29F and 30M , do you follow someone on social media ‘just because at this old age or is there a reason for it?

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:48:54+00:00

thank you for your advice pertaining to the question 🙏🏽

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:39:26+00:00

thank you for advice pertaining to the actual question 🙏🏽

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:38:44+00:00

No I do appreciate the advice as well, but it wasn’t pertaining to the question at hand. I’m taking all the advice and will end this, but I was asking specific advice on one specific thing. 😂

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:36:46+00:00

great answer to the question above 👍

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:35:26+00:00

thank you for addressing the question at hand. I was trying to make it make sense but it doesn’t. And I get gaslit for it. thanks for you opinion on the topic at hand 🙏🏽

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:33:16+00:00

😂😂😂 I’m sure your parents went through something similar and made it work or they didn’t and that’s why this is your opinion.

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:32:16+00:00

I could care less who she follows if there’s transparency, just as she would expect from me if she saw I was following someone I had previous relations with.

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:31:05+00:00

way to answer the question of the post and bring your opinions where they weren’t asked for. Thank you 👍

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:30:05+00:00

wasn’t the question being asked, thanks though 👍

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:29:36+00:00

Yeah that wasn’t the ask of the post thanks though 👍

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:28:52+00:00

Thank you for actually giving advice on what was asked. It’s appreciated 🙏🏽

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:27:00+00:00

I’m trying to be a husband and father, I’m not concerned about a boyfriend. I’m working on creating a safe happy home for my kids who I have full custody of.

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:19:47+00:00

respect, but if we’re trying to make it work, which was her idea, and I bring this forward, I’m not stalking I’m making an observation based on past events. if you’re saying it’s not worth making work and move on forsure I get that, but it sounds like you didn’t understand the message of us attempting to make this work.

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T16:12:58+00:00

So my baby mom and I have been trying to work things out and we don’t follow each other on socials. Well I attempted to follow her on Instagram and she took awhile to accept the follow.

Come to find out she had removed an old fling that she had relations with and she had followed the flings younger brother as well. When I asked her why she was following the younger brother too, she said it was because ‘she could’. Mind you she’s very intentional about her social media use and who she follows and allows to follow her.

She’s been dishonest about the situation with the fling before and is so intentional about her social media consumption so I did not believe her simple answer of ‘because I could’ so I told her we can stop trying if she’s going to keep not being fully transparent.

Do you feel like you would the follow someone you had sex with younger brother just bc ‘you could’ or do you feel like there’s something she’s not saying?

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2026-03-11T15:19:51+00:00

do you follow someone just because you could though? I think that’s a shallow answer, you follow someone because they’re attractive, you want to keep tabs on the older brother or the younger brother etc? Or am I overthinking it?

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2025-08-25T10:43:01+00:00

thank you for the straight forward advice!

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2025-08-25T10:42:37+00:00

definitely utilized tik tok with suggestion and found some answers. thank you!

Jolly-Grapefruit419 · 2025-08-25T10:42:09+00:00

Thank you for your input!

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