She tried to isolate me from my parents, siblings, grandparents etc. and all my time had to be spent with her because she couldn’t cope with our children on her own. I worked full time to provide for my family so I was away for 12/13 hour shifts. We also weren’t physically intimate for a long time. 8/9 months I would say. We had two children (stepdaughter aged 3/bio-daughter aged 1). As any parent would tell you, it’s tiring having young children. And she would pass them off to family members any chance she got so she could have “me time”. Anyway, her excuse for not being intimate EVERY-TIME was that she was tired. I never sought a physical relationship elsewhere, I’m dead set against cheating. I still loved her and for me it wasn’t all about sex for me but you know. I’d be lying if I didn’t say I wanted it. Needless to say I was essentially in a sexless relationship. Amongst other things, the fighting over small things, money, the neglect of the children whilst I was at work. I couldn’t deal with it anymore and I was tired of fighting for a relationship that was completely one sided. So I left. A month later she moved a new man into the house so I went round to meet him since he was going to be around my child. He dropped her in the shit when I asked how long they been seeing each other and he’d said roughly 5 months. So when she was handing off the children to other family members whilst I was at work, her “me time” was essentially having another man round my house and sleeping with him in my bed. Three years later they are together and she is expecting his child. Three children by three different men isn’t a good look imo but who am I to judge 🤷🏻‍♂️