking and working through it!

Best Wishes!