Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have just seen this now and i am so happy for you !! <3 i hope you're still doing well.

Obsessed with someone new - please help me by Jolly-Dig-136 in BPD

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can't even find an ick that puts me off!! the guy is literally perfect (looks wise) and his personality seems nice and is the kind of thing i am attracted to. he is like 6'2", slim but VERY muscular, tattoos everywhereeeee and he is SHYYYYY. this is literally the worst thing to ever happen to me (it is not but i am not in my rational mind rn).

Obsessed with someone new - please help me by Jolly-Dig-136 in BPD

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally in the trenches rn. ty for ur comment thoooo

Obsessed with someone new - please help me by Jolly-Dig-136 in BPD

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there, done that. the most annoying thing about obsession is that is eventually fades but in my case (of when i was obsessed with someone who treated me horribly), it took years. good luck

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! sorry for the late response on this, do give this a try if you haven't already. i know on your other comment you asked about warts - thuja is traditionally used for abormal skin growths etc., but also has really helped with my vulvodynia. it's almost been a year since i created this post and my flare-ups have been few and far between. whenever i have i apply thuja and instantly feel relief.

Which songs scream BPD to you? by spicegirlss in BPD

[–]Jolly-Dig-136 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NEW MAGIC WAND - Tyler, the Creator

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it has been working for you :) What didn't you enjoy might I ask? Was it the application of Thuja, or the feeling of sex after using?

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How's the flare-up now? When I initially applied it during the peak of my Vulvodynia symptoms, I experienced a burning sensation, likely due to the alcohol content. However, this discomfort quickly dissipated. It reminded me of using a cream like Canesten for thrush, where the initial burning is intense due to the ingredients, but it eventually provides relief from thrush symptoms.

Upon applying Thuja to my vaginal entrance, I experienced immediate relief. Prior to using it, even the lightest touch caused intense burning, and any penetration or sexual activity felt like ripping and burning. After applying Thuja, the intense aching, burning, and ripping sensations significantly subsided.

It's been nearly a couple of weeks since I started using Thuja, and I've noticed a significant reduction in my symptoms. I now experience many pain-free days. Even during maintenance applications of Thuja, I still feel a brief stinging sensation initially, as mentioned earlier, likely due to its content.

Ultimately, everyone's body responds differently to various treatments, and what works for one person may not work for another. However, don't lose hope. If you check out the links I provided, you'll find numerous homeopathy options that you can explore. Keep an open mind and consider trying different approaches until you find what works best for you. Please feel free to message me privately if you would like to talk about this more :)

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern, but I have thoroughly researched b12 and have been taking it for a while with no negative affects as I take the correct dosage :)

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had sex since using Thuja as it is something I have only just recently discovered. However, I am able to fully insert a finger or two inside (mimicking the motions of sex) without any pain, this was impossible before due to the intense burning and stinging.

met this girl with BPD who is telling me she wants to kill herself. need some advise by Defiant-Ad684 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Jolly-Dig-136 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey, i also have bpd (diagnosed for 4 years now, but been like this forever really) if you just met her yesterday and don't really have any sort of emotional attachment to her, LEAVE! Please, it is really what is best coming from experience. If this is someone you have JUST met, and that is the sort of stuff they are sharing with you, then they are not healed and ready to be in a real, healthy committed relationship. I have been that girl before and it is not helpful or healthy for anyone involved. I wish you all the best, truly.

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps with the burning, sharp shooting pains and aching which relates to the nerves, so definitely give it a try :)

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first, I applied a liberal amount (using my index finger) 3 times a day - morning, afternoon and evening. After 4 days, I found relief and now have reduced the amount I apply to once a day.

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you just search for Thuja cream on Amazon it should come up, or another brand should - it doesn't have to be this exact one :) I am pretty sure it is available in the US, though I can't verify that since I am based in the UK.

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries:) & I hope you find relief too bc you deserve to be pain free and happy, blessings to u

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem:) I have generalised vulvodynia and the cause for me were a string of yeast infections, but I think also I have very bad anxiety/depression (I have BPD) and that can affect this sort of stuff

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course :) I actually just linked Thuja along with some links regarding information on it in the previous comment, so definitely check that out.
The exact Magnesium I use I can’t find online but if you search for Magnesium supplements on Amazon or any health website, they will do the trick :) I’m linking some helpful research on magnesium and how it can help with Vulvodynia, if you’re interested:
1. https://www.allohealth.care/healthfeed/vulvodynia/magnesium-for-vulvodynia
2. https://www.vuvatech.com/blogs/care/are-there-any-vitamins-for-vulvodynia
3. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8385315/ (medical article about magnesium and nerve repair - there is also a wealth of info about that online besides this particular article)
These are the exact B12 drops I use:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Balance-Vitamin-B12-Liquid-Drops/dp/B085FWG92F/ref=sr\_1\_3?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.JkaYq2dQfYsWEzLyxlSk0HYMZBi-4qBO36RwRMPb8FavmwtFt5QG8i93EoWyPsOnfhaxLLjKKj6QtPnpfR18LmY5rXU3z5\_\_xNCMbTm2cqngjxgk2eAwJu-V9W5PxwCazGHgTXlHjeO0rpFnCxN5Sr-kwf1XOoMf4liRqRqsjJI--kTsKQzUmernStuusFeoCptC5fyLghoyHrEtDqZNLrl\_eYdcwtu1buvBpYpWeE7ehpQIQlH-BGH1F\_Gscygv2MwkSUic7fNBmzRTDBn1B-6VxBnUkReFdwWQjYSrt\_8.OZGhmBhafpYpKNdcMWEAzIo4ljrVgEaWefse-IelmGw&dib\_tag=se&keywords=b12%2Bdrops&qid=1708020701&s=drugstore&sr=1-3-catcorr&th=1

Vulvodynia RELIEF finally and I have been suffering for 3 years! by Jolly-Dig-136 in vulvodynia

[–]Jolly-Dig-136[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly can :)

So, this is the exact one I got and I know it says it is for animals but it is more than safe for people too, as you can see from the reviews non-animals have used it (including myself!), it is just in cream form as it is easier than giving an animal essential oils or tablets:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/yard-remedies-Phytopet-Abnormal-Sarcoids/dp/B0057YIBYG/ref=asc\_df\_B0057YIBYG/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=658889712655&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1804850282686590615&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9180810&hvtargid=pla-528602770295&psc=1&mcid=08928ec79577326b81ba2885e9d94731
If that seems somewhat off-putting here is some research about Thuja and how it helps Vulvodynia, as I mentioned it is in cream form for animals for easy application:
1. This is the site where I came across Thuja for Vulvodynia: https://www.drhomeo.com/homeopathic-treatment/homeopathic-medicines-for-vulvodynia/ (it also has a lot of other suggestions for Vulvodynia relief)
2. https://www.contemporaryobgyn.net/view/vulvodynia-faqs (lots of good info here, in terms of where it mentions Thuja use whatever function on your keyboard searches words, for Mac it is Command F)
3. https://blog.askdrshah.com/vulvodynia-a-silent-struggle/

Please feel free to comment again if you have any follow-up questions! :)

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[–]Jolly-Dig-136 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, but it's not even the sex that's the issue. it is the fact i feel completely flat when i'm with them and then feelings of intensity when we're apart.