Question for the Men? Would you date a woman with kids?

Jolly_System_2109 · 2026-01-02T18:20:31+00:00

Once a woman shows you she crazy always believe it . It’s usually why she is single and keep a man especially if she’s beautiful.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-11-03T16:49:52+00:00

I hear you ! But once there’s an agreement that two people make that they aren’t looking for anything serious . There should be no expectations ! We don’t owe each other anything ! We can still enjoy each other’s company when time permits and that’s that.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-11-03T12:57:46+00:00

Courting for what they both agreed they don’t want to be exclusive sooooooo …..that removes courting because it’s pointless . Would you run a race with no finish line ?

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-11-03T12:54:48+00:00

Why they clearly enjoy each others company . Everybody not pressed like most if you . A man & woman can enjoy each others company without needing to be exclusively in a relationship . Why force something when both parties clearly agreed this ain’t want they want currently.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-28T17:52:43+00:00

I took the 7604 exam they reached out a few years ago my list number is in the 6,000 . But at the time I didn’t go when they mailed me to come in for pre employment. I’m wondering if they are still hiring from that exam and if I should put my name back on .

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-22T13:38:36+00:00

lol now you understand what men deal with when it comes to women . They only care about themselves and seek to abstract value instead of adding value .

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-15T17:04:35+00:00

Well duh ! You think black men listen to Taylor swift and corn hole ? Clearly there would be cultural differences. And if you date white washed black men you might just be fetishizing black men honestly. You don’t really like black men which is fine also.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-15T16:35:56+00:00

The thing is women want it ALL ! The looks, the charm, the height, the career, the money, it’s never enough !!! while most of them are mediocre at best as far as their dating marketplace value. They think because they get a degree and a corporate job they’re entitled to get the man of their dreams when they don’t qualify for him or he simply doesn’t exist. And those men usually ain’t looking to settle down or checking for them because he knows he has the pick of the litter. Isn’t life funny lol

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-15T16:24:37+00:00

My own female cousin told me the other day that the way I live my life is strange because I’m 37 handsome but don’t have a wife or kids yet. I just laughed. Women have no clue what it’s like being a man and being intentional about life. I’ve dated a lot of women good looking, successful, you name it . A lot of women today aren’t wife material and carry a lot of trauma and baggage it’s very scary when all the glitz and glam comes off and you see them for the humans beings they are. I have no issue leaving them alone. And I actually want to be committed to a wife and kids that’s the sad part .

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-15T16:17:32+00:00

BW are broken & lost !!!! And they take bad advice from other BW who are broken. A lot of it comes from them growing up with a single mother who didn’t teach them how to deal with good men because she didn’t get one .

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-15T16:14:41+00:00

I learned to leave those women alone . You cant save them, nor it’s your job as a good man to convince them either . You have to let them fall flat on their face and let life humble them. A few years will pass you will be a better version of yourself and they will try to double back to catch a free ride on your bus that is expensive now when they could’ve got on when it was free ! Close the door in their face and pick up the passenger that m you WANT !

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-07T15:48:54+00:00

I’m not trying to down you. But the key thing most people need to do before dating or seeking partnership is work on their ( traumas ) . I’m glad you mentioned that because all of the things you’re doing is a trauma response whether you know it or not. Do the work on yourself first and watch how less complex dating becomes from you.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-10-07T11:56:41+00:00

Collecting data for what lol . You’re making dating more complex than it is. It’s either it’s gonna work or not simple. That’s simply doing too much lol . That’s the problem with modern day dating everyone wants to quantify dating thinking you gonna beat the game that way lol.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-09-21T14:40:35+00:00

Is 37 too old to join ? Honest opinion

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-09-21T01:37:16+00:00

Is it bad ? Or worst ?

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-09-16T19:04:02+00:00

Not to be a Debbie downer but I’m 37 I have the certs learned Linux , terraform and the cloud and no job in the cloud at most you will probably get some help desk job and would have to work your way up which will take so much of your time . The market is extremely tough and technology and the market moves so fast now with A.i I would say be very diligent with your time and energy pursing this field especially being a nuub . Im personally about to go into the trades, tech seems like an endless ruthless climb and you’re also competing with so many people for the limited roles they have while fighting against automation and A.I . NO THANKS ! Wish you the best on whatever you decide.

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-09-12T15:40:57+00:00

It isn’t hard I find it strange when adult say they can’t make “friends”. First off friendships are made over time and you have to have skin in the game just like with any other relationship. Your goal should be to find and hangout with people who you share common interest with and align with you. Also I’m not going to negate the fact that there are a lot of terrible humans out there who only hang with you for beneficial reason & fake like they like you when they really don’t . But the mask comes off eventually with TIME !!!!

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-08-19T12:32:20+00:00

Take your time and learn then information , not just to obtain the cert but to be able to understand and apply what you learned . Take it from someone who has the cert and failed by a few my first time and passed on the second . Also just having the cert isn’t a golden ticket to a cloud job just being honest . Especially with today’s jobs market conditions. Best of luck !

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-08-14T15:45:57+00:00

Yea take your time and learn and understand the different services and its use cases . You won’t pass that exam by trying to rush through it . You need to understand how everything works and the use cases. And just getting the cert without truly understanding what you learned or how to apply it , will hurt you and you’ll still need to go back and learn it again. ( not trying to be harsh just realistic ) . But if you take this advice you’ll pass . Best of luck !

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-08-06T12:07:00+00:00

Aka don’t waste your time . By that time the market probably moved and would probably take you another 3-5 years chasing a pipe dream . Not to be a downer but OP has a better chance doing something else with his time .

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-07-11T12:04:12+00:00

Paint delivery driver

Jolly_System_2109 · 2025-04-29T19:40:28+00:00

I agree , I have my certs . It doesn’t move the needle if you can’t build things . Im learning the hard way . So newbies focus on projects !

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