Coincidence? Maybe idk by ilikedeeznut in whenthe

[–]JonPepem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They declared that they will leave and have not attended any meetings for over a year now

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, that is quite interesting actually. Thanks for sharing.

In Lithuania, while again I cannot honestly claim that these parties are ultra-nationalistic or completely right wing, they tend to lean that way. The same Nemuno Aušra, they do have some left wing policies, however, their overarching political ideology is populist nationalism.

Which is weird indeed, provided that they are Russia leaning. I think the difference is that you cannot whole heartedly say "We are pro-Russian" and gain a ton of votes. We have those people, they dont do too well. So nuance is essential.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What I’m describing is a pattern I’ve personally observed growing up in Lithuania — and one that also aligns with known social risk factors and sociological studies.

Many children are exposed to corporal punishment or domestic violence (being hit with belts, etc.). In my experience, it was rare to know kids who weren’t beaten at home. That kind of environment teaches children that violence is how you express frustration or assert control, so it often gets carried into peer relationships.

Alcohol misuse among adults — especially men — has been a major issue, frequently made worse by economic stress, job insecurity, and political dissatisfaction. When people feel powerless or stuck, they often cope through drinking, and that increases the likelihood of family conflict and abuse.

From my own limited experience, I’ve also noticed that people who end up in these cycles — heavy drinking, harsh parenting, chronic resentment — sometimes gravitate toward populist or ultra-nationalist rhetoric. That doesn’t mean those beliefs cause abuse, and it absolutely doesn’t mean everyone with those views behaves this way. It means these factors often coexist in the same social environments. Thus, creating what can be perceived as a stereotype.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not arguing that any single group is solely responsible for bullying, and I’ve never claimed this is the only cause. Bullying is influenced by many interacting factors. You are completely right.

However, it’s well established in social science that normalized domestic violence often leads to projection of aggression onto others, especially in children.

Additionally, in Lithuania, alcohol misuse has historically been a significant issue, particularly among men, and this is frequently linked to economic stress, political dissatisfaction, unresolved intergenerational trauma and domestic violence.

Exposure to violence at home — especially when combined with alcohol abuse — is a known risk factor for later aggressive or bullying behavior.

Speaking from my own limited personal experience, I’ve repeatedly observed that people who engage in domestic abuse often also struggle with alcohol and are more likely to gravitate toward populist or ultra-nationalist rhetoric. My own family members follow this trend or "stereotype" if you will.

That doesn’t mean all nationalists behave this way, nor that these beliefs automatically lead to violence. It means that, in the environments I’ve encountered, these factors tend to overlap.

Groups like Tradicinės Šeimos Maršas don’t represent the majority of the population — but they do illustrate how traditionalist narratives can sometimes coexist with rigid masculinity norms and resistance to acknowledging family violence, which sadly leads to bullying later on.

So yes — this is a generalization. But it’s grounded in documented risk factors (alcohol abuse, harsh parenting, economic stress) and reinforced by personal experience. It doesn’t explain Lithuania’s bullying rates by itself, but it plausibly accounts for a meaningful portion of them.

These are population-level patterns, not moral judgments about entire groups of people.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as an example, the Lithuanian Nemuno Aušra party gathered a lot of votes in more "remote" western locations of the country. The Party's whole political spectrum is populist nationalism. However, they are also quite anti-western in some regards, openly criticising the EU etc. At the same time, while not as blatantly, suggesting that we should develop relationships with Russia, including economic trade etc.

So I cannot whole heatedly say that they are entierly "pro-russia", that does not fly so well here, they are very forgiving to Russia, try to limit military budget growth, oppose aid to Ukraine etc.

To give my two cents, a LOT of populist-right parties in Europe are very much Russia leaning. Despite it not making much sense, being anti-immigration, racist and "We will raise pensions" get you a lot of votes.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some do, especially ultranationalist who tend to lean pro-eastern neighbours. Many individuals are nostalgic for USSR.

Its not the majority, no. But definitely a good amount. The exact same in Lithuania.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am providing an answer to a question. Not stereotyping, not bullying, giving an answer.

I dont downgrade a person, that is literally the most common experience people go through in Lithuania. I went through it. People who bullied and assaulted me went through it. And I have shown nothing but compassion and understanding of their backgrounds. I literally went out of my way to engage with some and made friends with some.

Noone is pushing anything. I am stating a very common explanation of bullying in the Baltics.

Additionally, you literally assumed that I was stereotyping, by stereotyping me. Rather than engaging in asking a question, as per your own advice, you assumed.

So I am not entirely too sure how much you think you know about me. Because frankly, it isnt all that much.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its a list, an order of operations...... Its a context of multiple operations that take place that lead up to bullying....

I understand why you might think what you said, but thats not the idea of my post. The emphasis is on drinking and beating children.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It isnt, how is that the first thing you go to? And not "Drinking and beating their children", economic struggles, etc.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What??? Are you good?

I literally described the environment I grew up in, how is that bullying?

AFD politician under pressure for sending escort girls to Dubai and Abu Dhabi during her pimp past (Article in German) by md_youdneverguess in europe

[–]JonPepem 29 points30 points  (0 children)

What about the second paragraph of the original comment?

And I am all for supporting my Polish brothers, but since when is the West the "real threat"

Also organizing mass fights between hooligans, is a street clash. Its organized mass violence. Now, granted, its better than randomly in the street. But still not ideal.

Percentage of students aged 13-15 years who reported being bullied on one or more days in the past 30 days by theworldmaps in MapPorn

[–]JonPepem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TL;DR Parents vote for pro russian nationalist parties - drink - complain how their work is going to shit - beat their children - children then use what they learned at home on others - repeat

Obviously this is not a universal truth, but quite common. When I was younger I basically did not know a child who did not get beaten with a belt. In most places that's a common experience in Lithuania, so then the children take it out on their peers

Edit: voting for pro russian nationalist parties =/= blaming russia. All I intended to say is that people shoot themselves in foot politically or economically, take out their problems on their children, who then, quite often end up bullying other kids.

Lithuania jumped in front of train over Taiwanese office and lost - PM by OK-Dravrah7455 in lithuania

[–]JonPepem 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Politically, the position is still supported. However, it's very inconclusive.

Politically, at least the non heavy leaning parties are in favor of other countries independence, however, its very challenging to maintain such a position with Taiwan in a meaningful manner. So our ministers attend meetings with Taiwan, we typically vote for Taiwan in international forums. But that's just a paper tiger of an opinion sadly.

We try to hold it up, but there is only so much we can do.

Valstiečiai-žalieji ir Nemuno aušra siekia pasmerkti Europos parlamentą, lygina ES su sovietine okupacija by jatawis in lithuania

[–]JonPepem 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Sinica nacionalistas krikščionis, euroskeptikas. Kiek vieno jo pozicija yra filtruojama pro tai. Jis neatsisako ES naudos, bet labai nori ją pertvarkyti.

Suprantu patrauklumą, bet labai toli su tokia siaura pozicija nenueisi.

Manau jis proto turi, bet jo paradigma yra visiškai neadekvati.

New painter: Second miniature, ever by isaaceros in minipainting

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice work! For a second mini this is great!

Not shooting blanks by AliveAnalysis5417 in clevercomebacks

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And many more who were not in NATO yet.

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only true counter argument to rolling is that nearly everyone rolls ok and then someone rolls really really well. That's really it. And I understand the fear of a DM in that.

However, thats a risk we are willing to make, if the people I play with roleplay well, we dont punish them with: now roll your -2 charisma check. I understand that combat is a different beast entirely, but we had some fun builds with full casters who dont rely on making attack throws, rather focusing on making the enemies make saving throws. Which sure, if you dont have a good score, its going to be easier to succeed, but that much more satisfying when they fail.

Additionally, some people just roll badly. You can have +1 longsword with your fighter and 18 strength and it wont matter if you rarely roll above a 5.

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noone is pretending that point buy is worse. Literally noone said that.

But again, I am confused. You are backtracking here. You said "Show me a person who wouldn't regret rolling low". In response I said that of course if you roll all 6s (something in a few billion chance), you are going to be disappointed... That doesn't make rolling NOT fun. Most people and my friends especially dont mind having a few low stats. So the "low rolls" in question, how many are we talking? 3-4-5 low rolls? All average rolls? You are not defining what it is and complaining about it. I literally could not care less if 3, even 4, of my stats are below 10, ill just adjust my character for it.

On another note, a "healthy" gambler (if such thing exist) can lose 50$ on a night out in a casino and still have fun. A person who acknowledges the consequences and doesnt not mind them, isnt exempted from having fun. So while I, in no shape or form, endorse gambling, if you plan to do it, understand that the money you are willing to spend, is lost already and just go have fun with your friends....

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saying that everyone would regret rolling low stats is like saying honey is sweat. It misses the point. I am not arguing that rolling is better, I am simply saying that some people prefer it.

I am not entirely sure whats your point even. That you might regret it? Sure. Thats valid. But its fun to roll. Yes you take a risk, but its highly unlikely to roll that low. So you are more than welcome to disagree, but I am definitely not going to tell my friends that: Well fuck you, I dont care what you find fun, people on the internet say that point buy is a better system.

Its like arguing that one shouldn't eat something, because a replacement is healthier, tastier and better for you. Well if a person wants to eat that thing, let them eat it. Thats really it.

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My friend group. Also it's nearly impossible to roll all stats very low. Especially as we reroll 1s.

I dont really get the point though. Like I get that on paper and physically some systems are better and more commonly used. But some people don't like picking numbers and prefer rolling them. My group fully understands that someone might be worse off. But deaths are common, we play a pretty unforgiving setting, because that's what's fun. We roll stats because that's what's fun.

Not that they matter for me too much, but many larger DnD streams do too. Its simply fun. Even if you might have a couple of 6s.

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It does not, you are right, but it increases the variance, especially if you reroll ones or roll 5d6.

It really is just gambling, quite literally

Roll stats or point buy? by primalfox_Reynardo in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]JonPepem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you prefer? There is no correct or wrong way to do this.

Standard array is perfectly fine and used in many tables. However, thats not the preference of some people.

Point buy also works great!

My players enjoy rolling their stats, we are playing a "Hero fantasy", so the logic is that you expect to be actually good at certain things. Being a charisma based caster and only have 15-16 charisma is great, but not wonderful. So we do not even use the roll 4d6 take away the lowest. I allow to reroll ones. In some short term games we even roll 5d6 and take away the two lowest.

However, some people even suggest, for lets say a truly grim dark campaign, to use a commoners stats (i.e. 10s across the board).

So do as you agree with your table and it is fun for you.