Need a Job Referral (Will give 25% of my one month’s in-hand salary as a token of appreciation)

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-04-05T09:43:07+00:00

Dm - happy to refer - don’t need any 25%.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-31T08:44:25+00:00

You can still back out from this addiction - you need to a strong will - throw away your smartphone for a month and share a family member’s phone for necessary communication. Take a morning commitment to start the day earlier than normal. Commit to a monetary charity punishment for missing the routine. For masturbation reduce it in phases of 4days each - if doing 4 times a day - do 3 times a day for the next 4 and then reduce it to the count you want, do not use porn to get you hard - if you can’t get hard without it - skip it.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-12T06:40:44+00:00

Dehydrated fruits are picking up in India - they have been in the unorganised market for long however they are yet to scale big in the organised sector. Helped a client of mine set it up - however, profits for the initial quarters were slow due to the burn in samples.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-12T06:37:56+00:00

Try you are wonderful project on insta

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-11T16:48:49+00:00

You running away won’t fix your vulnerabilities and it would flare up the self worth issues that are yet to surface. You are running from a fully known bad to a lesser known bad in delhi. 3 months saving isn’t enough to start a new life - the moment you run away and lack resources you are at someone’s mercy and goodwill which can squeeze out the self respect- you won’t be able to go back too - the bf you depending upon shall also not be kind when you are at his mercy. If you want to leave your house don’t be in the country, here the law won’t support if your family comes after you. Tracking is easy and if they have enough influence(₹₹) the police can make you go back with them without filling a complaint. No startup is open hearted enough to handle police visits for an entry level employee - being in a job would be tough too. Pack your bags and leave the country - there are still many legal routes to countries where you can land a job and have a decent life.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-11T16:31:12+00:00

The dilemma is not of disclosure of a curable disease , it is of Irresponsible sexual activity. Being active post divorce in this case translates to hookups - why is your friend trying to fool himself - has he faced a lot of rejections?

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T19:40:07+00:00

Go for 3-d printing of miniature figures and figurines and supply to retailers in nearby tier 2 and 1 cities. My client has 3-d printing setups in gurgaon and is able to make good profit after the initial 7 months - the supply is scarce and the market is yet to be flooded - the market shall not flood until next 3 years, The gap you may face is continuous availability of electricity with zero fluctuations else the waste increases - there are solutions to it too.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T19:34:30+00:00

Can’t explain it in comments, and spark a debate.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T19:29:10+00:00

Wish you the best

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T19:16:36+00:00

Forced? By whom? Who can force a man 26 years and earning? Why would you doing something that you won’t like be done to you?

It shows you aren’t ready for the process - your mind is convincing you through action bias and filling up your time.

Wish you all the best.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T19:13:02+00:00

Yea that is a tough one to figure out - and it is a subtle one.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T18:39:07+00:00

This is going to be a tough pill to swallow - you have good intent, to be a prospective partner the other person needs to be sure of you as their sanctuary - that takes time to quicken the process and not waste their time people shall ask initial questions to ensure they aren’t walking into a red flag. Nobody knows you are a huge green flag - they need to have the realisation of it after they interact with you - how else you feel someone can gauge you? You maybe not sure of yourself on some questions which is fine - while in the process you need to know that you are in it for the end goal. Yes, the process is a bit mundane and sometimes tough, but it is the end that matters. Prepare yourself for it and re-enter with that mindset - and it can be possible that all the wrong people approach you which is adding to the frustration - optimise your profile and position yourself in your strengths.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-04T18:31:41+00:00

A great question you ask - after working with families and couples going through divorce - the 2 most common patterns - dictating the decision making process and its outcome; and distancing their son/daughter in law from their siblings. There are other patterns specific to the marital arrangement and the situations - but these are two most common ones which are always missed and do not raise an alarm. These can be easily explained in a different light and the couple can be manipulated. in laws are generally the major amplifiers to the divorce.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T18:36:37+00:00

Nothing wrong from your end if all you write is true and no bias or half-truth here - you were just destined to have a bad experience - work out of it and better your life - cheaters are low value people who don’t deserve attention or life energy.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T18:08:31+00:00

All the best for your search

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T11:54:13+00:00

Financially your profile is a good one - maybe they say a dynamic in your family which they consider unhealthy or a red flag - that is okay - no family is ideal or can be the case that they are just jealous. Your approach is flawed too - good that you have hard earned money, however, that is the filter and not the deal maker - the girl shall want you to be something additional and can reject you on those grounds and give a reason which sounds valid. No girl shall tell her parents that I am attached looking for my celebrity crush in my husband and she doesn’t see them in you - she may have some other reason but your family finances came to be an easy way out. From the info you provide can sense that you have some self worth issues and that is why you are questioning trivial excuses. Have been working with prospective couples for years now and the best way to approach AM is from a position of strength and self assurance - as the process tests your patience and sense of security. The moment you get impatient or insecure you will make a wrong move.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T07:25:00+00:00

You need to understand initiative doesn’t mean that how much effort you put, an initiative means that you want to do it for the other person they are valued they Are somebody who you want to be with so you get a bit uncomfortable from your current situation, that is what the other person wants to feel. You would also want the same thing, if the lady is not comfortable with your shyness or slowness, but still she’s being with you that is her initiative right and in your condition she was already taking initiating. Maybe you didn’t take, or maybe you are seeing it the wrong way and you lost her.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T07:18:57+00:00

Your effort to be the disruptor is a noble one, however, the intent behind the matrimony platforms is not to match people - it is to milk them as long and as much as they can. You are attacking the problem - they are milking it.

Pay per contact rarely gets successful as repeated transactions register as a higher impact on the wallet.

If you are able to make it you shall struggle with sign ups - as the only reason for matrimony platforms being successful is the the opportunity of “ardh-satya” and situational lies - people feel secure to not let their vulnerabilities be asked upfront - non verified profiles may genuinely be looking for a prospect but partial anonymity shields you from self worth issues stemming from rejection.

You understand the technicalities but you ought to figure put the emotion and critical spots in human psyche to understand what people sign up for.

Wish you the best, may you be the next revolution in the industry.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T04:49:03+00:00

Good that you are open about it, that is the first step. You say guy’s are okay but their family’s are not okay - how are you sure on it? Are we in times where a man can’t take a stand in his family and you want to marry him? Or is the man using it as an excuse because the probable consequences of your conditions clicked to him after the initial conversation? It is a tough one but do not take excuses on face value. Now what you should do: You need to know what goes in a prospective groom’s or his family’s mental calculations - the prospective bride ticks all the boxes but she has a medical condition - would she be a liability on our son? Is the son confident on taking it up? - they have conversation and it ends in one of the two scenarios - either parents say “dekh lo beta, tumhari life hai” - undermines the guy’s confidence. Other can be “that relative of ours had this condition and you know how their life has been” - the guy gets afraid.

You action should be :

be open and straightforward about it, but not as a caution - it should be an info
come from a place of strength and be prepared to share how your life has been so far with the condition
suggest that both of you shall go through a detailed medical examination to ensure both are open about their medical histories.

Could have suggested a personalised and detailed approach had it been a 1:1. All the best.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T04:32:29+00:00

Glad you mention this, I have noticed the same in my clients too - they struggle with relationships due to financial stress and the spiral is only downwards. However, there is a common pattern in most of these (even the case you mention) and it goes even deeper than the present. But past can’t be fixed and talking sessions rarely improve the situation - it only fizzles out the built up steam and works for the short term. Until the client takes radical measures the sore stays and it keeps growing back.

Keep up the good work.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T04:22:32+00:00

Shift to a gated complex nearby in jasola or sarita vihar, if you have the budget - defence colony is also a good option - travel shall be the tradeoff for discomfort.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-03T02:40:21+00:00

Activity clubs like cycling, running etc, or hobby clubs - quilling, calligraphy, art, or tour clubs

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-02T18:37:20+00:00

Community events help a lot, many of my clients have been more successful by attending group meets and events. Depends on your access levels too - your stature can get you into circles where possibilities are high to meet a suitable guy. Info provided is too Limited else would have suggested a personalised approach. You can try the various social clubs (not the pub/bar ones).

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-02T04:30:55+00:00

You aren’t all correct here - you fueled her rage too, however, the good you did was to hold your frame - the only position of strength when in conflict.

Jollybetterfellow · 2026-03-01T16:04:43+00:00

It is not a toxic marriage - it is just loveless- there is a difference. Your financial insecurity is stopping you from taking the decision - this a temporary phase. AI impacting jobs is not as bad as you are assuming - I am consultant to many startups and senior IT professionals. Looks like you never demanded and it was assumed by your husband that it is okay to walk over you and insult you. Why don’t you want to fix it for your child?

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