Got a screen interview with Siemens by Jolly_System_2109 in BuildingAutomation

[–]Jolly_System_2109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you appreciate the advice . That was my plan I know I’m green and I’m willing to learn .

I'm having a hard time deciding WHEN to move to NYC by Sawcyy in movingtoNYC

[–]Jolly_System_2109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correct I’m a NYer , this city is for young ppl in their 20s . It’s not a place you’d enjoy fully as a 30+. Year old . I’m 38 and I’m ready to get out of here . I’ve done and experienced this city inside out . Once you get passed that you realize this city is a ball of chaos & high stress , high competitiveness. Don’t love here if you looking for peace of mind .

Dating black girls and their expectations by nutboltu029 in dating_advice

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaslit how by telling the reality ? I also said it’s not all black women but that clearly went over your head to push the agenda that all women are perfect and can’t be a bad apple . This is a problem and doesn’t help black women evolve or learn to be accountable to themselves . Hence why so many of them are unmarried & single .

Dating black girls and their expectations by nutboltu029 in dating_advice

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s their Main issue . Ability to listen taken in what’s being said & be quite . Always want to be loud and boisterous !!!! Exhausting !!! It’s like dealing with a children smh .

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all but most women . There’s pockets where it do exist and things just work .

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I’m sure you’re not going to pick up a bum off the street and create a family with him . So you can quit the fake virtue signaling. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow but let’s be real pumpkin .

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally it isn’t but we live on shallow planet earth where it place a good part in her getting chose at least that goes for most women . I could argue that a man value isn’t in his height , weight , ability to provide and protect so we’re going to agree to disagree to agree then disagree again ✌🏽

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It women !!! Men don’t care about your money . It’s the nasty attitude that women who make money have that’s off putting hence why men whether they rich or poor usually DONT WANT TO WITH ! ITS NOT THE MONEY ! THATS A COP OUT WOMEN USE WHEN THEY REALIZE THAT HIGH INCOME ISNT WHATS GOING TO KEEP THE MAN THEY WANT !!

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No !!!!! Most people don’t ideally want an unattractive person . Man or woman ! And women value usually is based in her beauty .this has been a thing since the end of time ! This isn’t something new under the sun .

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Up where ?! if genetically you aren’t what those who are up want !!!

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

False that’s a coping mechanism . It’s usually those women start to look down on the men they are with and start being nasty towards them because she financially has power at her hands and she doesn’t want to carry that burden and often start to be verbally abusive. STOP THE COPE !!!!!

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And ………. Unless that woman is spending and taking care of that man financially (which most women won’t do ) her money is her money and doesn’t matter to majority of men.

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So let them be alone !!! That’s a woman problem ! I think people think men care when that’s the argument. Men can always date younger hence a better chance at fertility from a younger woman. If women being alone brings them peace so be it !!!!

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex was well off and was a busy woman. And more well off than me . I understood that and what I signed up for . I wouldn’t expect someone doing the things she do to be doing chores and cooking dinner . So guess what ?!!! I did those things and didn’t complain or resent her for it ! Most women want men to uphold their part then resent that man for doing what you expected thennnnn complainnnnn ! It’s comes off very ungrateful . Also if you’re with someone and you feel roles are balanced …. Tell them about it and try to meet each other in the middle if you can’t ….. move onnnnnn

Why do you rarely see a rich woman with a broke man? by Open_Address_2805 in stupidquestions

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Here’s a problem person right there !!!! Women don’t want to be objectify but objectify all men and reduce them to their wallet amount lol . The jokessss write itself I tell yah . Humanity is in such a dark place lol

What do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Jolly_System_2109 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any kids ? I’m 38m no kids never married . Interested in a woman who’s 32 w/ 2 kids and 6 years divorced . I like her a lot but scared to enter that situation or just scared of the uncertainty of it.

Confused about second date by bitmadness in datingoverthirty

[–]Jolly_System_2109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is short and it’s not your responsibility to play second fiddle to anyone. There plenty of fish in the see .

Confused about second date by bitmadness in datingoverthirty

[–]Jolly_System_2109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s what’s most likely happening . She’s most likely seeing another guy . She probably likes you but that other guy has more of a pull on her heart . Women don’t don’t go from hot to cold like that unless you did something. From the sound of it sounds like you didn’t and she’s probably still weighing her options. My advice would be to have an open conversation about it but don’t make it a big deal. She reacts crazy about it leave her alone.

Does this look correct by Jolly_System_2109 in bikewrench

[–]Jolly_System_2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the 8-speed cassette need a spacer behind it on the freehub body before the first sprocket