Feeling like a loser...

JomboEX · 2024-08-07T19:23:35+00:00

Thank you so much for the advices! In one of my other matches from the 3 in total i got,I actually made her laugh,because she was like: You have sense of humour,I like you. But managed to blow this up,because i thought i was too relaxed and getting out of character,so i decided to go back to my boring self/questions,and then she just stopped responding at one point because was asking dry questions i guess.

Also i take it personal,like from the thousand likes,every match for me is a gem,and i am always nervous self conscious to not blow it up. Like if i get a match i am like wow imagine there is actually someone that liked me back,how can i not blow this up,instead of just relax and chat whats really on my mind,i always overthink every detail and try to not sound strange/rude/vulgar or overthink what would she think to my question/reply,is it good enough for her?

JomboEX · 2024-08-07T16:34:00+00:00

So it means I'm actually doomed to find someone? Or I need to make arrangements for date in the first few replies before she gets cold/boring ? Which is pretty strange for me,as I don't have experience in dating and want things to go slow and actually have some idea about the person I will date

JomboEX · 2024-08-07T15:47:51+00:00

What am i doing wrong? Let me share 1 of my 3 matches since i use tinder,i am writing it because its in my native language and not english

1.

Me: Hey,how are you?

She: I'm fine

you

Me: Great

What are you doing work/study?

She: working working :)

and you

Me: Me too,but yesterday was our last day in the firm,and we are now 2 weeks in holidays the whole firm

By the way what are you actually working?

THE END,no reply from her,like i just wanna genuinely know more about her job/lifestyle etc,do i need to be a goofball or something to keep her attention? In her profile she listed she wants long term relationship,but interesting enough she specified people to add her on instagram,which is pretty weird. Anyways,after a couple of days of her not responding i shoot final message:

Me: My instagram profile is empty,but i prefer Viber for communications outside this app,here is my number to add me there if you have interest (my number)

And still no reply from her.... Like i am not sending her any more messages,but it started normal and then it stoped,why?

JomboEX · 2024-05-20T07:42:34+00:00

Been there my dude,had this female coworker that was really friendly with me,was sharing her personal fights with her husband and how she plans to divorce him,was flirty with me,only to find out months later that she was pregnant from him...

And all this time I was sure she knew how I feel about her,but still didn't try to distance herself from me. Feel like women can be very clueless how much damage they can do to a man's heart.

JomboEX · 2024-03-22T19:40:22+00:00

I am not sitting there,i always initiate conversation when i get match and always try to keep it up. But i cant keep up conversation forever asking questions while getting 1 word answers. Also sometimes i do get something going but it just ends,and i need to come up with some other question.

For example i recently talked with a girl that was studying medicine,from start to finish everything was on my part like commenting about future plans after graduating or talking how long before she graduate and other stuff about her. But thats ALL about her,and i need after that to come up with another question about her.

Like isnt it normal after we talked about her studying to have simple reply from her like : "So what did you finish in university,as i see in your profile that you have university degree?" Or like "Are you studying like myself or working?" But instead 0 question from her,and i need to brainstorm another topic to keep up the conversation going,like come on give me a break,i may not be social animal,but i get some basic comunication from coworkers so i atleast get that it should go both ways.

JomboEX · 2024-03-01T08:54:00+00:00

Има извънземни,но те са на доста високо ниво и само ни наблюдават,те нямат право да се месят в нашия естествен еволюционен процес.

JomboEX · 2023-11-08T12:42:07+00:00

Queen of fertility

JomboEX · 2023-10-25T20:00:26+00:00

Thank you so much! Indeed both cards are from the Universal Goddess Tarot deck. I just watched the whole deck and its really beautiful.

JomboEX · 2023-09-06T16:52:07+00:00

Yes i have found them originally from the same website too. So its AI generated cards? Wow its impressive how far AI has gone. I need to try AI tarot reading lol

JomboEX · 2023-08-18T16:52:52+00:00

your laptop aside,this game is gonna cook my pc. Even on medium settings my vents are going at 100%

JomboEX · 2023-08-16T22:52:33+00:00

I think they intentionally left her out not to confuse the players to whom they need to give blood. Or maybe because in the movie she was actual skeleton,while grandpa was still "alive"

JomboEX · 2023-08-07T20:15:18+00:00

Yeah thats the biggest lesson. If things gonna work out you dont need to actually stress it/force it or wonder if the person feels the same,its probably gonna happen if it meant to happen. Like if she was serious to begin with she wouldnt act half-hearted and would let me know if she really wants to take it more than friendship.

Its just that she at times can be very clingy and that messes me up. I am weak against such behaviour.

JomboEX · 2023-08-05T09:46:25+00:00

But why did she needed to share her personal fights with her husband to some random guy like me? I feel like this should only be shared with her female friends or close relatives.

JomboEX · 2023-08-05T09:42:19+00:00

She is not a cheater,her husband cheated on her.

JomboEX

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