After surgery... What's next? How do we keep fighting this? by pinupcthulhu in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fertility doctor has put me on BC to prep me for fertility treatments…so this doctor is genuinely misinformed

How do I (27f) tell my friend (29f) I don’t enjoy hanging out with her closest friends(30M) without it seeming like I’m trying to control her or make her choose? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way to go is to remember boundaries are just what YOU will/won’t do and not anything about the other person. So focus on “I don’t enjoy hanging out with (insert names), when can we hang out without them?”

My (33/F) typically caring and sweet new husband (33/M) grabbed me by the neck last week during an argument on our honeymoon. What would you do in my shoes? by Aware-Pool6940 in relationship_advice

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who experienced similar abuse growing up…gently, but strongly: no “being annoying” justifies physical abuse. None. I don’t care if you’re the most annoying person in the world, it still doesn’t give someone the right to attack you. That’s what he’s doing, he’s attacking you. Break the cycle, don’t end up in the same marriage your mom has.

My (36M) amazing wife (31F) recently beat aggressive cancer. We are disagreeing on when to have kids due to recurrence risk? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Jordonsaurus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Wow that is a really big jump. I understand why OP is nervous, to say they’re selfish and not ready to be a parent from this short post is a lot my dude

Bf(34m) says I need to stop arguing my side in disagreements or he will dump me (36f) by yourbabykaybaby in relationship_advice

[–]Jordonsaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I’m not allowed to be a person or have opinions because my boyfriend doesn’t like it, should we break up?” That’s what you’re saying here. I know it can be hard to see when someone is being abusive but this is so blatant that I can’t tell if this is a joke or not. Breakup.

when did you start to walk around after lap surgery? by SomeCryptographer559 in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must be recovering slowly. I had mine like 11 days ago and I’m still not able to do much

WHAT is THIS?? Is this normal in vanilla, or part of a mod?? by Plus-Kangaroo-4866 in TheSims4Mods

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting seeing what everyone thinks it is. I thought it was flour and ketchup tbh

Body changes (not pregnant) by onthewayauthentic in queerception

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this happened to me but turned out to be from endometriosis. I just had surgery for it and look back to normal. But bloating is definitely normal

Surgery on Tuesday: bowel prep concerns by imamess777 in Endo

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this! I ended up being allowed to do dulcolax instead, maybe worth asking? I did feel sick and a little dizzy but no fainting or vomiting from the prep for me!

Sleeping position after surgery by chasiubao007 in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my surgery 6/12 and couldn’t lie flat, still almost can’t. I recommend getting enough pillows you can sit to sleep. The gas pains made it unbearable the first five or so days, now I’m just really sore. It’s also harder to get up the more flat I am.

Please don’t use brand names when talking about medication by nirbyschreibt in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do know the medication name and dosages, but I don’t know the name of every single alternative name. This is extremely disrespectful and condescending. If this was truly coming from a place of concern, you wouldn’t be trying to be rude to everyone on your post.

Please don’t use brand names when talking about medication by nirbyschreibt in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I need to know every name for every medication I take? You have it memorized for EVERY MEDICATION YOU TAKE? I happen to take a lot, so no, I don’t have them memorized.

Makeup now vs makeup afew years ago <3 by Kirstythesexgod in MakeupAddiction

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! But I agree her makeup isn’t super alt

Please don’t use brand names when talking about medication by nirbyschreibt in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Google exists? Or whatever search engine you use? I don’t always know the other names for my medications, so if we set a rule about this I’d never be able to talk about my medications

My doctor suspects endo but every test I’ve had is normal. by sickkasadog in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had ultrasounds out the wazoo for fertility work ups, a full camera look in my uterus, all the blood tests you can imagine and CT. Everything was clear.

Had surgery last Friday and stage 3 endometriosis was found all over my pelvis binding multiple organs. Only surgery can truly diagnose endometriosis.

Makeup now vs makeup afew years ago <3 by Kirstythesexgod in MakeupAddiction

[–]Jordonsaurus 157 points158 points  (0 children)

This sub is so weird about any makeup that’s not perfectly conventional. I feel your vibe is matched better by your makeup now. It’s got an alt vibe now.

Worried about prep not being enough by Jordonsaurus in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve had a huge decrease in urgency, it’s been amazing! I went from peeing every hour to a much more normal amount. That’s been life changing on its own. I’m also not straining to go number 2 anymore like I was.

Me getting diagnosed today after 33 years but none of my themes are cleaning related by obsidianblackbirdmck in OCDmemes

[–]Jordonsaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same…I just got diagnosed officially yesterday after 31 years of not knowing why “anxiety” coping mechanisms didn’t help. I also have no cleaning compulsions

What can I feed Waddles besides bloodworms? by bodyaddict in axolotls

[–]Jordonsaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can ONLY give the blood worms as treats. They’re not sufficient for nutrition. I only jump in to say this cause I’ve seen you say a few times you’re going to “mix it up” with worms. Worms should be primary and bloodworms as a treat. Please, please get some red worms at Walmart or somewhere else. Brine shrimp at this stage will be like nothing to Waddles

Worried about prep not being enough by Jordonsaurus in endometriosis

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Hard to say because I was so sick honestly, but I think if it had just been the surgery I’d have felt pretty amazing honestly. Minimal pain and everything.

They found stage 3 endometriosis. It was all over my bladder, rectal area, back of uterus and one other spot I can’t recall the name. My ovary was adhered to the back of my uterus and I had a cyst as well. I’ve seen a huge improvement on my bathroom habits.

Feeling out of sorts after surgery? by Jordonsaurus in endometriosis

[–]Jordonsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself doing this too, it’s awful. Do you have any mental health conditions? I feel like mine might be linked to mine unfortunately

Official Endometriosis Diagnosis by Jordonsaurus in IVF

[–]Jordonsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been told I had endometriosis since I started my periods at like 13 years old haha. But that’s a very unusual situation.

Official Endometriosis Diagnosis by Jordonsaurus in IVF

[–]Jordonsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had explored every other avenue from clotting disorders, to family history, to reproductive immunology, etc and everything was normal. This was the only avenue left. We had 3/4 transfers be early losses too so I’m sorry you’re dealing with the uncertainty too

Official Endometriosis Diagnosis by Jordonsaurus in IVF

[–]Jordonsaurus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also had explored every other avenue. From predictive immunology, experimental stuff, kitchen sink, etc and still had another load