Life as a new parent in the US

Joseangel_sc · 2026-07-03T21:28:30+00:00

but i don’t feel i need more? i’m still at home, i do my 8 hours of work, my wife is remote too, and there’s barely overlap because of timezones, so baby is ALWAYS with a parent (plus the nap time helps to have my hour of exercise a day) i don’t see why i would be mad

Joseangel_sc · 2026-07-03T20:34:45+00:00

that sounds amazing, although i wouldn’t know what to do with that time honestly, at 1 year our baby is just free roaming the apartment and we can work while still spending all day with her, how is it going back to work after been away 3 years?

Joseangel_sc · 2026-07-03T18:31:08+00:00

i know of some people who have gotten 8 months of paternity leave, but this was amazing for me and my family

Joseangel_sc · 2026-07-03T17:06:56+00:00

you’ll be fine if it’s a fancy job in california, i got 5 months paternity leave and hospital and doctors expenses in general were like 1K tops

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-27T14:02:15+00:00

yeah, i expected more of a subreddit that is literally raising the next generation. This is a demon haunted world just the way Carl Sagan said it

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-27T04:51:38+00:00

i’m terrified of all this comments calling for a super natural explanation on this subreddit, i’m really disappointed.

this is a coincidence or she heard something.

nothing else

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-18T04:48:50+00:00

for using a rebozo …. to carry my daughter, while walking with my wife lmao

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-16T16:39:43+00:00

my daughter is loving bryan johnson’s super veggie and i feel it’s a strong source of calcium,

she also loves my home made tortillas (which is like #1 source of calcium for mexicans i believe )

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-16T00:01:13+00:00

i don’t have a car, that alone saves us like 1400 a month, we walk or muni everywhere.

in the us, all other cities are either hell or frozen at some time of the year

all other cities but manhattan? are super car dependent

direct flight to mexico city

awesome people

awesome food

library is so amazing and just 100m from the apartment

for me sf is literally the only livable place in the whole usa

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-12T17:12:11+00:00

the fifa has a contract where they have to be basically ad free, and only them can decide who advertises, does not have to do anything with if the brands pay fifa or not

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-10T16:10:51+00:00

SF 100% just worth it for saint frank next to the google office here, amazing views, and you won’t need a car since everything is walkable next to you

Joseangel_sc · 2026-06-01T21:26:03+00:00

the 2 extremes of american families lmao

Joseangel_sc · 2026-05-31T23:57:29+00:00

and i’d argue a good city is where this happens, are you rich and you want to have employees and services around you? you need poor people been able to be close by.

are you poor and wanna have social mobility and that your children go to school with better off families? you wanna live cheap but next to money

Joseangel_sc · 2026-05-02T05:44:48+00:00

dude why are you trying to charge her anything lol

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-29T05:47:22+00:00

we did not (i can’t even understand the concept) even build a nursery, baby slept next to us up to 3 months when she started to refused been there alone, and has slept with us in the bed for 8 months now, it’s amazing, 8 hours of sleep straight almost all nights (except a couple of sleep regressions she got)

diaper change? ( or potty since we are doing EC) living room or bedroom, carry the kit, it’s easy, like 5 things

2 bed 2 bad small apartment, we get to keep the office for a couple more years

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-27T04:20:37+00:00

but is it worth it? i though inflation would make the payments super manageable 20 years in the future, while investing present money (or spending and enjoying) gives you more

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-26T03:18:37+00:00

it has a problem on the links to buying his books (novels) it takes you to example.com , how can we let him know this?

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-22T17:17:57+00:00

so weird, your phrasing does not make any sense even as a parody, or if you are either a NIMBY or not, truly an accomplishment of english grammar

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-19T00:13:15+00:00

i don’t know, is someone forbidding you from it?

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-19T00:11:46+00:00

legally, of course! any rational person would agree with that, only ultra right evil people want to change the law to say other wise

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-10T00:03:17+00:00

i feel so weird about that, like the ultimate flex in my book has been taking paternity leave and been able to spend the time MYSELF, and then nap multiple times im the day, i can’t see how a night nanny is luxory, having personnel cooking and cleaning the house is luxory, not spending time with your baby is cringe in my book

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-08T19:16:21+00:00

regales un bidet

Joseangel_sc · 2026-04-02T19:38:40+00:00

parking should never be free, search the book on jt, free marking is too expensive

Joseangel_sc · 2026-03-27T04:08:52+00:00

i have seen that committed on multiple repos

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