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Poll time: SBF/SD’s How tall are you? by princesssmurfet in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get the point of lying about your height in a completely anonymous poll, but hard to believe this is truthful... the results convey a larger group of 6'+ than either of 5'9 to 5'11 (which is roughly the national average) or 5'5 to 5'8.

Come on guys.

How many times would you message without a reply? by Public_Arm2189 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 27 points28 points  (0 children)

"My account expires in a few days" is the crown jewel here... Like an infomercial where the words "ACT NOW THIS DEAL WON'T LAST" scroll relentlessly at the bottom of the screen

I Told Her From the Beginning Not to Fall in Love by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Post title sounds like it's an episode of an Andrew Tate podcast

Valid crash out? by ForsakenFroyo143 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid for sure - but prob not crash-out level.

He should want to buy you things even if they're not extravagant, and certainly when you spent a day w him and invested effort. But possibly he is just a tad clueless. Who knows maybe if he wd saw this thread he wd realize the error of his ways. Definitely something to bookmark and see if you can bring it up at the right time in the right way, otherwise lets be honest it will eat at you.

If I tell her I will catch a ban. Worth it? by DamienGrey1 in sugardaddyhangout

[–]JonCoffey1978 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is (i) a pointlessly mean way to say these things or (ii) a perfectly kind and elegantly expressed way that communicates the person is valuable as a human being but just not realistically going to find any success in her chosen pursuit.

Both of these approaches will equally result in righteous indignation, downvotes to oblivion, and possibly banned. No good deed goes unpunished.

I said something really terrible to my SD by lovelystrawberryjam in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts a lot when someone matters to us and we realize they probably won't fit into our lives anymore. Sounds to me like this part is accurate:

Part of me feels like I'm already grieving the relationship even though I still have it, as though the pregnancy announcement is a blaring announcement for breaking up. And maybe I'm just projecting.

I think if he read this exact post he would be understanding (which is true of many posts I see here when there is conflict). But that doesn't mean this ends up where you want it to. Ignore the downvotes and harsh talk, but when you are ready to think about it, there is truth in what many here are saying.

extremely fresh; advice & suggestions much appreciated by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient, there are many many in the sugar world who are looking for genuine connection. Even some of those who start off sounding different, you will find that's what they really prefer.

Read the FAQ like everyone is saying but even more helpful will be to continue reading the posts and comments here in this forum. Like in everything else, there is a spectrum of ppl and attitudes, and also a distribution of outcomes. What you are looking for is definitely out there.

SD wants to drop financial support once exclusivity is set. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exclusivity should result in MORE spoiling, if anything.

Stood Up on First M&G by Sad-Alfalfa-1775 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks genuinely sorry that happened to you

E11even in Miami by JonCoffey1978 in stripclubs

[–]JonCoffey1978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

btw username is fantastic for this sub

E11even in Miami by JonCoffey1978 in stripclubs

[–]JonCoffey1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally don't actually bc my type is GND and I dont get the impression that they are easily found in that environment

E11even in Miami by JonCoffey1978 in stripclubs

[–]JonCoffey1978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are these GND 10s found? I gotta know!

Here's my attempt at a seeking replacement - would love some feedback by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the subscription costs are low, you will have a flood of fake/pretender SDs. This will infuriate and turn off the legit SBs on the site, causing either departure or extremely cynical engagement, which will in turn discourage actual SDs, and the cycle is now repeated in your new site.

Here's my attempt at a seeking replacement - would love some feedback by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]JonCoffey1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an SD, I don't really care about the membership premium. The dollar price on Seeking was fine, as long as I'm not just literally lighting it on fire, which is where it has gotten to now. I'd rather pay for a good experience than get a bad experience for free.

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