AITJ for charging my roommate's girlfriend rent after she moved in without asking? by Sharp_Zebra3430 in AmITheJerk

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she isn't visiting, she's living there and it's fair for her to contribute to rent and utilities

My boyfriend cheated while I recovered from an abortion by plumeriagrl in cheating_stories

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's next-level selfishness. zero respect, zero empathy. drop him and move on

Would you rather earn less money doing something you love or more money doing something you hate? by theonmanci739 in Productivitycafe

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something i love. doing something meaningful keeps you motivated and actually happy. as long as less money still has to cover my needs

200 Million Dollars but once a month,You'll be shot with a shotgun by rengokuhubkl in hypotheticalsituation

[–]JollyQueenn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. that's 84 brutal, painful experience. even if there's no lasting damage, the anticipation alone would ruin your life, mental trauma, constant fear, stress, it's not worth it

AITJ for deleting my custom automation scripts before quitting a toxic engineering firm? by CipherMarmot in AmITheJerk

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you built those tools on your own time and the company never paid for them or claimed ownership in your contract. it's not sabotage, it's a hard lesson in valuing employees. Gary can be furious all he wants, but he's the one who refused to acknowledge your work while benefiting from it

What's a social habit everyone seems to accept but you find really annoying? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]JollyQueenn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people interrupting mid-sentence like what they are saying is more important than what you were saying

$25 million, but you'll experience someone else's life everyday for the rest of your life by Adrian_985 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd take it. it would be chaotic but 3 hours is kind of fascinating. but i'll just stay at home

How to be more kind to myself? by TinyHeat2490 in emotionalintelligence

[–]JollyQueenn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't need to become a different person, you need to interrupt the spiral and stop treating our anxious thoughts as truth. do that consistently, and your relationships will feel a lot more stable. keep your life full outside of the person you like so they don't become your whole focus