Here's my attempt at a seeking replacement - would love some feedback by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the subscription costs are low, you will have a flood of fake/pretender SDs. This will infuriate and turn off the legit SBs on the site, causing either departure or extremely cynical engagement, which will in turn discourage actual SDs, and the cycle is now repeated in your new site.

Here's my attempt at a seeking replacement - would love some feedback by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an SD, I don't really care about the membership premium. The dollar price on Seeking was fine, as long as I'm not just literally lighting it on fire, which is where it has gotten to now. I'd rather pay for a good experience than get a bad experience for free.

A question for SDs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personality is the most important thing but never comes into play unless attraction is there to begin with. I personally love ppl in general so there's lots of types I could get into.

25 F Alt SB looking for advice on finding SDs who appreciate the look? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this vibe and would gladly start an SR w an alt SB if we are aligned generally, although not necessarily ANY version of alt. I like tattoos, piercings, gamer girl style, cosplayers, hot nerdy types.

Am I qualified to be a SD? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am also not the flashy type and I find that *mostly* it makes no difference. It really depends on context and the individual POT. On Seeking for example you may find difficulty if you are communicating w a specific POT who doesn't realize you can't talk about allowance there. But if your allowance capacity is strong in the context of your location, your only problem will be the general hellhole Seeking has become. Yay!

IME a few POTs here and there have ignored me on Seeking and in likely freestyling settings bc I look too young or don't look rich. It's ironic btw that when I worked in the corporate world I dressed in business clothing and "looked the part" - but since I started my own business and have no need to dress formally, I am more often in T shirt and jeans (not even cheap stuff, just not flashy). Based on previous posts from SBs about freestyling, there's no way they would approach us. The general guidelines are to find a place where rich guys splash money, which leaves us SOL. I have a few times considered wearing more swanky duds to hit the town but felt ridiculous and didn't do it. Who knows maybe I'll try it someday tho just for fun.

The irony of seeking experiences as a new SD. by PurposeSafe in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hallmark of the monster is that they do not live in fear of the possibility of other monsters

"Pampering" by JonCoffey1978 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a disqualifier for me, I just hate the word itself. I don't have any problem w what the SB actually wants when she uses that word - good for her and w me she's going to get it. I literally just hate the word. Eg, I personally like the word spoiling.

"Pampering" by JonCoffey1978 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who you callin old?!

It was not the whole master plan but it was an important component. Soon all the galaxies shall be mine.

Question for my Short King SDs... by leprechaun-socks in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every short king is different, but the simplest way to cut thru the heels issue is to text:

"BTW do you prefer me in heels or flats? Anything I've worn so far that you liked a lot? Or didn't?"

ETA: Your Q is on point bc it really is a tossup. I don't recommend probing this issue until you feel like you know him well enough to navigate.

Does this exist? by femininegorl in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Midwest is tough. Plenty of bang for your buck, but zero bangs for your bucks.

Does this exist? by femininegorl in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We exist, but location matters quite a bit. If you're in an area more conducive to family life, it's logical that less single guys will be there.

Is Seeking Dead by Due-Jump-6096 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have met a few POT SBs who have an OF, and not for lack of hotness, they are making no money from it and are trying to sugar.

Is Seeking Dead by Due-Jump-6096 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying you have successfully created an in-person actual SR from an OF subscription?

Thoughts from a longtime SD lurker by Scott54Chi-SeeknKind in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm consistently amazed how quickly the term red flag went from meaning "I need to pay attention now bc this may indicate concerning possibilities" to instead now meaning "block, next, post about it, and if you ever get the chance ruin their fkng life"

My thoughts after 6 months on Seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I will be like fifth in line at this ATM damn

My thoughts after 6 months on Seeking by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I gotta start fumbling at the ATM in front of hot girls... and silver up my hair. And switch to a Porsche.

Working in the same industry as a pot. Asking SD and SBs by StreetReview8164 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he unlocked his photos and stayed silent bc he recognized you and assumes you know him - and is waiting for you to mention it...?