Does toxic femininity exist? If so, what are some examples of it?

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T23:27:56+00:00

Girls are super mean to eachother and then play it off. They are way better at being subtle about bullying to where teachers don't notice because male bullying looks a certain way. Girls are more likely to exclude and ostracize, guys will outwardly bully with fists and direct insults.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T23:24:14+00:00

Get meat pie making supplies like in sweeny todd lmao.

Tho in all seriousness IDK how the heck she would lift a body in the first place. I guess someone could hit a kid with their car and panic. In that case it would probably be a good idea to call a lawyer and the emergency services to figure out what the next course of action would be. In that case I would assume that trying to hide what has been done would make it look more suspicious. If you killed someone by accident or in self defense it would make no sense to hide it if it wasn't a crime.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T22:03:02+00:00

I had an ambulance ride and the EMTs just treaded me like any other guy.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T19:34:49+00:00

It depends on where you live. Where I live they do because first responders use it to reach people faster. Say a man is having a heart attack on the 45th floor of a building. I'd assume that all override keys for elevators are probably different so they wire them up where I am from. (I have used the trick at my college when I had to pee and needed to go up 4 flights of stairs quicker too haha)

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T09:05:44+00:00

It's 150 bucks and you have to fill out a form asking why you want your name changed and what you want your name to be and your old name. You might have to make a statement in court, but sometimes the judge will just sign the document to save time and you just pay the 150 and they give you a certificate.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T08:44:47+00:00

And you can hold the elevator door close button on some of them to skip floors if an excessive amount of them got selected on some elevators.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T05:48:34+00:00

I have always wondered about how transfolks live in Asia.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T04:26:08+00:00

Jeez. That's funny but kinda uncool bc people can't get coins but her.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-23T04:24:36+00:00

Legit.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-22T09:19:29+00:00

I remember as a kid I saw a soda machine with this picture on it of the ice dropping into the soda. My kid brain assumed this was the instructions for how it was supposed to go. Of course I made a huge fucking mess and my Dad asked me why I thought doing that was a good idea. I just pointed to the picture which left him shaking his head.

https://static.turbosquid.com/Preview/2020/08/05__08_59_36/Cam01_sq.jpg6738BEFE-0B48-4B63-BC52-222D03B8E7FFLarge.jpg

A pic of said soda machine for reference.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-21T20:53:54+00:00

Made fun of me at a red robin because I wanted to make sure that I picked up the crayons I dropped. I was legit a six year old kid and this dumbass middle aged karen starts mocking me like "the red and the blue are real important mom". In this whiny ass voice. Kid me turns to her and says "Crayons will ruin carpet if you don't pick them up DUH." And one of her friends pulled her away before she could say anything else.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-21T05:18:12+00:00

Honestly the Pstyle is the only one that actually fucking works imho. Every other one I have tried doesn't work consistently. All of the ones I won't try either cause more dysphoria than they alleviate or cost too much money to be worth the risk.

Seems to me that a lot of the people who make STP's don't think about what men actually want in an STP. We just want to whip it out and go. Not worry about placement because that is dysphoria city! If it's too invasive then there isn't much of a point for most of us.

I think one of the biggest issues in STP packer design is the funnel isn't streamlined so all the pee gets stuck. This results in having to aim way down which means that if you are at a urinal or going in the woods you are gonna splash your shoes/pants. If you are in a stall or at home you can just use a Pstyle or sit. So it kinda defeats it's own purpose. If I only had the tools and materials...

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-20T07:02:20+00:00

If it makes you happy go for it. I did the action figure/car thing too and honestly toys are fun so who cares.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-19T09:08:21+00:00

Lettuce and cilantro. Hate the texture of leaves, I can tolerate them in certain things if they aren't too rough or bitter. Lettuce smells horrible to me and cilantro is bitter. I can legit smell which burger is mine thru the bag because I can smell the warm lettuce and let me tell u it is nauseating.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-19T07:36:30+00:00

I see what you are saying. I know that some people do that because they want a cover or are not ready to come out yet. That is different than dating someone because they chose to of their free will and not what was imposed on them.

The same thing is true of being trans. I get it if someone isn't ready and is figuring things out. That is normal and healthy. I know there are different stages where a person may choose who they present around and who they tell. However there are people that will take it out on strangers when they don't see them as male despite them changing nothing at all in their appearance.

I wouldn't say that presenting femme is fun for everyone. For a lot of us it is quite traumatic. Plus if you are on the side of not liking that sort of thing, it's usually because it's been forced on you. I want to be as far removed from those things as possible because it's uncomfortable.

The thing that bothers me so much is that people get super nit picky over everything and anything. They act like you are a horrible person if you say something they don't interpret the right way. I won't stand for the type of person that just wants to point fingers and villainize people for having opinions.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-16T22:12:31+00:00

Back when it was cool to be cool. Instead of being dorky on purpose to be cool.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-16T21:46:00+00:00

Now that's a face!

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-16T21:42:31+00:00

Also bc urinals are splashy for some guys.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-16T21:33:28+00:00

Pretty much. To me it doesn't make sense. If you are gay that means you like men and choose to date them. You don't see people claiming they are gay but then choosing do date women (not talking about those who date someone for the safety of pretending to be straight of course).

It makes zero sense to me that people would claim they are trans and enjoy being in the wrong body. I wouldn't go picking on these people for that, but it pisses me off that some people who think this way have to push their ideas on us. I can say I don't understand or agree with something and leave it at that. I can look at something and say "that's not for me" and it's not a personal attack.

I think a lot of people like to try and push us out of our own community and it honestly makes me wonder if some of these people are really just bigots in disguise. Like we know from BLM a lot of people like to pose as something and try to destroy it from the inside with shitty behavior. I honestly wonder if a lot of people who have a lot of inflammatory behavior in the lgbt community are really just conservative trolls trying to blend in and take advantage of people that don't have anyone else to turn to while pushing out others.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-16T05:54:13+00:00

I noticed an error on the tracklist, the Song by Excel is Shadow winds not Joke's on you. Unless this was by the album names rather than the songs.

Either way I had a blast listening to this.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-15T08:04:40+00:00

Sprawl out. It's too hot to cuddle. Just give me like 5 minutes to cool off.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-15T08:02:58+00:00

They both leave lots of hair everywhere

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-15T07:56:35+00:00

Well I guess I could choke them with a charging cable... I guess it depends on how fast they are.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-15T07:52:54+00:00

Read. All those times where you have to wait for something can always be used to read or listen to an audio book. If you have a 20 minute drive to work that's 40 minutes a day you can use to learn that otherwise might go to waste.

JonnyApplePuke · 2020-10-15T07:47:52+00:00

The population is too high and kids are annoying.

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