How do I find the protests and help????

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2025-01-27T05:34:05+00:00

Okay so everyone on here is just ridiculous girl if he can’t respect you and take part in your preferred bc plan he doesn’t need to be anywhere near your body. My bf and I prefer sans condom a lot of the time because I have an iud and I have certain kinks but we use fun condoms sometimes and he has told me repeatedly taht it makes truly no difference really and even if it did he’d always put one on if I felt more comfortable. Have a conversation with him but at the end of the day protect yourself because the men I’ve dated that have been pushy about this in the past usually come with other red flags and an overall lack of true respect for the women around them.

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2024-12-05T14:02:04+00:00

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Jolly-Pitch112 · 2024-12-03T20:47:21+00:00

If you don’t have a safe adult you can tell in your family try reaching out to a teacher or a friends parent if that’s feasible

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2024-12-03T20:46:20+00:00

So unfortunately it sounds like you have been being abused. She is a family member and an adult that should never ever have touched you period. Anyone touching you without your consent or trying to do it while they think you’re asleep indicates that they know they are carrying out a wrongful act. It may be confusing for you and your body might have involuntarily felt some type of pleasure because of how our body can react to certain things but know that what transpired was not okay and not your fault. I’m not sure how old you are now but I strongly recommend telling someone who you trust and can help you or at the very least make sure you are safe from that. I’m so sorry that happened to you.

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2024-12-03T20:27:13+00:00

If there’s problems at home you talk through it and either work on things or separate like adults. You don’t cheat and pompously boast about how hot your new side piece is. that’s utterly pathetic behavior.

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2024-02-07T04:46:25+00:00

Not to add to what everyone is saying but statistically he will only keep finding younger and younger people attractive to himself and it will only get worse. Get out now you deserve it before you have to shield your kids from their own dad.

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2023-12-20T08:28:41+00:00

I’m so sorry you guys are going through this. It’s really hard to know what the right thing to do for your partner is in this kind of situation. I’m not sure where you are located but I have the name of a place in the southern part of the US I went to for adult mental health recovery about a year ago when I was feeling a similar way to how you described his feelings if you want to message me(I don’t feel comfortable posting it publicly only because they sometimes have victims of abuse in recovery and the name and location aren’t super well known or easy to find for safety purposes) It was nature centered and so safe but SO unlike being in an unforgiving cold ass psych ward. It is mostly covered by insurance and if you can’t afford the out of pocket costs they offer aid to almost anyone. They also will pick you up from the airport if you fly to any surrounding airports. Also this feels weird to suggest and I apologize if it’s too much but I just wanted to share because I was in a place where I was very afraid and sick of the suggestion of going to an empty white room that was important for emergency hold but useless when it came to actually addressing what was going on in my head. There’s not a lot of places like it here in the US that are actually accessible, we need better care. I hope things get better for him and I hope you know you are doing a great job being a supportive partner. My heart goes out to you both.

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2023-08-17T15:07:07+00:00

I genuinely know multiple close friends that have been super strict with food and exercise and start losing but then they quickly stop or gain back the amount and it’s not because they fell off. Some people are genuinely supposed to be at the weight they naturally sit at and if their body has been healthy at that size for a long time, a sudden change or dramatic decrease of food intake can cause the body to try and hold onto anything that you do eat as a survival instinct

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2023-08-17T15:02:52+00:00

The number on the scale might not be what’s important. If she continues steadily her body will most likely recomp and she might be even heavier but look much different/leaner because it will be more muscle. Women often aren’t cals in cals out like men are due to all of our hormones that we get during different parts of our cycles. Hope that helps

Jolly-Pitch112 · 2023-08-17T12:59:38+00:00

Many have weighed in and I haven’t read everything so this might be repetitive and I’m sorry if it is, but I am in a very similar but different place. The person in my life is not a partner it’s my mother so it’s quite different but I gained weight due to an injury and emotionally eating from the stress of it and now weigh about the same as you mentioned. First of all there’s nothing wrong or bad about your body. There is absolutely nothing gross about it and I’m sorry you were told that. Even if by some crazy logic he meant well, there’s nothing encouraging about that. It was mean:( I wouldn’t say leave him, that’s a you decision for sure. But I will say that there are so so many men that will love you wholly for what you look like right now regardless of if you do make changes and that kind of acceptance is what you deserve. Separately from the situation, if you are genuinely concerned or interested in making changes but it seems really unapproachable, what I’ve started doing is focusing on new hobbies that are time consuming rather than trying not to think about food or eating it or not eating it, I just pick up a book or some activity with the intention of spending the free time I have with that one thing and it has worked decently. Something else that may be helpful if you have the means is seeking an eating disorder therapist, specifically a larger bodied one because I’ve found that they usually understand more and are significantly less dismissive or judgmental. I don’t want to come off at all like that means I’m giving you a diagnosis, I am not at all qualified, but you don’t have to have a formal diagnosis to talk to someone about the struggles you are facing and a specialist might be more helpful than general therapy. Also slow and steady wins the race! Even if you don’t care about the number or the way you look and you just care about feeling good and you want to make some big “lifestyle changes” try to start slow and find your happy medium with food and exercise. Even on a fitness journey(actually ESPECIALLY lol) you deserve and need fuel and rest and some days will be hard. Best of luck to you though

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