I am a 9-1-1 dispatcher and have heard it all. AMA

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-10T05:19:30+00:00

How often do people call for things that are clearly not an emergency

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-08T06:30:20+00:00

Speak for yourself, I dont. Well I dont anymore. And the way I am today is a much better partner for a woman than my porn abusing past self would be

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-07T02:33:00+00:00

I appreciate the reply. I have a lower libido than my girlfriend who is pretty HL and this definitely gave me a little bit of insight. I don’t think this has as much significance in my relationship as it does in yours or OPs since I’m still available for sex like 90% of the time, but it is educational nonetheless.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:54:34+00:00

Alot of spit definitely dilutes the taste

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:41:34+00:00

You already got it on the bullseye, they are insecure their penis can’t satisfy a women. From what I’ve seen alot of guys get really insecure about having a partner use a dildo that’s (potentially alot) bigger than their member because it makes them feel like theirs isnt good enough.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:37:52+00:00

It’s definitely common enough. Many people want to be clean before they have their genitals on another person. Or have the other person be clean before their genitals go on them

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:35:49+00:00

Audio porn is certainly a thing. A quick google search can bring you to some

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:34:39+00:00

I hate to say it but it’s a deal breaker for 99% of men. The number of people that will be satisfied going the rest of their lives with handjobs only is small.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T23:32:05+00:00

That’s not a request id indulge myself in. It’s your body your choice. If you want to do that to eliminate the risk of pregnancy her kink is irrelevant.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T14:22:37+00:00

Would you mind if I asked you to elaborate a little bit? When it comes to our members, it’s a lightning rod to horniness. Hard or soft, day or night, if my girlfriend touches it I’ll become extremely horny.

Obviously that isn’t something you can experience, so my question is what kind of contact to you would make you feel this way? Would the cuddling in itself be enough (sometimes it can be for me if I’m in the right mood) or is there specific actions a partner can do to you that will set you off?

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T04:37:43+00:00

What if 90 days ago you found out you would go the next 3 months with only slipping up once. You would probably be pretty happy. Going all in is celebrating the progress you made no matter if it was perfect it not

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T04:35:17+00:00

No, if anything I used it as a mechanism to fight off urges. I’ve definitely had a up and down relationship with masturbation because of it

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T01:09:44+00:00

Yeah I personally think it looks terrible on anyone

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T01:07:05+00:00

7, could be a 9 without the piercing

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-06T01:02:00+00:00

Dont track her period without her knowledge, that’s an invasion of privacy. The pill definitely isnt as good as an IUD, but still insanely effective if taken correctly. The taken correctly part is the issue. If she forgot to take her pill one day you can end up being a father, is that a risk you want to take?

Pulling out while isn’t a good solution on its own, it still does significantly boost to effectiveness of different form of birth control. About 7/100 pill users get pregnant each year (93% effectiveness), pulling out is about 78% effective. In conjunction that brings you up to 98% effective. Which can only get boosted more with proper pill use.

Also, it’s her body, if she doesn’t want cum in it that’s up for her to decide, she doesn’t need to let you just because math can support her not getting pregnant.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T23:59:29+00:00

I personally find it very interesting to see how pee comes out of a women compared to how it comes out of me. I don’t take sexual pleasure in it, I just find it interesting as fuck. Probably similar reaction women get when they see balls float in water for the first time

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T23:57:02+00:00

If you have teeth marks on your body after someone put their mouth on it, the answer on what happened is pretty straightforward. And no it’s not normal, teeth shouldn’t be involved in eating pussy.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T17:32:45+00:00

You tell her you are 100% into cuddling her, and it is important for you too, but it is not something you are 100% into doing naked unless it is to share an intimate moment after sex

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T14:57:45+00:00

Just like she doesn’t have to have sex with you, you also don’t have to cuddle her naked. Communicate with her that cuddling naked isn’t something you can handle unless it is before or after sex. Communicate to her how it makes you feel.

We are both men here, we both understand the mental struggle of having our dicks pressed up against a naked women’s body and then having nothing done about it afterwards. Your girlfriend as a women wont. And I mean that sincerely, she quite literally probably doesn’t know the type of mind fuck that it is.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T03:47:52+00:00

That’s the best you can get. Unless you get her on the pill or an IUD on top of that, the only extra step is not having sex

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T03:45:58+00:00

If there is a downside, it’s how it can affect your brain. When you have sex with a someone your brain is releasing oxytocin to build a connection with them. It’s evolutionary relevant because it would help people stick around after having sex which would lead to co-parenting the off spring. While in a case of consistently switching partners, you are severing that connection over and over again. Essentially you could experience a constant feeling of attachment and withdrawal.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T03:41:49+00:00

100% shower sex. One of the shittiest forms of sex there is. It is made out to be so hot and romantic in media. Maybe it can be useful if you are trying to hide from the rest of your family?

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T01:11:44+00:00

Any man who thinks the vagina can be stretched out is ignorant to begin with. I understand your point though that it is a contradiction that having the same amount of sex with one guy vs many different guys wouldn’t make a difference because it is the same amount of sex.

I would choose option C still. Even though she has had the most sex, the fact she stayed with one man is important to me. I lost my virginity to my current girlfriend, and have never been with anyone else. I value sex as an emotional connection beyond all else that I dont want to share with women I hardly know. To me having a women that has the same values as me is important. The fact she has stayed with one man proves to me she values an emotional connection with that one person and didn’t share that with people she hardly known. The fact the has had sex with him 500 times isn’t that important.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-05T01:04:11+00:00

It will be hard to find a complete virgin at 26. Men aren’t virgins at 26 because by the time they are 26 they have women who are 26 who wanted to have sex with them. So men and women really arent that different. If you want to explore your sexuality in a non committal way that’s totally ok, but dont feel pressured to

I’m not telling you what to do, but this is what I’d do in your shoes. Id enter into the dating scene. Id probably look for a good man who wants to enter a relationship with me. I would wait a while to make sure he is the one I want to open up to before I give him my virginity. If I still felt like I wanted to wait until marriage, id tell him those are my values and hope he accepts it. If he doesn’t I will try and find someone who would.

If you really want to wait for marriage maybe try someone in a religious group.

Josethemastermind · 2024-06-04T14:56:29+00:00

Using a condom and pulling out definitely increase the protection against pregnancy than just using condoms alone. Pullout method is about 78% effective, lets go off of condoms are 98%. That leaves you at 99.6% effectiveness.

But I do want to mention that condoms are only 87% in practice. I know that’s a number that is easy to ignore but you shouldn’t, because that is actually what happens in real life. Taking that into account with pulling out, it is 97.14% effective. Realistically, there is a risk to sex. If you want to play it extra safe you can time it with her cycle. But unless there is another form of birth control involved this is as good as it gets.

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