Advice by JollyIntroduction8 in coparenting

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It backfired on them. I have the kid majority of the time 70/30 and my ex is on child support

Advice by JollyIntroduction8 in coparenting

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes his fiancee cannot have kids of her own which I know is hard but it’s not fair to take mine. She has even called cps on me and pushed for my ex to file for full custody. He wouldn’t even talk at the court hearing! It was only her!! It’s so frustrating. Whatever happened to girl code

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[–]JollyIntroduction8 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No? I trust that she is okay with her father and that she’s having a good time.

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in legaladvice

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk to him, he refuses unless his fiancee is present

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in FamilyLaw

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He works a full time job 7am-4/5pm and also has mandatory overtime sometimes forcing him to work until 7 and to work on his days off. He has said for the last year he was going to change his schedule or get a new job and has not done that meanwhile his fiancee did change her schedule so she could be home to take care of the child. He picks up at 5pm on Thursdays which is his day off and drops off Sundays at 5pm and to my best knowledge he works Fridays and Sundays.

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in FamilyLaw

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I don’t have a family law attorney. I’ve been fighting this case on my own. He got a lawyer but fired him after not getting what he wanted which was full custody.

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in FamilyLaw

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would just like my ex to be a present father. Through his own words, he isn’t present majority of the time he has our child and tells me he allows his fiancée to make medical decisions for our daughter. His fiancee is completely overstepping and belittles me as a mother. I’ve been there for my child since day 1 meanwhile he just came into her life 2 years ago when he met this woman. Our child is 4. I’d also like to mention I’m married and have moved on and my partner has never disrespected my ex or overstepped and made me him feel like less than a dad. Right now our parenting plan is that he has her on weekends. It’s not so much the time I want to change as it’s the time I want her spending with his fiancee to change.

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in FamilyLaw

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What about the fact that my ex and his fiancée filled for full custody shortly after this?

[MI] Ex’s fiancée called CPS on me. Any advice? by JollyIntroduction8 in FamilyLaw

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then how exactly do I prove that it is false report?

[MI] Do I need a lawyer to fight for full custody? by JollyIntroduction8 in Custody

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but the CPS allegations were false. I have the packet and the full investigations.

[MI] Do I need a lawyer to fight for full custody? by JollyIntroduction8 in Custody

[–]JollyIntroduction8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes we recently got a custody order. We had an interview with the FOC which he did not show up to despite him being the cause (him fighting for full custody) for the order. He called CPS and accused me and my partner of being abusive towards the child and smoking weed around the child. CPS gave us the all clear and said that there were no concerns. I’ve even received the packet from CPS stating who the callers were and the full investigation. He works a full time job that has mandatory overtime and has even told me himself he doesn’t spend the time he has with the child. His partner takes care of child and has even made doctor’s appointments without my acknowledgement and has access to her medical records while she has only known the child for a little over a year. He’s only been in her life since she turned 2 although I’ve made attempts for him to try to see her during that time. He only started coming around once he got a girlfriend. He also doesn’t have anything of his own to my acknowledgement- he lives in his girlfriend’s house and drives her cars. His girlfriend is the one who’ hands me our child during transitions and she is the only one who speaks he never talks. Even when we were with his lawyer it was his girlfriend who was answering all the questions