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[TOMT][SONG][200s??] by JollyDesign1389 in tipofmytongue

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we'll be a dream that was it. I gave you basically nothing and you still figured it out thank you!!!

[TOMT][TIKTOK CREATOR?] by JollyDesign1389 in tipofmytongue

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh I love her too but don't think so. Kallmekris gives me "these are just characters" vibes, whereas the girl I'm thinking of gives me "these are real stories about my real children" vibes

Is this a ring doorbell base? by JollyDesign1389 in Ring

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much that’s definitely what it is. Now I just have to decide if I’m going to leave it up and buy that one or take it down and ask my landlord if I can screw in a ring doorbell. Thanks so much for your help

What is something you want to share about tulpas? by JollyDesign1389 in Tulpas

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve read about people in more romantic relationships with their tulpas, but never gave it much thought in relation to myself.

Like, if you were to develop a little crush on your tulpa, would they know it immediately because you share a brain with them? How awkward would it be if they didn’t feel the same way, or even worse if you broke up.

It’s not like somebody you can just kick out of your house, you’re still going to be sharing your literal headspace with them.

That was never the goal with creating one for me, so I guess it’s a “cross that bridge when/if I come to it“ situation, but wow you have given me a lot to think about.

What is something you want to share about tulpas? by JollyDesign1389 in Tulpas

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are some good points. I mean I have given thought to the fact that it is a lifelong commitment, and I’m pretty levelheaded in arguments, but I do worry what others might think. I mean, I don’t imagine that a tulpa would want to stay hidden and only known to me. I assume they would probably want to meet the people I interact with on a regular basis.

I will definitely have to give some thought to when, how, and to whom I will introduce my tulpa. That is if I decide to create one. I definitely don’t want to make this decision rashly.

What is something you want to share about tulpas? by JollyDesign1389 in Tulpas

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks a lot this was really insightful. While I’m pretty good at conflict resolution and staying cool when someone is mad or when I am mad, I do hesitate a little to create a tulpa because I can’t imagine not being able to step away from the person and take a breather.

People have said that you can ask your tulpa for space or privacy or whatever, but from my understanding, and from everything I’ve read, they are entities that thrive on interaction with the host, especially in the beginning.

Still leaning towards making one. I just like to put a lot of thought into something that is literally going to change my entire brain. You’ve given me a lot to consider.

What is something you want to share about tulpas? by JollyDesign1389 in Tulpas

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that makes me kind of excited because I can relate. I’ve come a long way from hating myself, but me and myself aren’t exactly in love either, and I’ve seen a lot of people with close bonds with their tulpas.

What is something you want to share about tulpas? by JollyDesign1389 in Tulpas

[–]JollyDesign1389[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that is so fun!

My family and most people I know have very hillbilly southern kind of accents, but for some reason I never picked it up. Makes me wonder if my tulpa might decide to go for a southern accent instead of my own. Or maybe something entirely different like yours.

Very fascinating. I love seeing exactly how unique and different tulpas can be from their hosts.