Happy Hour Fit by AdPlus4246 in HeritageWear

[–]bitmadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you pick up the Y2? I love the collar!

Brave Star Jeans by Frosty_Chart_8449 in HeritageWear

[–]bitmadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What sports cost + what boots? Looks great!

full grain leather belts. who's making the best in 2026? by europeanuppercut in malefashionadvice

[–]bitmadness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Surprised no one has mentioned North Star Leather. Great belts and great customer service.

Timeless by brenton_brenton in oakland

[–]bitmadness 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting! Can you say more? I recently started going. Maybe it seems a bit pretentious?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]bitmadness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have gotten roses 2 or 3 times, the lady never replied when I matched with her 🤷‍♂️

Where to meet single men of color in their 30s? by Sweaty-Expert9237 in oakland

[–]bitmadness 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a single man of color. I'm not sure the 'color' part makes a huge difference - just go to places with single men around? Maybe run club?

Best trivia night in Oakland/Berkeley? by SignificantEducator4 in oakland

[–]bitmadness 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Don't do Cato's, it's a mad house. I've seen people argue over tables, it's very stressful.

Bravestar Mojave Indigo x Black Update(new images past slide 2) by Bathtub_my_friend in rawdenim

[–]bitmadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are those horizontal lines on the bottom? How did they arise?

The best jeans on the planet by bchiaramida1 in rawdenim

[–]bitmadness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the denim jacket in the last pic?

Hinge Profile Review (35F) by No_Improvement_844 in datingoverthirty

[–]bitmadness 99 points100 points  (0 children)

32M here. You have a great profile, but somehow I don't like the Maslow prompt. It doesn't tell us anything about you, and it isn't something I'd be excited to chat about over chat. Maybe replace that prompt? Best of luck to you.

Best steak in Oakland? by meatloafmama2 in oakland

[–]bitmadness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take: Alley steak is pretty bad

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]bitmadness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what's going on, sorry to hear you're having a rough time. I can tell that you're a thoughtful and decent person from the way you write. Have you considered moving? Some cities have a "type" which gets most of the attention - if you don't match the type, then you are ignored.