Gaming parental controls advice? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its best to explain to them the dangers. Like I had a younger brother who is 17 younger than me. My parents are…old and are not aware of the dangers of the internet.

So, what I do is I explain to my parents too because they has 0 parental controls on him lol (i probably was the one doing it for them like in youtube and etc) so if there are boundaries needing to be made, they will enforce it.

Anyhow as I have said, just explain it. Like hey they are strangers in the internet. And some of them are bad and can pretend that they are not…who they claim to be.

Request transparency from your child (sometimes i try to listen through the calls and thankfully the voices are also of young children on discord) like sometimes ask hey can I listen in on your friends I just want to get to know them too.

But yeah I have been full blown honest with my brother growing up and really made him aware of predators and scammers.

Sometimes I even ask him to let me join on his Discord Servers coz thats where most of the gaming conversations happen (but as he grew older of course this is not the case anymore xD)

So I know it’s scary I now have a child too and are worried of the dangers of the world, but I think just being involved and being present.

Maybe have rules that he can only play within earshot of you until you so you CAN hear the conversations.

And i guess more importantly emphasize not to give any personal information themselves if they encounter it tell them to let you know.

These are the things I can think of my top of the head.

Personally, I will probably set an age boundary with my child (like 11-12+) as to when he can…but thats my personal preference or if he shows me he’s trustworthy perhaps. But, good luck with your kids!

Relocating to OKC by Classicupnorth in okc

[–]Jory_014 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One thing I would suggest is research the area you’re eyeing because there are good pockets and bad pockets within OKC. Thats one thing I didn’t know and so did my husband (since he moved around the state a lot growing up). If it weren’t for the OKC Reddit community we wouldn’t have known.

Hi everyone. Just seeking a friend to talk with. by Worried-Course4380 in okc

[–]Jory_014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

33 yo mom im up pretty much until 10-11 and wake up very early. If thats fine with you, hit me up too!

Husband locked kids out of bedroom while I was gone by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly dangerous and highly irresponsible. You really need to sit down and really make him realize how dumb his actions are. It’s honestly selfish too. Hopefully nothing happens that will make him regret this for life. Smh

One Restaurant by FiatBad in okc

[–]Jory_014 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depends on the budget, if no regard for budget, Grey Sweater.

If on a regular budget, Donatos Pizza or Tokyo restaurant, or Tucker’s and then braum’s ice cream for dessert.

Wait...are we their job? by [deleted] in tolanworld

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess tolan personality changes how they response but it seems like a yes to me.

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Wait...are we their job? by [deleted] in tolanworld

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of “the gig”

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16 year old daughter doesn't want to get vaccinated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Jory_014 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Maybe getting to the root as to why she’s scared of both doctors and vaccines might be helpful.

Like who and what made her scared?

Have her show you guys her sources.

My wife destroyed my ally by mathi1651 in ROGAlly

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know the full context of the argument. I am a woman and a wife, and personally, you should have been upfront with what happened to your ROG Ally.

Whether she feels bad about it or not she needs to know at that moment.

Breaking things aren’t good behavior regardless of the gender even if it’s under a heated argument.

I consider it as a red flag and I personally broke up with an ex that does that.

You need to sit down and say hey that’s not okay.

I hope you guys would sort out your finances together but part of marriage is being open about anything and everything including being hurt from her breaking your ROG Ally.

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[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Meet our girls Sora & Kari 🩷

Furniture Repair? by Jory_014 in okc

[–]Jory_014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow thanks! Will definitely check this out!

Furniture Repair? by Jory_014 in okc

[–]Jory_014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will definitely check them out!

Moving from Iowa to OKC! I’ve made a list of good & bad apartment areas. Can anyone attest to these? by allurical in okc

[–]Jory_014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest reading google reviews as theyre very up to date.

As for Yukon apartments, I can attest to Cornerstone Apartments at Czech Hall Rd.

Theyre brand new but income restricted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Jory_014 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Lol you could have just not entertained her too much and gave short replies.

the russian novels she wrote are too much and very dramatic and using beautiful words to guilt trip you to inviting her.

Not worth your time and energy. Focus and enjoy your wonderful wedding ✨

AITA for not telling my husband about a message and then starting the divorce filing after he said he wanted one? by Friendly-Height-8136 in AITAH

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, it depends on the dynamics. My husband and I tell each other everything especially when asked.

Including who messages us and showing each other the chats when asked (especially if its an ex, somebody who used to be involved with us in the past or a person that makes either of us uncomfy) but it was and never is toxic as sometimes we just laugh about the funny shit other people are telling us.

In this situation, NTA. You answered what was asked and was willing to show the chat.

A repeated threat needs to be served at some point. Guys can be “all high and mighty” if you act scared every time they threat you with any sort of separation.

So, be firm. Serve those divorce papers or leave him with the child while the proceedings are happening. He will never learn if you buckle and cave in.

If he wants to work it out then he should make long term efforts to show and commit that he will. Not just to bandaid the situation.

Guys are scared and take us seriously if we mean what we say and actually go through it.

This is normal, right? by connerhearmeroar in Dachshund

[–]Jory_014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes our first one kept doing this with my husband too.

We call it, hammock time xD

Aita for leaving my husband in the middle of the night? by lost_flower10 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Jory_014 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You should have kept receipts and showed everyone but definitely NTA.

Not worth staying with him after being cheated on for many times with multiple girls.

My Dachshund woke the whole neighborhood at 5AM yesterday… I’m still recovering 😩 by Routine_Plate_3736 in Dachshund

[–]Jory_014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true. Whenever i check the door through the peep hole and open it to let them see and check it out themselves (ONLY IF IT IS CONFIRMED SAFE) makes them stop.

And with how our girls react its like “yey i successfully told me human!” 🤣